Guys, I just had a son, it is literally crazy that how ego is created

[James123]

As death, birth is unbelievable. Literally unbelievable. I saw the ego comes alive, it is crazy same as death. I am feeling same as psychedelic breakthrough.

Edited June 6, 2024 by James123

[Dodo]

25 minutes ago, James123 said:

As death, birth is unbelievable. Literally unbelievable. I saw the ego comes alive, it is crazy same as death. I am feeling same as psychedelic breakthrough.

Your baby is not an ego  Ego is an illusion, baby is life 

[Someone here]

First of all ..congratulations 🎊. Happy for you brother .

Second of all ..dude ...forget all that spiritual crap ..egos and shit ...and go ccelebrate with your wife !

[Schizophonia]

Congratulations

[Schizophonia]

Just now, Someone here said:

First of all ..congratulations 🎊. Happy for you brother .

Second of all ..dude ...forget all that spiritual crap ..egos and shit ...and go ccelebrate with your wife !

post in the same time lol

[Someone here]

@Schizophonia

1 minute ago, Schizophonia said:

post in the same time lol

technically no ..your post is few seconds ahead of mine .that's why it's displayed after mine .

[Schizophonia]

2 minutes ago, Someone here said:

@Schizophonia

technically no ..your post is few seconds ahead of mine .that's why it's displayed after mine .

gne gne gne

[Someone here]

@Schizophonia @Dodo

Do you plan on getting married one day and have children?

For me personally  .I want to get married but I have ethical reasons against having  children. I'm okay with adopting a child. But I don't wanna give birth to a child . Now that's just my mind at 25 yo .maybe when I grow up I will change my mind due to life experience. 

What's your thoughts on this ?

[Yimpa]

13 minutes ago, Someone here said:

@Schizophonia @Dodo

Do you plan on getting married one day and have children?

Yes, they should get married and have me as their child 

[Someone here]

6 minutes ago, Yimpa said:

Yes, they should get married and have me as their child 

You little devil 👿 

I obviously meant each one In his own life. .

You are supportive of LGBT marriage anyways so you should not get bumped 

[Leo Gura]

How does a newborn have an ego??

[Schizophonia]

45 minutes ago, Someone here said:

@Schizophonia @Dodo

Do you plan on getting married one day and have children?

Yes, i want some 👍

45 minutes ago, Someone here said:

For me personally  .I want to get married but I have ethical reasons against having  children. I'm okay with adopting a child. But I don't wanna give birth to a child . Now that's just my mind at 25 yo .maybe when I grow up I will change my mind due to life experience. 

What's your thoughts on this ?

 

Why don’t you want procreate ? 
 

33 minutes ago, Yimpa said:

Yes, they should get married and have me as their child 

Lol.

Daddy will make you some cookies 🍪 

[Someone here]

5 minutes ago, Schizophonia said:

Why don’t you want procreate ? 
 

 Because when my child(at 5 years old ) asks me "dad ..where the hell did I come from"? I would tell him God created us .

He will repeat the same question at 15 years old ..I would say I had sex with your mother .

But when hit 20-25 yo..and sees through all that bullshit ...how am I supposed to give him the answer when I don't fucking have one ?

Also life is a bit of hell hole .some fucked suffering you must go through. And we all die at the end . Seems depressing . 

But I can adopt a child .

Edited June 6, 2024 by Someone here

[Schizophonia]

12 minutes ago, Someone here said:

 Because when my child(at 5 years old ) asks me "dad ..where the hell did I come from"? I would tell him God created us .

He will repeat the same question at 15 years old ..I would say I had sex with your mother .

But when hit 20-25 yo..and sees through all that bullshit ...how am I supposed to give him the answer when I don't fucking have one ?

Also life is a bit of hell hole .some fucked suffering you must go through. And we all die at the end . Seems depressing . 

But I can adopt a child 

Will be in life what will had to live.

Tbh, i just don’t really mind of what my children will live. I just like the idea of being a father, share things.

Also i don’t see the difference between taking care of an adopted child or having your own one, except ego.

I admit i don’t want an adopted child because of egoistic but atavistic patterns, it’s like that.

Just my 2cts 

Edited June 6, 2024 by Schizophonia

[Someone here]

@Schizophonia Well I'm actually a nihilist and an antinatalism advocator.  I believe existence as whole in general is a scary and awful place full of misery and suffering.  Despite few moments of pleasure here and there..the overall tone of existence is negative.  So who's us to force these babies to come to this fucked up world without even  asking for their permission?

[Schizophonia]

14 minutes ago, Someone here said:

@Schizophonia Well I'm actually a nihilist and an antinatalism advocator.  I believe existence as whole in general is a scary and awful place full of misery and suffering.  Despite few moments of pleasure here and there..the overall tone of existence is negative.  So who's us to force these babies to come to this fucked up world without even  asking for their permission?

No, you're not an nihilist at all, you have said yourself dont want having children because of what you consider ethics reasons.

If you were nihilistic you would not mind about what could happen to them.

Now, from my pov, you play the persona of the "guy who do the rights things" or something like that, maybe you would benefit of changing for, let's say, a more impulsive, adventurous and egoistic one.

I mean that you can success to absorb energy through him with your posture "Me, i don't give children life while life is so hard, i'm not egoistic, i'm not irresponsible, blahblahblahblahblah", but in a more holistic pov, in fine you are unhappy with your life.

Edited June 6, 2024 by Schizophonia

[Rigel]

2 hours ago, Leo Gura said:

How does a newborn have an ego??

Does survival instinct necessitate an ego? They do have a strong survival instinct. Do dogs & insects have egos? Wtf is an ego?

Edited June 6, 2024 by Rigel

[koops]

Bro, dont think of your son as an ego LOL

[Carl-Richard]

The ego sees what it wants to see  

[James123]

Guys, thank you very much for your good wishes. 

Ego is not something bad, it is something do beautiful and pure. That's why we are so called born. That's why illusion is still an illusion.

Because it is pure beauty.