A rant against Pornography and PornHub

[Someone here]

The bottom line about porn is it is one of the most disgusting and despicable nonsense to ruin your goddam life with . Anyone who has dived deeply into porn knows Exactly what I'm talking about . I said it before porn is runned by satanic forces . The only problem is it feels good .

[LordFall]

@Someone here Why do you say that? 

[Someone here]

8 minutes ago, LordFall said:

@Someone here Why do you say that? 

What do you mean "why "? 

I'm expressing my own subjective opinion and experience with porn.

[Paradoxed]

Porn is like a drug. It can be harmful but it isn't inherently harmful. If you do it a lot it could become a bad habit and you can spiral out.

 

[Asia P]

@shree you have it bc you arent sexually satisfied, i believe

[Asia P]

8 hours ago, Princess Arabia said:

Most people are not watching porn because they're unable to have sex with someone they truly love. Someone they truly love doesn't provide the perversion that porn does and doesn't satisfy their sexual fantasies. One has nothing to do with the other, especially for men.

 

8 hours ago, shree said:

This does not apply for perverts like me. I also have infinitly high libido.

I think that perversion grows because we are in this unnatural situation, ppl are bored of normal sex at least for two reasons: firstly for porn itself, that it is addictive and shows you always more and more; secondly, most important, because we are like monkeys in a zoo, we don't need anymore to go hunting our food, and finding our shelter, we're so disconnected from nature and this leads us to boredom. 

Wild mokeys doesnt masturbate....they have sex only for reproduction reasons, bc they dont have much energy for doing sex everyday, and all the time.

[gambler]

3 hours ago, Asia P said:

 

I think that perversion grows because we are in this unnatural situation, ppl are bored of normal sex at least for two reasons: firstly for porn itself, that it is addictive and shows you always more and more; secondly, most important, because we are like monkeys in a zoo, we don't need anymore to go hunting our food, and finding our shelter, we're so disconnected from nature and this leads us to boredom.

Wild mokeys doesnt masturbate....they have sex only for reproduction reasons, bc they dont have much energy for doing sex everyday, and all the time.

You are right when you say we are bored, in a hyper sexual environment, and therefore engage with lust more than we otherwise would. This reminds me a documentary from the 50s or whatever where a white American or Brit travels with bedouins for months across the empty quarter and he narrates off-hand how there was never a desire or energy for lust. Saying how could there be when you are constantly traveling and in need of food. This definitely is an eye opener. The frequency of wanting to masturbate or engage in intercourse is affected by the environment. 

As for monkeys, there are those who have sex for pleasure. And they have it a lot. Like bonobo chimps for example are hornier than humans. They probably masturbate a lot too. Oddly enough, our chimp ancestors were closest to the bonobo chimp. However, gorillas engage in sex less frequently than other primates and are primarily driven by reproduction. Humans have the capacity to not be exactly like the bonobo but more like the gorilla, but the environment plays a factor. 

Edited July 13 by gambler

[Rafael Thundercat]

We can study all the neuroscience, antropology and sociology of Porn addiction or even the reasons for moderate use of it. But lets remember that porn as we know it is a relatively recent thing, the capacity to visualiy "magazines" and visuality and auditorialy " audiovisual" ways to excite ourselfs is something new, and lets admit that today is free but in the recent past was payd or hard to find. 

I am from an Era where it was not so free. I was born before Internet Advent, 1981, so for my younger version, porn would be acessible only via Porn magazines, something difficult to find in my yougth and later via Playboy Magazines. I was living in Brasil in my yougth and to be true there was some magazines shops where the compassionte seller or maybe greedy seller would sell it for me, even if I was 13,14 years old. 

So, to a young person be exposed to this graphic things would be rare and difficult. My main source of excitation would be the girls in college clothes at school and bus. Natural excitation, and in Masturbation Imagination would play the main role. 

So, today with some prompts in a search bar a kid can have acess to a amount of Imagery of all sorts of Sexual styles that any human would have 100 years ago. 

To afirm that this will not have effects in thr psyche of kids is similar to say that if you would feed them with candies as main source of nutrituon would not affect them. So I am bringimg back to the main topic of the video that started this tread. 

