Is a divorce always the man's fault?

[gambler]

40 minutes ago, NoSelfSelf said:

@gambler what brainwashing? Why do you think they always say women and children first? 

Man stands alone as his own strenght and support that's why there is no pity needed. Its strenght,we are not looked at because we suppose to be strong ones.

I agree but it can't always be the fault of the man. Anyways, this is all under the assumption that it's true that people mostly think it's the man who is the reason for a divorce.

[NoSelfSelf]

@gambler Yeah its not always, but precentage when it is women's fault, why is man allowing it in the first place since you train people how to treat you ,so then its not her fault because you are the one who didnt set the rules that was taken in consideration.If you bring massive value then her behaviour is going to be right it is common sense, but if she cant see your value then you dont marry her in the first place.There must be taken in consideration alot of things before entering marriage but the ones who bitch dont even look for solutions just the problems.So dont marry nobody if you think its gonna fail since you wont put effort in it.

[Emotionalmosquito]

I’m gonna have to say yes on this one, and my answer has nothing to do with whether or not he’s causing the problems in the relationship. But because getting married with all the information about how biased the divorce courts are against men, getting married is among the stupidest things you can do as a man.

[Basman]

Divorces are always complicated and have to be considered on a case by case basis in my opinion if you want to try to pin blame for the divorce. There's likely fault on both sides to a certain extent. Like, many husbands are accused of being emotionally unavailable and not supporting the relationships and many wives are probably bad at communicating with their husbands in a way that they can understand. The majority of divorces are initiated by women however, which suggest that they are perhaps more likely to feel unhappy with the relationship.

My guess for why we tend to feel sorry for the women post-divorce is probably due to a lingering culture of women depending on their husbands for basic survival. Back in the day, getting divorced or widowed as a women could mean starving.

[Spiral]

Men allowed it to be legalized, but I suspect that’s not quite what you mean.

Edited July 15 by Spiral