Share the top limiting beliefs in your Self-Actualization journey

[Someone here]

In general..share the top limiting beliefs that prevent you from "getting what you want from Life ". By "limiting beliefs" I mean excuses of course...because I gotta tell ya the truth ..I've been maturing exponentially in the last year ..understanding how life really works in "the real world " and how shit gets done . Life is difficult no matter how ya slice it . Nobody is ever satisfied by his job ..from the workers in factories to the CEOs in their air conditioned office . Everyday we have to struggle to even make ends meet . But some of us here (and probably that's the reason  why we are here) want to rise above mediocrity and Self-Actualize ...we want the best job..the best life purpose..the right values in life ..the best way to spend our free time ..girlfriends or boyfriends ..health and well being and ultimately awakening..etc ..

So as I said ..these thing are NEVER easy once you start getting serious about them .at first you will be shocked because you  will think :"fuck! This is so impossible to achieve..it's never gonna work ..I'm never gonna improve.. etc ".

So..I want you guys (if possible) to share with me a brief quick summary of your journey in this work up to now and what exactly are the limiting beliefs/excuses/Obstacles that hold you back the most and how do you plan to deal with them .

Thanks. 

[Lyubov]

I would say the most limiting ones are about myself and there really is really only one. 

I’m not whole / I am not valuable 

this is the core belief which basically all the negative self thoughts come from, the belief that doubts your connection to the Tao and your intrinsic spiritual value that you are born with, the only true value. Usually happens in childhood. From this lie of lacking value and wholeness follows beliefs like these 

I’m bad / I’m unlovable or not good enough / I can’t cope and survive. 

I would say these have hands down been the most limiting beliefs for me and I’ve done a lot of work to resolve them all. 

apart from these I also will often ask myself what i believe about money and different domains of life but usually the only way I can learn if I had a limiting belief in a certain domain is by really digging deep into and understanding the domain and how it works. 

[Lyubov]

I would also ask yourself what you mean by these things being hard or easy. I used to use wording like yours but I was referring to an emotion which I was creating through my beliefs. To me living life in flow and allowing is not hard or difficult. But also I don’t set expectations. I set intentions and then embrace the uncertainty. 

[Someone here]

1 hour ago, Lyubov said:

I would say the most limiting ones are about myself and there really is really only one. 

I’m not whole / I am not valuable 

this is the core belief which basically all the negative self thoughts come from, the belief that doubts your connection to the Tao and your intrinsic spiritual value that you are born with, the only true value. Usually happens in childhood. From this lie of lacking value and wholeness follows beliefs like these 

I’m bad / I’m unlovable or not good enough / I can’t cope and survive. 

I would say these have hands down been the most limiting beliefs for me and I’ve done a lot of work to resolve them all. 

apart from these I also will often ask myself what i believe about money and different domains of life but usually the only way I can learn if I had a limiting belief in a certain domain is by really digging deep into and understanding the domain and how it works. 

Thanks for sharing .

Actually  I share a similar thingy..I was bullied in school a lot ..and I was a loser in studying heady nerdy subjects like math and physics and always get low grades . This is still wounding me till this day . I believe that I'm simply nobody . I'm not worthy of the best most awesome and abundant life possible. 

So ...would you like to discuss how to overcome and unbrainwash ourselves from this ?

1 hour ago, Lyubov said:

I would also ask yourself what you mean by these things being hard or easy. I used to use wording like yours but I was referring to an emotion which I was creating through my beliefs. To me living life in flow and allowing is not hard or difficult. But also I don’t set expectations. I set intentions and then embrace the uncertainty. 

Well I would like to have it the easy way .snap a finger and get all the money and the bitches...but haven't you realized yet that life is simply not easy ?

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Edited May 15 by Rishabh R

[Lyubov]

57 minutes ago, Someone here said:

Thanks for sharing .

Actually  I share a similar thingy..I was bullied in school a lot ..and I was a loser in studying heady nerdy subjects like math and physics and always get low grades . This is still wounding me till this day . I believe that I'm simply nobody . I'm not worthy of the best most awesome and abundant life possible. 

So ...would you like to discuss how to overcome and unbrainwash ourselves from this ?

Well I would like to have it the easy way .snap a finger and get all the money and the bitches...but haven't you realized yet that life is simply not easy ?

I’ve already overcome the brainwashing and resolved these issues. You need to get in touch with your spirit and really question these beliefs. You have to take full responsibility for the creation of this perspective where you believe you aren’t worthy. I can tell you now this is simply a lie. You are worthy and valuable and capable of living to your true potential but you have to go down to the root of this belief where it started and sort of continuously examine it until you see it’s simply a lie and untrue. 
 

I definitely don’t think we can snap our fingers like you said. I’m not saying life doesn’t have some big responsibilities. It definitely does and we need to be fully engaged and responsible for every aspect of our lives. What I’m saying is I wouldn’t consider that hard because when I’ve described these as hard in the past I was just describing a feeling, stemming from a belief that was limiting like “I always fail.” So I definitely do agree life requires responsibility, learning and being fully engaged, patient, everything you know about like this as we all do and anyone who set out to do something great. 

But I wouldn’t label it as hard like some do because I think you can look at it as hard or not and that’s a choice. It’s just my wording maybe it doesn’t resonate with you. To me accepting life as it is including the hard things makes them not appear hard anymore but just phases and ever changing experiences not based in my expectations.