Sugarcoat

Why is reality called love?

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20 hours ago, Someone here said:

Yup .so what are you gonna do about it ?

There is no "finite " purpose.  Like you just die and go to heaven and St.peter sends you to chat with Jesus and stuff like that xD

"This is also metaphorical":

Its more like God wants everything to be materialised.  Everything was an idea in gods mind ..but God is alone forever and is creator by its own nature .that's just what it is. God doesn't create out of obligation..it creates endlessly because its literally pure creativity. And pure creativity is its own purpose. Think back when you were a child and you enjoyed creating castles from sands In the beach .because you didn't have ego back then. Only the ego is the problem.

It’s difficult to get rid of the self

 

i see. I’m saying there’s no conscious intent behind creation, that would be like a separate god creating this and having a will and intent

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5 minutes ago, Sugarcoat said:

It’s difficult to get rid of the self

This is the TRAP of nonduality!!!


I AM a devil 

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22 hours ago, Ishanga said:

The experience of True Reality maybe Love/Bliss, but Reality as You say imo has no purpose, as where does this idea of Purpose come from? It comes from our human mind, a part of reality has purpose (to survive and live another day), but not the totality of it, as what would be the purpose of having Life as we know it, all of its diversity, with most of it suffering in some sort of way (or the ability at all to experience Suffering), and a small minority not suffering at all, what is the purpose of that? In my observations of this world today its only getting worse not better...

I'd rather look at Reality as a sort of grand Intelligence, that is the only word I can find I can use, and we here on this planet as we are as Human Beings are just higher potentialities of being able to experience the Reality in a sort of Totality, most are limited for sure via their Bodies and Mind complexes and attachments to them, but we have over the thousands of years found ways to go beyond these limitations and experience Reality as it is, at least for a limited few, but from what I have researched most all of us are capable of it, if we go beyond our many attachments and unconsciousness...

Agreed. But I can’t seem to dissolve myself 

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22 hours ago, Breakingthewall said:

It is something extremely simple. When there is true love between humans, a mother for her child, two true lovers without barriers who love each other completely, also the love of an artist for his creation, or of a person enlightened by reality, what there is is the open flow of reality without barriers. Reality is that, that creative force, full, total, that fills your heart and soul.

As humans we close ourselves to love because of fear, it is inevitable. We come from competition and war, and it is implanted in our genes. barriers, thorns, fear, envy, greed, narcissism and hatred. This closes us down, and also keeps us moving as a species.

If we want to open ourselves to the glory that reality is, call it love if you want, but it is a love that is more than love, it is the total, infinite, absolute reality, flowing on itself, we must identify and let fall those thorns, that fear, that greed, that narcissism, and open ourselves to the absolute glory of the infinity .

 

Do you mean like when we love something or someone , aka we are deeply happy, the psyche is quiet and we are in state of flow ? So we want to open ourselves like this to reality  totally ?

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5 minutes ago, Sugarcoat said:

Agreed. But I can’t seem to dissolve myself 

How can there be a dissolution of something that isn't there in the first place? That's why. 


Know thyself....

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1 hour ago, Sugarcoat said:

It’s difficult to get rid of the self

The self you're trying to get rid of doesn't exist. The very demand to rid yourself of the self is the thing that keeps that energy alive.


Know thyself....

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@Princess Arabia I intuit that too. If it’s an illusion then how could an illusion get rid of itself 

 

 

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22 hours ago, Osaid said:

Our mind divides reality through thoughts. In actuality, these divisions are concepts which are never seen. In other words, they are beliefs. In reality, it is all one singular occurrence, because everything happens now.

All the emotions that humans create through imagination are designed to guide them towards unity/love/inclusiveness. The only reason you can hate is through your intellectual capacity to divide reality.

"Bad emotions" guide you away from division. In other words, it guides you towards an absence of division (unity/love).

Hate feels bad because you are harming yourself. Hate is like writing "other things" in sharpie on your arm, blaming it for all your problems, and then stabbing it.

