Can men love one woman for entire life?

[creativepursuit]

I am an old soul; I was born in the 90's, and I still believe in this foolishly, blindly, and madly.

But, you men and women, what do you think?

[universe]

Yes

[NoSelfSelf]

Can you love yourself for 24 hours is the first queastion.

[Princess Arabia]

Yes, they can really only love once. If you're not that woman, your shit's outta luck. They can really love only that ONE woman; whether he's with her or not.

[hyruga]

Yes it's all about identity. If you want to be known as being loyal and stable and loving towards one person, then that's what you want others to see you. That's where your pleasure will come from.

Edited June 13 by hyruga

[integral]

If you pull the pendulum to one side too much you’re setting yourself up for a swing back to the opposite direction.

Women are not objects to bear the burden of your love. Loving someone the way they need to be loved is love but loving someone because you need to love them it’s not.

You can find someone who is equally into you as you are to them and who has the same values of love longevity.

But in my experience if you need to love someone then you’ll inevitably push them away.

To love someone the way they need to be loved takes a lot of delicacy and it’s nearly impossible to truly do that if your ”Madly” attached and  dependent.

Edited June 14 by integral

[RendHeaven]

Yes, if he has burnt off all of his desirous "karma." (exceptionally rare)

Otherwise no.

[Lyubov]

Love is not a commodity to give or receive. It’s something you create within yourself and your partner mirrors it back to you. 
If you choose to create love for this person your whole life , then yes

My question is why are you setting expectations and standards though? Seems like you think if this doesn’t occur the love one created wasn’t true but I would not agree with that. It’s possible but do you believe you have to live up to this standard you set? Because it may not occur because people change so it’s not guaranteed 

[creativepursuit]

@Lyubov I am curious how far love can take a person and if there is any connection to spirituality in this journey.

 

[Davino]

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Can men love one woman for entire life?

Loving deeply one woman? I'm sure it can be done. Loving in a relationship is a very deep business. Real Love and connection takes a lot of time and emotional bonding. It's at least a decade everyday investment to call it real Love and a mature marriage.

On the other hand;

Getting horny only by one woman? Don't think is gonna happen 

[petar8p]

Yes of course. It's a damn rarity tho. 

[Applegarden8]

if she does a musical project with me over a long period of time I will try my best to do that

[Jehovah increases]

Of course, you can. 

[hyruga]

Whether it's rare or not depends on societal pressure and own willpower.

If you are living in a caveman village where every man can only choose one woman and anyone who strays away from that one woman will be killed and stoned alive, you can expect many guys to stay faithfully to one woman.

In conservative countries like China, it is still expected for one man to stick with one woman.

[Yimpa]

Unity.

[Schizophonia]

Yes, but it will feel different.
More like a family member.

Edited July 3 by Schizophonia

[Yimpa]

I don’t control who my partner gets intimate with. 

[Basman]

Yes, but it depends on your values and its a little harder without the social pressure that SD Stage Blue tends to provide or the survival pressures back when we where more directly dependent on each other. It is easier to think "I can do better" nowadays which can hurt longevity.

You can love multiple people but its takes more responsibility and puts more pressure on communication and maturity than monogamy.

[Heaven]

1 hour ago, Yimpa said:

I don’t control who my partner gets intimate with. 

Can you send me some pics of her?

If you don’t mind of course.

On a serious note: In my opinion yes, but your goal is to expand your love and not restrict it.

It’s seems like you’re asking if someone can stay with one person his entire life. Again, I believe you can.

[Yimpa]

2 minutes ago, Heaven said:

On a serious note: In my opinion yes, but your goal is to expand your love and not restrict it.

It’s seems like you’re asking if someone can stay with one person his entire life. Again, I believe you can.

How does love expand when you put it all on one person?