Girl punched me hard in the chest.

[Peo]

Night game: I approached this girl on the street. Then suddenly out of nowhere her friend punched me right in the chest and screamed “fuck off” to my face. All I did was approach her and say hi. I guess I can get punched for saying hey to a girl these days. 

Some few other girl i approached that night also told me to fuck off. The night was kinda brutal. Had some really bad experiences like awkward silence and feeling like a fool. At some point I just gave up that night and went home. For every bad rejection and experience doubts entered my mind. 

Doubts like: this is never going to work or wtf am i doing here. I guess all girls hate me. Is it my looks? My approach anxiety started to get worse for every girl I approached.

Feeling really down and unmotivated. I started to feel it in my tone when I talked to the next girl. The girl that punched me really got to my head. Started to almost cry on the way home. 

 

Anyone else gotten punched by a girl doing pick-up?

How do you deal with really brutal nights?

If i can get punched by just saying hey, am i going to suddenly get slapped for kissing a girl at the wrong time?

[Yimpa]

I approached a girl yesterday. I told her I was high. In the end, we shook hands like fine gentleman completing a business deal. 

I did get upset for leaving without getting to know her more. But it was important for me to feel what abandonment is like. 

I like to use approaches as an opportunity to learn more about my internal state.

Edited June 23, 2024 by Yimpa

[Raze]

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1IqVDvnDEJU

https://www.girlschase.com/content/dont-let-bad-rejection-ruin-your-night-out

[Leo Gura]

Makes no difference. Keep going out and learning to socialize.

[numbersinarow]

One punched me in the solar plexus while seemingly holding back and it didn't hurt at all. She said she thought I was someone else.

[mmKay]

Are you talking to random girls on the street at night? Definitely go to a club or bar to practice properly, it can come across as creepy if you don't calibrate on random streets specially if your vibe is off, which it sounds like it was

Edited June 23, 2024 by mmKay

[Peo]

5 minutes ago, mmKay said:

Are you talking to random girls on the street at night?

yes

 

6 minutes ago, mmKay said:

Definitely go to a club or bar to practice properly,

They have told me to fuck off there too, with angry faces.

 

6 minutes ago, mmKay said:

it can come across as creepy if you don't calibrate on random streets specially if your vibe is off,

I dressed nice and smilled so i don't know. 

[Yimpa]

Just now, Peo said:

I dressed nice and smilled so i don't know. 

I dress pretty poorly.

[mmKay]

No offense but it sounds like you lack basic socialization skills. It actually pretty difficult for girls consistently to be that mean to you.

Do you have any guy friends ? Any female friends?

Do you have any social life whatsoever?

How often do you have real life interactions with people outside of work? As in conversations or casual fun time that's 

If not, I'd focus on that first. Cold approach is good but it may be too much to handle by yourself

Edited June 23, 2024 by mmKay

[Yimpa]

1 hour ago, numbersinarow said:

One punched me in the solar plexus while seemingly holding back and it didn't hurt at all. She said she thought I was someone else.

At least she wasn’t yielding a hammer.

[Miguel1]

Whenever I get rejected, I get into state.

The harsher the rejection, the faster I get into state

[Peo]

29 minutes ago, mmKay said:

Do you have any guy friends ? Any female friends?

0 female friends. 7 bestfriends guys. 3 sorta guy friends, not very close.

 

29 minutes ago, mmKay said:

Do you have any social life whatsoever?

Does discord count?

 

29 minutes ago, mmKay said:

How often do you have real life interactions with people outside of work? As in conversations or casual fun time that's 

Does pick-up count? 10-15 girls per week.

Edited June 23, 2024 by Peo
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[Peo]

3 minutes ago, Miguel1 said:

I get into state.

What state? Full blown psychedelic state?

[Miguel1]

What happened to you is most likely because:

1. Shitty, self-defeating, negative, creepy energy

and / or 

2. They were in a really bad place emotionally when you approached them. For example, if someone is crying and there's a friend trying to solace her, probably not the best time to approach.

and / or

3. They just literally got harassed by 3 different guys in a row approaching them

[Miguel1]

3 minutes ago, Peo said:

What state? Full blown psychedelic state?

Flow state. You can get into flow state while socializing too.

It activates your best socializing qualities like charisma, confidence, wittyness, humour, strong sexy eye contact, good body language etc.

And not only activates, but gets them online into full 100% capacity.

Edited June 23, 2024 by Miguel1

[Peo]

1 minute ago, Miguel1 said:

2. They were in a really bad place emotionally when you approached them. For example, if someone is crying and there's a friend trying to solace her, probably not the best time to approach.

and / or

3. They just literally got harassed by 3 different guys in a row approaching them

The most reasonable explanation. I have seen girls crying and puking when i have gone out.

Edited June 23, 2024 by Peo
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[Miguel1]

Just now, Peo said:

The most reasonable explanation

Don't neglect the 1. option, your energy.

Obviously it is the hardest one to admit because then the issue is on you.

But when it comes to socializing and pickup, energy and vibe is everything.

[Peo]

27 minutes ago, Miguel1 said:

But when it comes to socializing and pickup, energy and vibe is everything.

Ok, but i don't really know what people mean when they talk about vibe and energy. Is that in my head?

[Kid A]

3 hours ago, Peo said:

Night game: I approached this girl on the street.

The street is daygame. Nightgame is bars and clubs. Don’t do daygame during the night and vice versa.

Edited June 23, 2024 by Kid A

[Peo]

5 minutes ago, Kid A said:

Don’t do daygame during the night and vice versa.

You know most nightclubs and bars are close on the day right?