Bitter towards women

[Schizophonia]

19 hours ago, NoSelfSelf said:

@Schizophonia You are lost with this, its like Bruce lee saying dont focus on the finger because you will miss all the heavenly glory.Looks hit only the initial curiosity but when you open your mouth then she will see who is who.

It is necessary to theorize a minimum 

[Leo Gura]

On 6/8/2024 at 7:44 AM, Rishabh R said:

@Leo Gura does game/pickup apply to India. If I am an Indian and I am being rejected by girls always then what's the solution. Can warm approach/friend circle work ? I once said I love you to a girl online , she rejected me and the next day her friend gave me a threat over phone. Is it true that I can find someone else despite not having an initial relationship experience in college ? But how to do it because cold approach doesn't work in India. When you approach a random girl you get threat from either her boyfriend or her friend. And I don't understand even tough it's an issue of past and is gone why does my mind keep bringing that issue again and again . Also it is true that rather focussing on getting a girlfriend, I must focus on finding a girlfriend? Must I focus on future rather than past to move ahead of rejections ?

The one thing that works everywhere is to be highly social and build up a social life.

The reason you're not getting girls is because you have no social life. A social life is a thing that needs to built with skill. It can be built in various ways depending on time, place, and culture. There are coaches who can teach you the skills for building a social life.

Never tell a girl you love her until you've slept with her many times. A girl needs plenty of time and space before she gets invested in you.

Edited June 9 by Leo Gura

[Rishabh R]

@Leo Gura ok thank you . So for me being social is the key.

[Ben2204]

 

Thank you all for the answers

 

98% of women have hated me since I was born just because of my appearance. Can you be honest and tell me if my appearance is the problem?

 

https://ibb.co/bFKrWrs

https://ibb.co/DfQ9sLt

[NoSelfSelf]

@Ben2204 Well,with the last post you just told every women on here who you are and what would it be like being with you.So before looking at looks you are senting women the stories where they percieve you as weak without you even realizing, thats where "hate" comes from.

[Rafael Thundercat]

1 hour ago, Ben2204 said:

 

Thank you all for the answers

 

98% of women have hated me since I was born just because of my appearance. Can you be honest and tell me if my appearance is the problem?

 

https://ibb.co/bFKrWrs

https://ibb.co/DfQ9sLt

Well, you are not bad. Better find another excuse because if you are well dressed, smell good and go out probably the only factor needed is GAME. 

 

[Kid A]

1 hour ago, Ben2204 said:

 

Thank you all for the answers

 

98% of women have hated me since I was born just because of my appearance. Can you be honest and tell me if my appearance is the problem?

 

https://ibb.co/bFKrWrs

https://ibb.co/DfQ9sLt

Your appearace is definitely not the problem. It’s more than good enough.

[lostingenosmaze]

17 hours ago, Ben2204 said:

98% of women have hated me since I was born just because of my appearance.

What do you mean? Did women straight up tell you about your appearance or do you just presume that? I've had people who didn't like my vibes but never told me I'm straight up ugly, much less explicitly criticize me about anything at all, it's always passive

[Natasha Tori Maru]

On 10/06/2024 at 7:21 PM, Ben2204 said:

 

Thank you all for the answers

 

98% of women have hated me since I was born just because of my appearance. Can you be honest and tell me if my appearance is the problem?

 

https://ibb.co/bFKrWrs

https://ibb.co/DfQ9sLt

No. Absolutely nothing wrong with your looks. 

Do you have any sisters? Siblings of the opposite sex can really assist with socialisation. 

 

[Princess Arabia]

I just saw your pictures. Another confirmation that nothing makes sense. It's all chaos appearing orderly. Seeking itself. Words can't explain how magnificent and weird this is. Utter madness. 

I stopped trying to make sense of this and just seeing the appearances for what they are, except for when I dont.

Edited June 11 by Princess Arabia

[Schizophonia]

Women fall in love with you because of your face, your money, your social statut and your supposed hability to dominate others people.

 

 

[Ben2204]

On 11/06/2024 at 6:13 PM, Princess Arabia said:

I just saw your pictures. Another confirmation that nothing makes sense. It's all chaos appearing orderly. Seeking itself. Words can't explain how magnificent and weird this is. Utter madness. 

I stopped trying to make sense of this and just seeing the appearances for what they are, except for when I dont.

@lostingenosmazeit is reality
all women on Earth find me ugly, fat, disgusting
They despise me, they like to reject me nastily

[Rafael Thundercat]

Our views on women—or anyone, for that matter—are largely shaped by our direct experiences 

AND also those shared by the people closest to us, such as friends or family. 

If these experiences are predominantly negative, featuring betrayal or bitterness, they can deeply influence our perceptions, leading us to adopt a cynical and harsh lens through which we view women.

Think about this:

if the men around you or the ‘leaders’ and teachers you follow often discuss negative experiences with women, focusing on betrayal, or speaking from the resentment they carry

Arent these narratives going to naturally influence your expectations and perceptions?

Over time, if it already hasn’t happened…

can become a self-fulfilling prophecy.

You begin to expect the worst, and as a result, you might unconsciously choose situations or relationships that confirm these biases.

So, how do we initiate healthier, more balanced conversations about women? 

Here are a few steps I took:

👉Seek Out Positive Stories: Actively look for and engage in conversations that highlight positive, respectful, and supportive interactions with women.

Whether IRL, or virtually, surround yourself with men who not only have successful relationships but who also speak of women with respect and admiration.

👉Challenge Negative Stereotypes: When conversations steer into negative or cynical views, challenge them constructively.

Ask “Could there be another side to this?” or “Have we considered her perspective or circumstances?”

👉Reflect on Your Own Experiences: Take time to reflect on your interactions with women.

Consider the positive relationships and interactions you’ve had. What made them successful? What are you most grateful for?

Bringing these reflections into your discussions can provide a more integrated and mature view.

Remember, shifting the way we talk about women doesn’t just shift the narrative,

it broadens and balances our views and naturally impacts how we interact and relate to the women in our lives.

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