Yes, we are free to do what we wish, grab your hand penis or vagina and scrub as you wish. But lets not say that that is all about it and there is not consequeces in an energetic an psycological level. The truth is that by porn driven orgasms we are not engaging in Real sex and Real Full body orgasm, only a localized orgasm, eletric current in the genitals and connected with thr Head, since we are not engaging in it with our full senses. Plus, a Vagina is not a hand, there is a temperature, humidity and a felt sense different than a hand. When you use your hand your cock musculature is creating a hardnening stucture different that if you would be massaging it in the walls of a soft wet vagina. And I am only talkikg about the genital aspect of it. Not to say the aspect of True intimate connection with another Human Being that is far more Complex and Energy rewarding that having sex with a Screen.

So, yes, when we need to have sex with a Virtual screen movie we may be doing for lack or real sex opportinities, what is not totally true since we know even guys in relationships become addicted to Porn.

In the end of day you will need to sit with youself and ask:

Is this practice serving the best for me, my life, happines,personal development and the connection I wish with women in sexual relationship? 

Can I do it and still feel amazing about myself? 

As many things in life, the answer is in your hands, literally in your hands hehe.

 

[Asia P]

@gambler theres a big difference between masturbation and masturbation with porn...i can imagine how few people can enjoy masturbation without porn...porn changes the brain so much

[Rafael Thundercat]

Either because you are bored or because you wish to see new Images of new girls having sex online in new ways possible

 

[max duewel]

1 hour ago, Rafael Thundercat said:

We can study all the neuroscience, antropology and sociology of Porn addiction or even the reasons for moderate use of it. But lets remember that porn as we know it is a relatively recent thing, the capacity to visualiy "magazines" and visuality and auditorialy " audiovisual" ways to excite ourselfs is something new, and lets admit that today is free but in the recent past was payd or hard to find. 

I am from an Era where it was not so free. I was born before Internet Advent, 1981, so for my younger version, porn would be acessible only via Porn magazines, something difficult to find in my yougth and later via Playboy Magazines. I was living in Brasil in my yougth and to be true there was some magazines shops where the compassionte seller or maybe greedy seller would sell it for me, even if I was 13,14 years old. 

So, to a young person be exposed to this graphic things would be rare and difficult. My main source of excitation would be the girls in college clothes at school and bus. Natural excitation, and in Masturbation Imagination would play the main role. 

So, today with some prompts in a search bar a kid can have acess to a amount of Imagery of all sorts of Sexual styles that any human would have 100 years ago. 

To afirm that this will not have effects in thr psyche of kids is similar to say that if you would feed them with candies as main source of nutrituon would not affect them. So I am bringimg back to the main topic of the video that started this tread. 

Yes, we are free to do what we wish, grab your hand penis or vagina and scrub as you wish. But lets not say that that is all about it and there is not consequeces in an energetic an psycological level. The truth is that by porn driven orgasms we are not engaging in Real sex and Real Full body orgasm, only a localized orgasm, eletric current in the genitals and connected with thr Head, since we are not engaging in it with our full senses. Plus, a Vagina is not a hand, there is a temperature, humidity and a felt sense different than a hand. When you use your hand your cock musculature is creating a hardnening stucture different that if you would be massaging it in the walls of a soft wet vagina. And I am only talkikg about the genital aspect of it. Not to say the aspect of True intimate connection with another Human Being that is far more Complex and Energy rewarding that having sex with a Screen.

So, yes, when we need to have sex with a Virtual screen movie we may be doing for lack or real sex opportinities, what is not totally true since we know even guys in relationships become addicted to Porn.

In the end of day you will need to sit with youself and ask:

Is this practice serving the best for me, my life, happines,personal development and the connection I wish with women in sexual relationship? 

Can I do it and still feel amazing about myself? 

As many things in life, the answer is in your hands, literally in your hands hehe.

 

Well written thanks !

[shree]

5 hours ago, Asia P said:

Wild mokeys doesnt masturbate....

....stopped masturbating while reading this

Edited July 13 by shree