What are your thoughts on Only Fans?

[Lucasxp64]

😉😘 Olá, querida! Adoro encontrar compatriotas por aqui...

I think you might want to choose another platform beyond OnlyFans, because there are connotations with the kind of public and content.

I have a friend I really adore, and she also does artistic nudes. She is also very spiritual as well.

I personally don't mind a girl that has some content like that, if I were looking for a girlfriend/wife.

The problem is that there's a fine line between showing as much as what would be seen on the beach (i.e.: bikini photos)(Duh, what girl doesn't do that those days), and ... Something else?

I only mean that from a personal perspective as a guy that would be looking for a high conscious girl. As long as I know she is transparent, and wouldn't actually cheat, and I'm feeling confident in myself as well.

From some universal perspective, I couldn't care less, because I'm on the receiving end of those kinds of images online. I do not demonize them.

But I mean, there are people out there into polyamory and wouldn't mind in the slightest.

Actually, I even know a specific influencer that was those webcam girls, and I'd have her as a girlfriend knowing that she stopped masturbating online in front of a webcam.

But at the same time, the actual transmissions are always out there. It's out of her control. I'm understanding of that.

But at the same time, I'd rather pick one that didn't have such a past and instead was cleaner than that.

However, I'd pick any day a girl like you that has some sensual images out there, than a low conscious dogmatic countryside girl. Any day of the week, I'd pick you between those two options.

The issue would arise that it would still be on the back of my mind, specially if you were still doing sexually suggestive content that goes beyond what a bikini would expose, because that's the standard I see for other girls out there.

But personally, if I knew a girl out there were doing actual porn, and there are videos of her fucking other dudes, I'm absolutely not going to be exclusive with her.

Everyone has their levels of sensitivity of what to accept from a partner.

Because you're attractive, you wouldn't miss enough on dating opportunities with someone willing to put up even with actual porn out there.

😊 But regardless, I'd still respect you as a human being and as a friend even.

My personal opinion only. Those matters are very personal, I cannot speak for others.

Edited July 8 by Lucasxp64

[Lucasxp64]

But in some spiritual sense, if I remove my ego from the equation.

As long as it's coming from a place of high consciousness, from a place of wholeness, not from a place of need or hurt and so on. I think anything is fine. What are the mental states you're having when doing it? After doing it, and what is the karma in the world of your actions? Is it positive?

 It's lovely when I come across it out there, it's very touching.

[Yimpa]

2 minutes ago, Lucasxp64 said:

As long as it's coming from a place of high consciousness, from a place of wholeness, not from a place of need or hurt and so on.

A place of wholeness includes everything you perceive as low consciousness. 

[integral]

@MsNobody there might be a conflict between the type of audience that you’ll see on only fans and your audience on YouTube. Only fans people are men that are paying money to see women naked which normally is a low IQ less intelligent and less developed audience.

but maybe there is a untapped market here that we’re overlooking because if we think about it most of these highly paid only fans actors are providing no real value to these men and in general are lying and deceiving them for profit with side hustles like personal chats which require a premium. It’s fake love.

but what you could do is be an only fans character that provides additional real value to these peoples lives in the form of self development self love self help. There might be an untapped market for basically a Life coaching only fans to exhibit higher consciousness activity that gives men actual deep connection instead of the very superficial connection they are getting from all of the top stars. Maybe they will be blown away by the real thing! I wonder if they could tell the difference between the superficial love and quality love.

Only fans men are paying for these fake in-authentic women That say shallow things and pretend to be cute and these men fall in love with them, maybe there’s a untapped market for A authentic real woman.

Edited July 9 by integral

[integral]

bingo! only fans life coaches!

[Lucasxp64]

22 hours ago, integral said:

bingo! only fans life coaches!

How wholesome! Sex workers can find a loving community to partake in!

[Lucasxp64]

On 08/07/2024 at 11:55 AM, Yimpa said:

A place of wholeness includes everything you perceive as low consciousness. 

True. But I have to survival as an ego somehow.

Funny enough, I actually even tried before to brainwash myself into Christianity (4 years ago, I call it the radioactive wasteland dating phase of my life - COVID-19 had compounded it) because I had some long distance relationship with a dogmatic Christian girl. She was super sweet emotionally, but the dogma did run epistemologically deep into the structure of her mind, despite other issues such as bipolar disorder.

It's like doing spiritual bypassing. Pretty funny, there are lots of layers of mindfuckery and self-deception, when we think we are being wholesome, that we have escaped into a higher state, it's just a type of spiritual bypassing fulled by a past karma from an earlier wound. It just keeps repeating itself, just like how Buddha has foretold.

Edited July 10 by Lucasxp64