Sex is better in fantasies than in real

[jacknine119]

In my thoughts sex is very satisfying experience, but in real i cant feel such great during process. maybe sex is not as good as i think maybe i am doing something wrong. what do you think?

[Sugarcoat]

How would we know how you perform in bed?😂

[Leo Gura]

Yup. The best sex happens in the mind.

The key to great sex is to take it from a mechanical process into an imaginary, fantasy process with your partner.

Edited May 16, 2024 by Leo Gura

[TheAlchemist]

 

 

[mmKay]

@Leo Gura i still remember that post of yours where you claim you made your girl c*m through text or phone call

Are you talking about delivering/building with her an erotic- novel-like story ? Through words and mental imagination?

I'm sure I'm not the only one who would appreciate some resources or blog post lol

Rate your inner eye visualization skills from 0 ( ant) to 10 ( Tesla)

 

Thoughts on Tantra? It's mostly a lot of breathing, learning to enjoy non s*xual sensations, and delaying orgasm. Also imagination but it's like Kriya, not really erotic. And lots of "spiritual bs"

I like this exercise ( kinda made it up ) where you guide her breath with your words and make her imagine that the breath in / out is not air, but actually YOU penetrating her.

Is that more along the lines of what you mean?

Would look something like this (NSFW) but it's on YouTube . Ignore the woo woo commentary or description 

 

Edited May 16, 2024 by mmKay

[Ryan M]

Gotta take 20-30mg of Adderall before sex, you won't believe how much better it gets lol

[Leo Gura]

4 hours ago, mmKay said:

i still remember that post of yours where you claim you made your girl c*m through text or phone call

Are you talking about delivering/building with her an erotic- novel-like story ? Through words and mental imagination?

That was through sexual hyposis.

But text is easy if she plays with herself.

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I'm sure I'm not the only one who would appreciate some resources or blog post lol

That's a deep topic. It would require a whole course. And it's kind of an awkward thing to teach in my position. Although it would blow people's minds.

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Rate your inner eye visualization skills from 0 ( ant) to 10 ( Tesla)

Maybe like a 7.5

Edited May 16, 2024 by Leo Gura

[Nemra]

@mmKay

The things you can do to yourself with your imagination are wild if you have a strong imagination.

Edited May 16, 2024 by Nemra

[mmKay]

2 hours ago, Nemra said:

@mmKay

The things you can do to yourself with your imagination are wild if you have a strong imagination.

At this moment my imagination is like a 2.5/10. I hope it improves once I chelate.  I barely can hold the image of an orange in my mind. I have to outsource that stuff into words I can read or Images i can see over and over. THats why I'm pretty hyped for AI video generation. It would be like having an external imagination for me .

I'm not talking about AI p®n that's nasty. I mean for visualizing an inspiring life for example . Like a video vision board 

Edited May 16, 2024 by mmKay

[Nemra]

@mmKay

Creating an image in your visual field is a type of imagination.

Imagination is also about changing how you interpret an experience, which is what I'm talking about.

[bazera]

@Leo Gura

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And it's kind of an awkward thing to teach in my position

Where did you learn it from?

[mmKay]

2 hours ago, Nemra said:

@mmKay

Creating an image in your visual field is a type of imagination.

Imagination is also about changing how you interpret an experience, which is what I'm talking about.

That's recontextualization

[Recursoinominado]

18 hours ago, jacknine119 said:

In my thoughts sex is very satisfying experience, but in real i cant feel such great during process. maybe sex is not as good as i think maybe i am doing something wrong. what do you think?

Yes, you are doing it wrong.

[Schizophonia]

Not at all.

[CARDOZZO]

Maybe you have issues with penis sensitivity.

Edited May 16, 2024 by CARDOZZO

[Nemra]

@mmKay

Yes, but you use your imagination to make stuff up. In your experience, it doesn't exist. It would have been different if you had discovered something that you hadn't imagined existed.

Edited May 16, 2024 by Nemra

[MAHAVATAR_-_BABAJI]

11 hours ago, Ryan M said:

Gotta take 20-30mg of Adderall before sex, you won't believe how much better it gets lol

Maybe that's why haha I'm prescribed it🤣🤣🤣. Sex is 100% more emotional when you take it. It makes masturbation and sex just god-like. Probably why average people talk smack about porn.

[universe]

Depends on how much time and energy you invest in each domain.

[Recursoinominado]

5 hours ago, CARDOZZO said:

Maybe you have issues with penis sensitivity.

But it's not about the penis, but your capacity to be in your body, feel everything, playfully, dive into emotions and connect massively with your partner.

It is music you two are playing together, not a mathematical equation "5 minutes of full thrust + 2 ass slaps = pleasure".

If you fuck trying to be cool like James Bond, you will suck (no pun intended).

Learning tantra improved sex to me 10x. Also, learn how to dance with a partner and how to massage, both require skills and sensitivity that are transferable to sex.

Most men are too autistic to understand what good sex is, most women get it naturally. 

[CARDOZZO]

@Recursoinominado It's all about your carioca juice dude, you have to teach it 😂 Also, carioca women are extremely playful, they don't have fear to make the first move 🔥

Edited May 16, 2024 by CARDOZZO