Ways To Elevate Yourself Above Sexual Urges

[CARDOZZO]

8 minutes ago, Javfly33 said:

Biology does not mean compulsiveness

Actually, biology is extreme compulsiveness to survive.

Speaking as a male, we have extreme sexual urges and we don't have a choice about it.

One way or another you'll have to satisfy them.

Get a girlfriend, make her happy, make you happy, win-win.

Edited June 23 by CARDOZZO

[Rafael Thundercat]

21 minutes ago, Javfly33 said:

When you are able to see a woman just as a piece of earth as a man, and even as an animal and a tree, then you will have dismantled all the Karma in relation to sex.

 

Go to Brasil and all this philosophy of yours goes to the window heheheeh

I visit last summer. That is  what I call Karma Burning. 

Juicy

 

Edited June 23 by Rafael Thundercat

[Javfly33]

 

27 minutes ago, CARDOZZO said:

Actually, biology is extreme compulsiveness to survive.

Speaking as a male, we have extreme sexual urges and we don't have a choice about it.

One way or another you'll have to satisfy them.

Get a girlfriend, make her happy, make you happy, win-win.

Yes, you are right. 

I wanted to mean that we humans can make a compulsive process, conscious.

 

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Speaking as a male, we have extreme sexual urges and we don't have a choice about it

You have. But only if you do inner engineering into your human system properly. 

 

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One way or another you'll have to satisfy them.

Not if you are in a conscious state of awareness.

 

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Get a girlfriend, make her happy, make you happy, win-win.

That I agree.

[CARDOZZO]

10 minutes ago, Javfly33 said:

You have. But only if you do inner engineering into your human system properly. 

If you're what we call "normal human being", I don't think so.

99% of humans doesn't know how to control their neediness to "reproduce".

[Mesopotamian]

1 hour ago, Javfly33 said:

 This is very, very, very good.

What you are doing is a certain Karmic dismantling.

This is where all the sexual compulsions of the human being exist, in their karmic software.

 

When you are able to see a woman just as a piece of earth as a man, and even as an animal and a tree, then you will have dismantled all the Karma in relation to sex.

99% of the sex humans do, is compulsive entanglement karmic sex. Is not conscious sex. Therefore, it is a source of bondage and compulsiveness.

Thank you for backing me up man! I was thinking the other day, maybe guys love to look at girl's parts because we like geometrical shapes. could be as simple as that.

 

[Yimpa]

28 minutes ago, Mesopotamian said:

I was thinking the other day, maybe guys love to look at girl's parts because we like geometrical shapes. could be as simple as that.

Hah!

Imagine what kind of shape an alien takes.

Edited June 23 by Yimpa

[Applegarden8]

3 hours ago, CARDOZZO said:

We as humans can't beat biology. 

What you can do: get a horny girlfriend.

Dangerous assumption as we are yet to know our potential while being heavily repressed ideologically and financially. Though you are more likely to fail, yes.

[Applegarden8]

The solution is 20 years of some form of kriya yoga, dhyana or tantra based meditation practice, practiced regularly.

[Davino]

3 hours ago, CARDOZZO said:

We as humans can't beat biology. 

What you can do: get a horny girlfriend.

That won't solve the biological urge

It will reduce it though

[CARDOZZO]

1 hour ago, Davino said:

That won't solve the biological urge

It will reduce it though

Nothing will solve it, unless you die.

We are not nanoengineered human beings to just switch off our basic needs.

[Yimpa]

5 minutes ago, CARDOZZO said:

Nothing will solve it, unless you die.

We are not nanoengineered human beings to just switch off our basic needs.

Lemme flirt with Bryan Johnson… I think he has a different idea than you 

[CARDOZZO]

9 minutes ago, Yimpa said:

Lemme flirt with Bryan Johnson… I think he has a different idea than you 

We can become a new species.

But for now, we are just horny humans.

 

[Carl-Richard]

14 hours ago, Mesopotamian said:

As a man, I used to get distracted by any woman walking by. Just seeing her, I might be drawn to certain features—perhaps her hair, her figure, or the way she's dressed.

I began to realize that these distractions were constant, whether I was on the street, in a mall, or online on platforms like TikTok or Facebook. I recognized this as an issue that needed addressing.

Lol how do you get distracted? Do you walk into a light pole?

 

14 hours ago, Mesopotamian said:

Lastly, for this to work best, you need to look at the same photo for several days, I usually open 10 photos on my browser and keep them open. They idea behind this is to look at them long enough so that you're not amazed by what you see.

I think your solution is a way bigger distraction and a time sink than merely putting your eyes on woman for a second or whatever. Unless seeing a woman invariably makes you go on a 2-hour wanking sesh, I don't see the issue.

Edited June 23 by Carl-Richard

[Princess Arabia]

15 hours ago, Mesopotamian said:

I recognized this as an issue that needed addressing.

This is the only problem. The recognition that there's an issue that needs addressing. Once you've identified it as a problem, then it becomes a problem. The women aren't the problem, your eyes aren't the problem, whatever you're doing to try to solve the problem also strengthens the fact that you see it as a problem.

You are battling with thoughts. If you feel a certain way when you look at women, let the feeling be there. You are uncomfortable with the feelings because of the thoughts that accompany them. Actually, it's the thought that precedes the feeling. Neither is the problem. It's your identification with both, that creates this battle.

