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friendship apps such as bumble bff

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We've discussed on here many time that online dating is shitshow with  a winner takes all environment where everyone looking with the abundance of beautiful people on these apps are all chasing after the top 20 percent and ignoring 80 percent of the other profiles, it creates the illusion that any guy could date a super model and any woman could date a rockstar you just have to swipe enough ...........

 

friendship apps are great for building social circle and theres no pressure to score or impress the person etc so you can just relax and chat and they could invite you to a social gathering , party or whatever and introduce you to more people . I've got plenty of friends that were friends with their now partner for years before they went on a date, so completely ignore the advice you have to rush into romance you can very well be with someone on friendly basis and things change, but dont have that expectation though just enjoy socialising.

 

 

to me its the lack of pressure why these apps are more preferable , desperation is the biggest turn off ever, so theres no needing to get anywhere:D


"You have to allow yourself to not know"- Peter Ralston

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I met my partner through Bumble BFF. We were initially friends, but it transitioned to something more :)


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I'd rather use Facebook and DM people (Go to pages of similar interests as me, comment on their comments, then DM them and mention what you had said), language exchange apps are also nice.

I even had people on Facebook DMing me after leaving good comments on good posts on good pages.

People in those apps will lie to themselves that they are there to learn a language just to talk among each other in the languages they know best, which is usually English or their native languages. LMAO.

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Passion and suffering is the key to real friendship. Meeting up for a pint is nice but typically doesn’t lead anywhere meaningful

 

P.S I’m awful at making friends so take my advice with a pinch of salt.

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