Friends with Benefits just DOESN’T Work

[Juan]

I already knew this but seeing it on a video with a group of people makes so much sense. Even with Polyamorous, I still have some research to do on myself but so far hasn’t worked for me. There is always some kind of drama and excuse on this kind of relationships.

Edited June 2 by Juan

[Nick5050]

it does work but at the end someone gets hurt.

If  you don't commit the other person might start keeping their options open and if the honeymoon phase wears off or you just stop putting in much effort. Then it's a mater of time until he/she leaves you or friendzones you. If you attached u get hurt. Just a great distraction and waste of time but it definitely is a fun one. If you can't handle the pain of break-up i wouldn't recommend. Otherwise a great experience.

[Jannes]

I am in somewhat of a F+ for the last 5 months now. Took down the sex part a bit because it got to intimate not sure where to go from here. I can relate to everything the black guy says it's scary. 

 

[Jannes]

What do you think about the F+ of the black guy and the girl? 

[Lyubov]

Just a bunch of weird discombobulating stuff where one or both people leaves hurt. I’ve yet to see this FWB stuff work out. Seen a few open marriages but it seems like usually one of the partners is a people pleaser. Just date and see where it goes and if you don’t want to commit move on. 

[questionreality]

From my experience, it can work if both parties know that they would not be compatible in a serious relationship with each other, or they know that person is not for them, but they still enjoy intimacy. This is really rare though.