Ways To Elevate Yourself Above Sexual Urges

[Mesopotamian]

12 minutes ago, Rafael Thundercat said:

Ah, I can read you level very well. What are you doing in this Forum? Do you are really into self-actualization or just self deception? 

can you please get out of my post? I gave you the attention that you was wishing for.  this is harassment, and qualifying for action.

[Yimpa]

I love all of you 

The difficulties of understanding women will get easier. I promise!

Edited June 24 by Yimpa

[Rafael Thundercat]

9 minutes ago, Yimpa said:

I love all of you 

The difficulties of understanding women will get easier. I promise!

After some good backlashes and fantasies of control get out of the way hehe. 

[Davino]

13 minutes ago, Yimpa said:

The difficulties of understanding women will get easier. I promise!

After many years of understanding the femenine

I recognised to my best female friend that I was still puzzled about women

She said, don't worry, we don't understand ourselves either

[Princess Arabia]

9 minutes ago, Davino said:

She said, don't worry, we don't understand ourselves either

Nice.

[Princess Arabia]

4 hours ago, Mesopotamian said:

Don't you feel the eyes of guys whenever you go out? Try to look at those who are even standing far away and notice how they're noticing you..

No. I will notice the starer. The only reason you even notice is because he stands out. He makes you nervous, uncomfortable. You speak in generalizations. There are people everywhere. Grocery stores, on the street, clubs, bars, restaurants, etc. People take quick glances; might say hi, smile, depending on the proximity. Depending on how I'm dressed and I'm not a very revealing dresser. My boobs are average in size and my butt isn't large. I have a model type figure with long legs.

In a bar or club setting there are plenty of attractive women walking around most are dressed to reveal. I can be fully clothed and still get eyed, if I'm dressed nicely and hair is done. I get complimented on my face a lot and legs. Guys will not be staring at my boobs or ass (maybe unless I'm in tight jeans) but my face and hair is what attracts the most. I do have a nice body but it's not screaming come fuck me, it screams elegance and beauty. 

All guys will notice from afar with me is this tall female with hair and a nice body if I'm wearing fitting clothes. I don't attract the drooling type. I attract the guys who admire beauty not boobs and ass. I have a nice smile and decent guys are attracted to that also. 

Once in awhile I'll come across a guy who can't stop staring and those are the ones that make me uncomfortable (I'm speaking of in a rude and piercing way). It is rude to just stare at a person who notices you're staring for long periods of time. I'm not speaking about an admirer who admires you and walks away or even says hi and talks to you, but the ones that just keep staring even when they've noticed you've noticed them staring and doesn't say anything. That's rude. For the most part guys are just glancing and minding their own business or maybe a tooted horn or "hi georgeous", or "hi beautiful", that's it, if it's not where he comes over and talks.

Edited June 24 by Princess Arabia

[Carl-Richard]

9 hours ago, Lila9 said:

I doubt that what you are doing with the pictures is enough to burn your karma.

One thing is certain: he surely spends a lot of time looking at girls now 😆

[Mesopotamian]

@Princess Arabia Thanks for sharing how you experience life, that's interesting what you've mentioned, and it looks like you live at a relatively liberate place, cuz judging by your handle, you could be living in anywhere in Arabia, perhaps even Saudi Arabia, but it's good to know that you can experience night life!

[Rafael Thundercat]

 

This is from one of the best leaders related to Man Work I know about. Forget tricks, the ideia is to go to the core of what is to be a grounded, mature Man. 

This is what will make sustained change for the individual and collective. 

 

 

https://www.awakenedintent.com/events/the-cultivated-man?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAabedMhcQhb9xEtOWW35pOFAdxiYCPH2mydk7Den9tS_kKZStktGIx0-41k_aem_gX6l4J71wTTdu_FM0jd98w

[Princess Arabia]

3 hours ago, Mesopotamian said:

@Princess Arabia Thanks for sharing how you experience life, that's interesting what you've mentioned, and it looks like you live at a relatively liberate place, cuz judging by your handle, you could be living in anywhere in Arabia, perhaps even Saudi Arabia, but it's good to know that you can experience night life!

I live in the USA.

[Rafael Thundercat]

Instead of Elevate yourself from Sexual Urges, what about fullfill it. 

It is true that a desireless life is fullfill? 

Life is amazing with all the colorfull it have, with all shapes, sounds, flavors and so forth.

 

[Javfly33]

On 23/06/2024 at 10:07 PM, CARDOZZO said:

Nothing will solve it, unless you die.

We are not nanoengineered human beings to just switch off our basic needs.

What you call needs is not needs, is a compulsion due to karmic imprint.

You can have sex with women consciously.

Which for a man means, fucking a woman for his own pleasure and elevation. Your dick should only be there to satisfy the pussy because you perceive that chick to be someone who deserves the power and love of your dick.

And once you have fucked her like a King enough times, she should transcend that kind of sex also, if not she is a waste of time also.

This is if you want as a male to use sex as something for your liberation, not as a bondage. 

[Carl-Richard]

5 hours ago, Mesopotamian said:

@Princess Arabia cuz judging by your handle, you could be living in anywhere in Arabia, perhaps even Saudi Arabia,

Judging by your handle, you could be living anywhere in Mesopotamia, perhaps even Akkad 🤔

[bambi]

All urges are basically a contraction, or discomfort that we try to escape to find a sexual release. You only really have two choices

1) Bring awareness onto the urge until it dissipates

2) React by acting out

Whenever I urges or fantasies I always ask myself: "what about my current experience am I ignoring, or that is uncomfortable or dissatisfying no matter how subtle'

I was a complete sex and porn addict (600+ partners), and have had streaks of celibacy/semen retetion, of 7 months, 8 months, 7x 90 days

[UnbornTao]

Embrace them.

You wouldn't ask the same thing about hunger.

[bambi]

3 minutes ago, UnbornTao said:

Embrace them.

You wouldn't ask the same thing about hunger.

This is a view from ignorance, totally. Food is needed to sustain your life. You wont die without sex

Also theres a huge array of relationships to hunger and food within the populace, with the vast majority of people in a severely unhealthy condition.

Your comment completely and ignorantly misses the complexities of hunger and how we react to it, the fact its integral to sustain our personal life, and then sexual urges and our relationship to these

[UnbornTao]

Just now, bambi said:

This is a view from ignorance, totally. Food is needed to sustain your life. You wont die without sex

Also theres a huge array of relationships to hunger and food within the populace, with the vast majority of people in a severely unhealthy condition.

Your comment completely and ignorantly misses the complexities of hunger and how we react to it, the fact its integral to sustain our personal life, and then sexual urges and our relationship to these

Take it lightly as a physiological need. It's an example.

You don't suppress your hunger. I suspect OP is coming from an ideal. 

[bambi]

3 minutes ago, UnbornTao said:

Take it lightly as a physiological need. It's an example.

You don't suppress your hunger. I suspect OP is coming from an ideal. 

This again is a view from ignorance, Im sorry. Simply feeding your hunger every time you feel hungry is why most of the population is obese and we face a health epidemic.

Your post again fails to account for 0 complexity in this. Its nonsensical

[UnbornTao]

@bambi Fair. Also, you might have misinterpreted my use of the word "embrace."

Enjoy.

Edited June 25 by UnbornTao

[bambi]

Yes possibly, my bad if I have interpreted you incorrectly