Love is erasing the sharpie marking, and realizing that all hate is harm done onto yourself. Love is a complete psychological absence of division.

So it feels like love to be in a state of not imagining division anymore? That non dual awareness if I can call it that

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21 hours ago, Davino said:

In this video he outlines 30 distinct Awakenings:

It's one of my old time favourites

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21 hours ago, Carl-Richard said:

When you love something, even in a limited human way, you experience it more intensely. The more you love something, the more access you have to it, the more deeply intimate your experience of it is — the more real it is. If love gives you access to what is real, then love in the highest degree is reality itself.

Maybe it’s because the mind is quiet when we love something aka are happy  thus feel present so its that absence of thoughts that makes it seem more real and intense. I’m not sure tho. So the mind being the barrier /veil on reality and absence of it would reveal reality for us and it would be like the highest love so it’s like reality is that love is how you mean kinda?

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3 minutes ago, Sugarcoat said:

@Princess Arabia I intuit that too. If it’s an illusion then how could an illusion get rid of itself 

 

 

It's delusion. Delusions fall away. There's nothing to get rid of in this respect. It's energetic and when it's not being powered, it simply falls away. The reason the self was borne is because of the knowledge it acquired. That's why baby's don't have a sense of self until a certain age. Neither do most animals. The ones that do are the ones with high intelligence like dolphins and elephants. You don't see them trying to get rid of it, though because they haven't acquired that type of knowledge only humans. It's a self-defeating task as the self isn't there in the first place. Our intelligence is our greatest tragedy, all it does is enables us to acquire more knowledge which is the reason for the seeming separation.  


Know thyself....

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4 minutes ago, Princess Arabia said:

It's delusion. Delusions fall away. There's nothing to get rid of in this respect. It's energetic and when it's not being powered, it simply falls away. The reason the self was borne is because of the knowledge it acquired. That's why baby's don't have a sense of self until a certain age. Neither do most animals. The ones that do are the ones with high intelligence like dolphins and elephants. You don't see them trying to get rid of it, though because they haven't acquired that type of knowledge only humans. It's a self-defeating task as the self isn't there in the first place. Our intelligence is our greatest tragedy, all it does is enables us to acquire more knowledge which is the reason for the seeming separation.  

The first knowledge that appears is the knowing of “I’m here” am I right 

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Posted (edited)

13 minutes ago, Sugarcoat said:

So it feels like love to be in a state of not imagining division anymore?

To be in a state of not imagining division anymore requires thought. It's thought that says it needs to be in that state. That's why people meditate. It's a battle between thoughts. The mediator of thoughts. That's why some get headaches and heart palpitations from meditation. Not saying don't meditate, just saying it's still a thoughts battling thoughts.

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Know thyself....

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Just now, Sugarcoat said:

The first knowledge that appears is the knowing of “I’m here” am I right 

Yes.


Know thyself....

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6 minutes ago, Sugarcoat said:

The first knowledge that appears is the knowing of “I’m here” am I right 

As what?


I AM a devil 

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1 minute ago, Yimpa said:

As what?

As "me".


Know thyself....

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2 minutes ago, Yimpa said:

As what?

The first thing that appears is a contracted energy that says I’m here or something 

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23 hours ago, Carl-Richard said:

When you love something, even in a limited human way, you experience it more intensely. The more you love something, the more access you have to it, the more deeply intimate your experience of it is — the more real it is. If love gives you access to what is real, then love in the highest degree is reality itself.

Brilliant, The more you love something The more you want to merge with it and become one, The connection grows stronger until it becomes infinite, awakening and death is going back to oneness which is total love. ?

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How is this post just me acting out my ego in the usual ways? Is this post just me venting and justifying my selfishness? Are the things you are posting in alignment with principles of higher consciousness and higher stages of ego development? Are you acting in a mature or immature way? Are you being selfish or selfless in your communication? Are you acting like a monkey or like a God-like being?

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