Now you're creating more problems for yourself and creating another issue by doing whatever you're doing to combat the issue. Now, you'll be staring at pictures of women instead of real women trying to desensitize yourself. It won't work because now you'll be staring at pictures and pictures and pictures instead of real women thinking there's a difference. There's none as far as the brain is concerned. Now, you'll become a slave to pictures.

Solution is to allow for the feelings to be there, without judging them. Allow for the thoughts to be there without addressing them. In time, the recognition that there was never a problem there to begin with will surface as the thoughts won't have continuity because they weren't being fed with your attention and focus on them. 

[Mesopotamian]

@Princess Arabia 

There's a problem, otherwise you would be able to walk freely anywhere you want in this world without getting harassed by thirsty guys. In fact if you weren't well-protected, you wouldn't survive a day out there on your own. Guys have different levels of thirst, and good luck to you telling a rapist that he needs to focus elsewhere, and those emotions will be solving themselves out.

Also why can't you accept that the solution could be as easy as this? it's after all something you haven't experienced or tried to work on curing yourself on any of your addictions. 

It's not advised too to try to gaslight other people into thinking other than they feel and make yourself an expert in a topic that you haven't really spent good amount of time to examine. Only God knows how your presence is negatively perceived by those people around you for this matter. 

[Princess Arabia]

1 hour ago, Mesopotamian said:

@Princess Arabia 

There's a problem, otherwise you would be able to walk freely anywhere you want in this world without getting harassed by thirsty guys. In fact if you weren't well-protected, you wouldn't survive a day out there on your own. Guys have different levels of thirst, and good luck to you telling a rapist that he needs to focus elsewhere, and those emotions will be solving themselves out.

Also why can't you accept that the solution could be as easy as this? it's after all something you haven't experienced or tried to work on curing yourself on any of your addictions. 

It's not advised too to try to gaslight other people into thinking other than they feel and make yourself an expert in a topic that you haven't really spent good amount of time to examine. Only God knows how your presence is negatively perceived by those people around you for this matter. 

Ok. No argument here. You said your piece. You're right. I should have left it alone and shut my mouth. Wish you the best.

[Mesopotamian]

@Princess Arabia

I gave your post another read, and at first I thought you were saying that there's no problem to start with, but you went on to explain and that's what I appreciate.

you need to understand that a guy think a thousand times about sex during the day, and a typical guy would lose his mind for a moment when or noticing a female, 50, or 100  meters away from him. As soon as you notice a woman, you can't help but trying to see is she pretty? is she not? can I think of her as a sexual partner? or is she just old lady? I sometimes need to look at the face just to see what kind of lady she is.

If she was a nice lady, dressed well, then my mind goes to check her body features. after that, my eyes can't help but focusing on some of her body parts, she has a nice cleavage, there my sight will focus at, or tight pants.. etc... This all happen automatically within seconds.

Don't you feel the eyes of guys whenever you go out? Try to look at those who are even standing far away and notice how they're noticing you..

With my tried and tested method, my eyes wouldn't even look at the direction of a lady, I've seen enough of ladies on my laptops every day, lots of nice lady parts, and my eyes are not hungry anymore.

 

[Rafael Thundercat]

18 minutes ago, Mesopotamian said:

With my tried and tested method, my eyes wouldn't even look at the direction of a lady, I've seen enough of ladies on my laptops every day, lots of nice lady parts, and my eyes are not hungry anymore.

Try the method of inviting a Woman, a Lover a Consort a Real flash and bones partner to Life. One with whom other senses are nurtured, the smell,touch,taste, sigth, heart, ears. The best way to satisfy a starvation is to go and have daily healty meals instead of watching FoodPorn in instagram. You can eat a picture and call that nutrition. 

Eyes are for appreciation. Without trained eyes you end up eating a spoiled food and getting sick. Not comparision of a human being with food to be eaten but to say that every sense exist to us being able to make dicerning decisions of what is healty for us in all aspects of life. Thanks for my eyes because they allow me to see that some woman are not a fit to me and others are. 

 

[Mesopotamian]

2 hours ago, Rafael Thundercat said:

Try the method of inviting a Woman, a Lover a Consort a Real flash and bones partner to Life. One with whom other senses are nurtured, the smell,touch,taste, sigth, heart, ears. The best way to satisfy a starvation is to go and have daily healty meals instead of watching FoodPorn in instagram. You can eat a picture and call that nutrition. 

if you read my method, I advocate a still photo, you have it open at your browser for few days, you look at it every day until your eyes are no longer hungry.

The problem with the real thing is that you don't get to spend a long time with real ladies, and you won't meet the lady that your eyes will love every aspect of her, therefore you won't be able to appreciate their qualities.

All you need could be just something to satisfy your eyes hunger, guys love engineering, love geometrical shapes, could be as simple as that. you like how the boobs are different from one lady to another right? each size and shape has it's charm, the big juicy one, and the small flat one, and everything in between.

When you choose not to address this hunger but rather want to act on that and try to sleep with someone, that's a different part, that's like having a weak mind who cannot resist. I am saying so because I've said no so many times now, and walked away from many opportunities to talk to girls, sleep with them, etc, while if it was me from the past, I would try to make my best to end up in somebody's pants.

 

[Rafael Thundercat]

2 minutes ago, Mesopotamian said:

I am saying so because I've said no so many times now, and walked away from many opportunities to talk to girls, sleep with them, etc, while if it was me from the past, I would try to make my best to end up in somebody's pants.

 

Ah, I can read you level very well. What are you doing in this Forum? Do you are really into self-actualization or just self deception?