Fix Your Problem

[Mada_]

There's a lot of high level paradigm thinking on this part of the thread. People attempting to integrate dating and socialising with their spiritual cosmology, which is fine and something I also enjoy. 

But if you're still rolling through Orange like myself, working through social awkwardness a negative self image, breaking out of this should feel very active. 

 

Something I have been doing lately:

Me and my close friend  go for a long night walk and have a conversation, much like the discussions on this forum, where we air our social problems. As soon as my friend says something that sounds like a limiting belief I invite him to deconstruct the belief. 

We then use Leo's limiting belief exercise that's available in the tail end of the LP Coures (I'm sure there are others equally effective out there, perhaps in an old video) to guide each other to deconstruct the belief, often discovering deeper beliefs e.g. I believed that establishing a sex life would be very difficult, grindy and hard, and discovered that this was because I believed I was not likeable. 

Edited June 3, 2024 by Mada_
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[Yimpa]

How often do you talk to your close friend? Daily? Weekly?