33 Girl Aesthetics - Personality Types

[integral]

33 Girl Aesthetics

What a girl wears directly reflects their values.

I'm sure most of you guys have figured this out but for those who haven't dont be blind to this, a lot of guys are judging attractiveness based on the aesthetic package the woman presents, and there's one specific type which is a very Red/Orange centered type that a lot of guys like that you see at the club. 

The high end fashion Look At Me Girl. They're everywhere and they're boring.

Most of you guys are not compatible with this girl, the person who's compatible with her is someone who has the exact same values as her. It's very unlikely you have those values.

Women are emotional and they especially wear their identity in an exterior way. You can easily figure out a lot of about someones values by what they wear, how they move, how they talk. 

The moment you see a girl you should try to figure her out immediately. If you're male stop focusing on beauty turn that part of your brain off and figure her out. 

[Sugarcoat]

This is funny to me as a woman to read for some reason lol. Nonetheless I’d say I agree to a degree

Edited June 14 by Sugarcoat

[Schizophonia]

Lol.

From this topic and some precedent posts you did, it looks like you have a kind of Madonna–whore complex.

 

1)You can be an intelligent or at least pleasant person, and like being very girly/sexy like the girl and in photo, and vice versa.

Lot's of people here are hypervigilent peoples who cope by associating this state to a prove of higher conciousness and intelligence, bu it's just a dismissive aesthetic endeavor, it's ego. Can you explain to me how anyone here is “superior to the masses”?
Who here is a doctoral student in philosophy? doctoral student at all? a world-class engineer? a craftsman who produces high quality stuff? Many people who produce high quality things have this "low alertness" aura.
And you ? because you're taking psychedelics and talking on Actualized then suddenly you can't love those people, or should I say that part of YOURSELF, aha.

 

2)The people you target get along well in intimate relationships with people like you. This can create a good dynamic, such as you using your hyperblistered neocortex to bask in the glory of your doll feasting on your dish.
Or you'll be the one making most of the jokes and she'll be the event provider.
She will naturally care more about you, do the cleaning more often and that kind of thing, take the initiative to do things...

So yes, maybe in fact you would like a girl like in the photo or almost, but your ego prevents you from doing so.

Edited June 15 by Schizophonia

[Schizophonia]

Othetwise Soft Girl, Country Girl and Preppy Aesthetic > all

Edited June 15 by Schizophonia

[integral]

@Schizophonia I don’t mind a good witch Hunt, burn me at the stake. Judging someone based on their looks is not 100% wrong.

Society has a oversensitivity to judging women, i’m not being misogynistic to the degree that this witchhunt is based on.

I don’t think I’m smarter than the girl in the picture stop rejecting misogyny. I’m talking about values.

I did not say I don’t love these people.

Notice all the projections how you were conflating a lower position to a higher position.

i’m not talking only to you anyone who read the other thread thinks I’m a complete jackass because there conflating everything with stereotypical misogyny.

Edited June 15 by integral

[integral]

39 minutes ago, Schizophonia said:

Othetwise Soft Girl, Country Girl and Preppy Aesthetic > all

Definitely agree with that lmao

[Schizophonia]

I think that clothing style helps identify and signal an “energetic spectrum”.

I don't really agree with associating phenotype with "values".
I meant that you tacitly equate this kind of "energetic phenotype" with something undesirable for "highly conscious" people.
I say it is false and even possibly the opposite.

[integral]

12 minutes ago, Schizophonia said:

I meant that you tacitly equate this kind of "energetic phenotype" with something undesirable for "highly conscious" people.
I say it is false and even possibly the opposite.

sure date the girl that spends two hours in front of the mirror to do their make up and spends 200$ a week on hair and nails. I’m sure those are the values you’re looking for when dating.

I’m not compatible with most women that behave this way, there are exceptions but I’m not going to rely on that.

How is it possibly the opposite? Should I go to the strip club and date does women because it’s probably the opposite? Where are is it OK to draw the line here?

Edited June 15 by integral

[Schizophonia]

23 minutes ago, integral said:

sure date the girl that spends two hours in front of the mirror to do their make up and spends 200$ a week on hair and nails. I’m sure those are the values you’re looking for when dating.

 

What's the issue ?

It's a gift, she do that for you, to feel desirable.

23 minutes ago, integral said:

 

I’m not compatible with most women that behave this way, there are exceptions but I’m not going to rely on that.

Why ? If you dont mind ?

For me the important thing is to be with someone functional, who doesn't suffer from hysteria or a mental disorder that makes it unpleasant. Then, the goal is to have fun and then children.
At worst, I could say that a woman like that probably doesn't have the same interests, but from experience that's not even that sure.

23 minutes ago, integral said:

How is it possibly the opposite? Should I go to the strip club and date does women because it’s probably the opposite? Where are is it OK to draw the line here?

No, you meet women and you follow what you like, with your guts. And it could be anything. You may be very conscious and like bimbo's, big cars and ice cream.

The goal is to to have fun, it's not extra work, it's not supposed to be useful.

Edited June 15 by Schizophonia

[Schizophonia]

Actually I could go out with a woman like in the photo, she's super hot.
Being hot isn't a question of physics, it's the energy you bring to the table, the way you write, the way you dress...

