What's wrong with having sex with many people?

[Miguel1]

2 hours ago, integral said:

4) promiscuity becoming normalized for teens has created hypergamy in our culture. Hypergamy is found in people Who skipped stage blue and never learns the purpose of community and supporting each other. They view relationships in a self-serving way and do not see a degree of responsibility to others. 

Interesting view through the fact that they skipped stage blue.

I would add that because of social media, kids and teenagers have learned to be more narcissist than ever. Or at least have more narcissist tendencies more than ever. Social media is really all about your ego being validated.

[mavelezm]

Spreading illness, viruses, bacteria and transmision of weird energies, specially from male to female. Sexuality is sacred and your body is a temple, just try to respect it above the urges.

[eTorro]

3 hours ago, mavelezm said:

Spreading illness, viruses, bacteria and transmision of weird energies, specially from male to female. Sexuality is sacred and your body is a temple, just try to respect it above the urges.

Wow! What a beautiful perspective! You can rarely find a person who is not promiscuous nowadays. 

[Yimpa]

1 minute ago, eTorro said:

Wow! What a beautiful perspective! You can rarely find a person who is not promiscuous nowadays. 

Osho was my student; he learned well 

[something_else]

On 25/06/2024 at 1:38 PM, eTorro said:

Casual sex is not right either because it has a negative impact on people. This hookup culture is a delusion.

I wonder why did people buy into the idea of casual sex. Or the notion that going to parties will somehow make you happier. Why not do self-help work and party so much less? Why not less stimulation?

I had a lot of questions when I was young. I was wise enough to not waste my life with mindless activities like dancing in clubs or partying for fun. We need limits when it comes to hedonistic activities. Am I right?

What negative impact does casual sex have? If you practice safe sex and aren’t sex addicted or something, I can’t really think of many.

Humans have been partying since we were chimps. Partying helps you build social relationships, be playful, have fun, not take life too seriously, and remove the stick from your ass. All very valuable things for living a good and rewarding life.

I had the same mindset as you until my early twenties. I was pretty miserable and lonely. I used this “I’m too wise to enjoy partying” shtick as a way to soothe my ego from the pain of missing out on social events when I was younger, and also to avoid the things was deeply scared of: socialising and other people.

Now I’m backpacking the world. I party a fair bit,  but through this very intense socialising I’ve grown so much that I almost don’t recognise the person I was a year or two ago.

What I realised is that part of the reason I was so socially anxious was a lack of fun, positive social experiences to teach my brain that being around people is actually a good thing, and they are not a threat to me.

I’m not saying that partying is the key to a happy life, but I think almost everyone benefits from being able to let loose and have some carefree fun now and then. Living life constantly tense, with a stick all the way up your ass, is very uncomfortable.