Must I report to higher authorities in college ?

[Rishabh R]

I am in 4th year of engineering . In my 2nd year of online I said a girl -I love you through text. She said me she will slap me in the face and told me to not to show my face in online classes. The next day I got a threat call from her friend of different branch. He threatened me to better know his name if I don't want to get disturbed in college. One year later I told it to my friend who is a girl of my class. She told me to not do it. I then told it to one of my super senior -he then contacted her. That girl talked to me and I said she could have said me no but she said oh really. Then she abused me . I contacted her friend who threatened me at that time and I said that I was hurt by him. He said me to stop crying. Then that girl threatened me to come to college in offline mode and she will beat me infront of whole class. When I saw her in offline mode she ignored me. Then asked I was passing by in campus she called her guy friend and told him - he is the one. Then she looked at me smiling. Now is the condition that she ignored me and I ignore her too. In a recent social gathering at a cafe when a friend of mine called me when she saw me she turned away and started talking to the friend. What can I do ?

[Yimpa]

No.

[Lucasxp64]

People are so nasty. You just said to her you loved her? LMAO. I literally had told some girl I met online without knowing she had a boyfriend that I wanted to kiss her passionately in an audio and mentioned spoon sleeping together and so on (and supposedly, her boyfriend even read it), although, I was careful with my language and the way I framed it though, and how allowing she was to those advances.

Which was shitty game, and I'll not repeat that. Leo had even written a whole slap on my finger on that shitshow.

Did she have a boyfriend? Did you ask her?

You probably didn't just tell her you loved her. You probably didn't read the vibe well enough... Read between the lines of the situation.

Edited July 3 by Lucasxp64

[Lucasxp64]

If the heat died out between all of you, don't report stuff unless you feel you're under the threat of violence, it will stir things up again if you report, and the higher ups go talk to them about it.

[Rishabh R]

@Lucasxp64 She ignores me and I ignore her too.

[Rishabh R]

Today another thing happened, I heard from one of her friends that she messaged him and abused me by saying (in hindi) this as***** is looking smart. However then one of her friends told that friend to not tell me about that thing.

[Raze]

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FTgrvy0IvkU

 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kdq8HnW0DW8

https://www.girlschase.com/article/killer-reputation-management-your-social-circle

[Rishabh R]

I talked to those friends and they told that they were joking .

[integral]

You want to immediately cut all contact with them and block all possible ways of communicating. Block all social media have no ability to see or look at anything they’re doing.

stuff like this happens a lot in high school it’s petty kids stuff.

want to ignore it immediately and not let it affect you and move on with your life.

There making fake threats but if you keep pursuing things and especially go to authorities they will start acting on these threats because they’re immature.

What your experiencing is extremely common, authorities will only get involved if there’s actual violence or some kind of long-term bullying that causes the person to take their own life. A cyber bullying protection plan.

but you’re not at that level I think a big part of what’s happening is that you have a victims mindset. yes you’re experiencing some bullying but at the same time you take it very personally. so on the side of self development you want to look in word and understand why it bothers you so much. unfortunately your emotions causes you to continue to engage with them making things worse.

Do not engaged. Make no contact and move on it’s all empty threats.

Edited July 14 by integral

[Rishabh R]

@integral thanks. It is in my control wether to move on or not , wether to look into the past or future.

[Rishabh R]

Another guy gave me a threat for talking to his girlfriend. While in this case his girlfriend was the one who initiated the conversation with me.

[Thought Art]

Just leave it alone and ignore her. Who cares?