What are your thoughts on Only Fans?

[Javfly33]

People will critize you here because the fact is your will making money off men weaknesses/simping and most men are in that low vibration. (which is why onlyfans is 'a thing'). 

In reality is nothing bad, I mean Is not bad or good, is just what it is. A transaction. As any other job. 

Just don´t romantize it or make it as you are doing something 'conscious' for yourself. 

 

Edited May 16 by Javfly33

[Princess Arabia]

1 hour ago, Javfly33 said:

People will critize you here because the fact is your will making money off men weaknesses/simping and most men are in that low vibration. (which is why onlyfans is 'a thing'). 

In reality is nothing bad, I mean Is not bad or good, is just what it is. A transaction. As any other job. 

Just don´t romantize it or make it as you are doing something 'conscious' for yourself. 

 

Why is it ok for men to chase pussy for pussy's sake but when a female tries to make a living off of men who are willing, it's a problem. Been in the business a long time; most of these men aren't weak and simps, they love this shit, are married or have long-term gf's. Weak men and simps are home crying and wanting gf's after which they go patronize these women because they are bored and need some freaky shit. I can count on one hand how many single men I've come across that chase after working girls. Those types of guys usually go to strip clubs, watch porn or are out chasing regular girls.

It's a business that some men love to patronize and have no problems with for the most part. 

[strika]

4 minutes ago, Princess Arabia said:

Why is it ok for men to chase pussy for pussy's sake but when a female tries to make a living off of men who are willing, it's a problem. Been in the business a long time; most of these men aren't weak and simps, they love this shit, are married or have long-term gf's. Weak men and simps are home crying and wanting gf's after which they go patronize these women because they are bored and need some freaky shit. I can count on one hand how many single men I've come across that chase after working girls. Those types of guys usually go to strip clubs, watch porn or are out chasing regular girls.

It's a business that some men love to patronize and have no problems with for the most part. 

It's not ok for both men and women, it's a lose/lose situation for everyone, that's the whole point, it's not about women being the bad ones, it's just a bad industry and i do think men should be the 1st ones to give up on it and then naturally women will stop as well because they are just mirroring us, but it's harder to stop such industries if we still tell others that there is nothing wrong with such industries, whether they are a man or a woman

[strika]

1 minute ago, strika said:

It's not ok for both men and women, it's a lose/lose situation for everyone, that's the whole point, it's not about women being the bad ones, it's just a bad industry and i do think men should be the 1st ones to give up on it and then naturally women will stop as well because they are just mirroring us, but it's harder to stop such industries if we still tell others that there is nothing wrong with such industries, whether they are a man or a woman

And now when i say this you may either say:

1. Nothing matters anyway, everything is God, etc. Which is true but obviously spiritual bypassing which makes the convo useless

2. You will give other examples of bad industries and say how everything has toxicity to which i say yes absolutely but there are levels to it, some things are really damaging, some are less damaging, ultimately we should aim to heal all toxicity but our primary focus should be healing the most toxic ones

[strika]

Just now, strika said:

And now when i say this you may either say:

1. Nothing matters anyway, everything is God, etc. Which is true but obviously spiritual bypassing which makes the convo useless

2. You will give other examples of bad industries and say how everything has toxicity to which i say yes absolutely but there are levels to it, some things are really damaging, some are less damaging, ultimately we should aim to heal all toxicity but our primary focus should be healing the most toxic ones

Also you may argue that industries involving sexual energies aren't the most toxic legal industries to which i'm not gonna argue back, i can't be bothered, to me it's pretty obvious that an industry that wastes the most powerful energy a human being has will logically be the industry that makes the most damage, also the industry which gives the most and deepest traumas to humans out of all industries, of course you may argue that sexual energy isn't the most powerful energy which i just think is wrong, basically everything boils down to sex however you wanna look at it

[Princess Arabia]

7 hours ago, strika said:

Also you may argue that industries involving sexual energies aren't the most toxic legal industries to which i'm not gonna argue back, i can't be bothered, to me it's pretty obvious that an industry that wastes the most powerful energy a human being has will logically be the industry that makes the most damage, also the industry which gives the most and deepest traumas to humans out of all industries, of course you may argue that sexual energy isn't the most powerful energy which i just think is wrong, basically everything boils down to sex however you wanna look at it

Ok. Whatever you say.

[Javfly33]

14 hours ago, Princess Arabia said:

Why is it ok for men to chase pussy for pussy's sake but when a female tries to make a living off of men who are willing, it's a problem. 

Well, the first is behaving like a chimp , the second one is behaving like a business person . I wouldn´t say one is better than the other one, is just different drives. One is compulsive sexuality the other is just business mentality.

What i find incorrect about the OP is making this business mentality as like is art or is her offering high conscious sexuality. That kind of game bullshit will just cloud his life, she can do onlyfans but she should know that is not "his higuer self exploring the dimensions of life".

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Been in the business a long time; most of these men aren't weak and simps, they love this shit, are married or have long-term gf's. Weak men and simps are home crying and wanting gf's after which they go patronize these women because they are bored and need some freaky shit. I can count on one hand how many single men I've come across that chase after working girls. Those types of guys usually go to strip clubs, watch porn or are out chasing regular girls.

I guess you have a point. Weak men and simps is a bit of a victim/justifying mentality. In reality they have the freedom to do what they want. 

But i def felt triggered by the OP. In fact the moment i see a woman with certain power like she might have i have a bit of tingling sensation and i want to sub to his onlyfans to be her simp. I don´t know if this is boringness, or some kind of trauma within me but that´s how it feels within me. And therefore i assume for a lot of people will work in the same way (but i understand Not everyone...).

Edited May 17 by Javfly33

[StarStruck]

Obviously you should do whatever makes you happy and grow but we men really need to step up our game giving money, time and energy to OF girls for just existing. As far as I know men don’t go to OF to see artistic expression. They just want to see boobs and ass and bust some nuts. Personally I would never use OF because I rather give my time and energy to a physical girl with probable return of investment in the form of sex but that is just me. 

A good question to ask yourself is would you do OF if you had enough money? Because if you are in survival mode your brain will convince you to choose the easy path. A lot of porn stars doing a lot of sucking and fucking and earning good money and afterwards they get rejected by their environment and they regret their decision.

If you do OF just to experiment it is ok but there is so much competition on OF. Just simple artistic pics won’t cut it. Before you know it you might do some other things and go down that path. 

Edited May 17 by StarStruck

[universe]

3 hours ago, StarStruck said:

A good question to ask yourself is would you do OF if you had enough money? Because if you are in survival mode your brain will convince you to choose the easy path.

I think this is a good question to ask yourself.

If there was no money to be made at all. Would you still want to do it?

[Princess Arabia]

7 hours ago, Javfly33 said:

But i def felt triggered by the OP. In fact the moment i see a woman with certain power like she might have i have a bit of tingling sensation and i want to sub to his onlyfans to be her simp

This topic triggers a lot of men and it's usually personal. I remember the stuff you use to tell me so I understand where you're coming from.

[Javfly33]

1 hour ago, Princess Arabia said:

This topic triggers a lot of men and it's usually personal. I remember the stuff you use to tell me so I understand where you're coming from.

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[Chadders]

@MsNobody I do personally think that Only Fans is a shallow way to create value in the world. Like anyone can just do that really for guy/girls to get their kicks off of if you’re attractive enough

Aside from that it’s a good way to explore your sexuality. Don’t feel bad about that. Just experience it. Good way to generate extra income to support your YT channel and other interests so make the most of it

[Ulax]

I guess you can give it a go and see how you like the experience of running an onlyfans.

You can hypothesize about what the pros and cons are but you won't really know until you have direct experience of it.

[bambi]

I mean what is the context? You are free to do what you want.

Are you asking us if we think it is ultimately healthy for you or the customer to be objectifying yourself and selling your pictures to men? Then probably not but you already know this.

The answer to the suppression doesnt need to be expression. There are much healthier ways to deal with suppression. Its clear obejctification and lust is ultimately not healthy spiritual or psychologically for either sex, but as you say in this world you are free to explore all the facets of yourself. Enjoy!

[LordFall]

Slightly off topic but could it be the case that Jesus was sleeping with Mary Magdalene? That is the one thing in history that doesn't make sense to me; if Jesus was enlightened he wouldn't really demonize sex right? It was just convenient for him to distill easy lessons for people to follow so he hammered home the points on no adultery but him getting some on the side would tie the whole thing together beautifully for me. 

[strika]

2 hours ago, LordFall said:

Slightly off topic but could it be the case that Jesus was sleeping with Mary Magdalene? That is the one thing in history that doesn't make sense to me; if Jesus was enlightened he wouldn't really demonize sex right? It was just convenient for him to distill easy lessons for people to follow so he hammered home the points on no adultery but him getting some on the side would tie the whole thing together beautifully for me. 

I believe he did, but not for pleasure, he was too high conscious to have animalistic sex, it was sex for the soul more than a cumshot.

Edited May 20 by strika

[strika]

2 hours ago, LordFall said:

Slightly off topic but could it be the case that Jesus was sleeping with Mary Magdalene? That is the one thing in history that doesn't make sense to me; if Jesus was enlightened he wouldn't really demonize sex right? It was just convenient for him to distill easy lessons for people to follow so he hammered home the points on no adultery but him getting some on the side would tie the whole thing together beautifully for me. 

But choosing celibacy isn't necessarily demonizing sex, celibacy = sex with God, sex with God > sex with humans, imo celibacy > physical sex

[Salvijus]

10 hours ago, LordFall said:

Slightly off topic but could it be the case that Jesus was sleeping with Mary Magdalene? That is the one thing in history that doesn't make sense to me; if Jesus was enlightened he wouldn't really demonize sex right? It was just convenient for him to distill easy lessons for people to follow so he hammered home the points on no adultery but him getting some on the side would tie the whole thing together beautifully for me. 

Love, relationship and intimacy are inseperable. One expression of intimacy is coupling. If it's done properly with necessary awareness, from a right place in your heart, it can leads to a profound sexual union of two souls merging together, having a transcendental experiences and healing. It wouldn't surprise me that a Master of love such as Jesus would be a master of all forms of intimacy aswell and had no problems with any expressions it could take. 

Also what strika sayed.

Edited May 20 by Salvijus

[Salvijus]

11 hours ago, LordFall said:

; if Jesus was enlightened he wouldn't really demonize sex right? It was just convenient for him to distill easy lessons for people to follow so he hammered home the points on no adultery. 

I'm not a Bible scholar but I don't think there're any records of him saying sex is bad. Church might have invented that. Although I wouldn't be surprised if he sayed lust, addiction, promiscuity is going to get you trouble and might be wise to be cautious about it. 

Edited May 20 by Salvijus

[MarkKol]

It’s kinda whore-y, ain’t it?

I’d rather spend my cash on crispy grilled cheese on sourdough, tastes better than any OF model.