Since I've been gone for a while, will it take longer for my topics to be engaging?

[AndylizedAAY]

Hello once again, I would like to know how much high quality content I make on this forum. It might be hard to answer because it's been a while but you can look at my profile. Do you think that conversations I post in are things I don't understand based on the topics I do start and is it even possible for you to answer to question? Now that I'm back, I would like to add value on this platform as best as I can, thank you.

[enchanted]

Is English your first language? Read what other's write and try participating in the posts more than posting original content. Eventually you will become a super forum contributor and reap all the amazing benefits of that (spoiler alert: there isn't any tangible benefits)

Edited June 29 by enchanted

[Lucasxp64]

LOL. Most of the highest quality comments I found through searching on the forum through Google for very specific things I'm facing. Most quality answers I saw someone organically wrote somewhere, and it got buried and forgotten by the noise of the discussion.

[WillCameron]

Yeah it's usually better to go to other people's threads and offer value to problems or topics they've made clear are most relevant to them by posting about them. This will help you build real relationships with people as they get to know you through engaging with you dialogically, rather than a soapbox monologue of a single post in which it isn't immediately obvious why it is relevant to them. Also, what exactly is your goal with these posts?

[Yimpa]

Welcome back! 

[AndylizedAAY]

1 hour ago, WillCameron said:

Yeah it's usually better to go to other people's threads and offer value to problems or topics they've made clear are most relevant to them by posting about them. This will help you build real relationships with people as they get to know you through engaging with you dialogically, rather than a soapbox monologue of a single post in which it isn't immediately obvious why it is relevant to them. Also, what exactly is your goal with these posts?

@WillCameron This only seems to beg the question why other topic starters can have a conversation last longer but not me. Is it because I haven't participated in other conversations enough? I haven't been keeping track of it if I find something to say in other conversations I will. Although I've gained spiritual insights, have they already been said on the forum. I have some really deep questions I came up with the life purpose course if you're interested but I didn't finish answering all 100 of them yet. Basically the goal of these kinds of posts is to see what people find valueable here and go with that instead of the goal being questionable with this post ironically. By the way, since I'm talking about my posts in general, what do you think about this following scenario and would this post help me avoid the feeling of resentment or only draw me towards it? My Dad was okay with me making purchases so it wasn't the mistake. I guess my posts can either be high quality or pointless but maybe I'm just self-contious because of past experiences.

 

Edited June 30 by AndylizedAAY
I wanted to ask a question at the beginning and to say what the mistake is not. Hopefully all my edits including the other ones can come with the @ symbol.