Embracing the inclination towards regression is actually what allows us to reduce stress and finally fill ourself up to be truly productive, including on a very intellectual scale.

 

[integral]

@Schizophonia what your attracted to and what’s good for you tend to never be aligned.

when dating women that don’t have the same values as you it ends up being a game of you constantly having to mask and adapt to them and it’s rarely the case where they have the self-awareness to do the same. Some women like the one in the picture I think would work out financially very well if they’re independent achievers in real estate for example, but other than that it would be very tiring being exposed to them every day. People are tyrannical about their world views and you’re gonna be hit with it constantly all day why would I wanna subject myself to that? I say that from experience, I don’t at all need to be exposed to undeveloped operating systems every day it is beyond exhausting.

99% of people don’t even know what self development is and it sucks interacting with them. I’d rather be alone I rather have silence.

Edited June 15 by integral

[integral]

24 minutes ago, Schizophonia said:

Actually I could go out with a woman like in the photo, she's super hot.
Being hot isn't a question of physics, it's the energy you bring to the table, the way you write, the way you dress...

Embracing the inclination towards regression is actually what allows us to reduce stress and finally fill ourself up to be truly productive, including on a very intellectual scale.

 

I’m attracted to highly emotional even unstable woman. Sexually they turn me on like crazy and it makes it super good. 😅 and the relationships are a nightmare. 

Edited June 15 by integral

[Schizophonia]

11 minutes ago, integral said:

@Schizophonia what your attracted to and what’s good for you tend to never be aligned.

Why ? Where does that come from ? Is you CNS working against you ?

You’re attracted to something because it gives you pleasure, the only purpose of relationships is pleasure, unless you feel obliged for some reasons like money or even ego issus.

I'm not forcing you to date anyone 👍 All I'm saying is that rejecting (or even accepting) especially someone for any reason other than attraction is an ego problem. After all, the barriers are arbitrary, but it's not like by "values" you mean dating a neo-Nazi or a special situation like that.

11 minutes ago, integral said:

when dating women that don’t have the same values

You can’t see a person values by how he is dressed, at all. I have knowed a lot of people and i don’t exaggerate if i said you could absolutely not see who is an antifascist, an adolf hitler fan or a libertarian, who is lazy and who is hardworking, who is generous and who is cheapskate, who is agressive and who is too kind…

You can’t know nothing, the only thing you see and what you mean by « values » is the energetic phenotype of the person, It doesn’t conditions the quality of a relationship, including simply friendship.

And you don't like this phenotype because that would mean identifying with it.

11 minutes ago, integral said:

as you it ends up being a game of you constantly having to mask and adapt to them and it’s rarely the case where they have the self-awareness to do the same.

What are you talking about ? Do you have any concrete examples?
Most people aren't confrontational like that, unless they suffer from hysteria, by extension BPD...

11 minutes ago, integral said:

Some women like the one in the picture I think would work out financially very well if they’re independent achievers in real estate for example, 

Lol why ?

It’s just a very made up girl.

11 minutes ago, integral said:

but other than that it would be very tiring being exposed to them every day. People are tyrannical about their world views and you’re gonna be hit with it constantly all day why would I wanna subject myself to that?

No, again most of people are conciliate or even submissive. 
Maybe your maternal or paternal image was unbearable, I don't know.

11 minutes ago, integral said:

I say that from experience, I don’t at all need to be exposed to undeveloped operating systems every day it is beyond exhausting.

Here I just see someone normal.

11 minutes ago, integral said:

99% of people don’t even know what self development is and it sucks interacting with them. I’d rather be alone I rather have silence.

Why ? 

[integral]

@Schizophonia we disagree on how relationships work. Relationships require adaptation and it’s only harder if the gap is bigger it doesn’t matter how enlightened you are, your energy will be drained. We are not compatible with everyone.

[Raze]

Except what she wears is also based on where she is going or her mood, you can’t predict her personality just on her outfit for this reason.

[Schizophonia]

3 hours ago, integral said:

I’m attracted to highly emotional even unstable woman. Sexually they turn me on like crazy and it makes it super good. 😅 and the relationships are a nightmare. 

A woman can both be highly emotional and conciliatory.

2 hours ago, integral said:

@Schizophonia we disagree on how relationships work. Relationships require adaptation and it’s only harder if the gap is bigger it doesn’t matter how enlightened you are, your energy will be drained. We are not compatible with everyone.

The point is that you rely on a simple clothing style to estimate whether you are "compatible".

[integral]

31 minutes ago, Schizophonia said:

The point is that you rely on a simple clothing style to estimate whether you are "compatible".

I know guys It’s not black and white. Just general connections one out of 1 million

39 minutes ago, Raze said:

Except what she wears is also based on where she is going or her mood, you can’t predict her personality just on her outfit for this reason.

Fair enough, you would need a little bit more context.

[CARDOZZO]

They forgot PhD Sexy Girl 😭

[MarkKol]

Where’s the “short 18 year old introverted brunette who likes to travel, go on roadtrips, cuddle and fuck every 48 hours, with a higher BMI but still healthy” aesthetic

Edited June 15 by MarkKol
Forgot to add the age

[Butters]

You guys are gonna die when you see this: