How to move on ?

[Rishabh R]

How to move on if I am hurt by girls . Currently not wanting a girlfriend because placements will be starting from this semester onwards. Even tough I attracted some girls but I have never been in a relationship😂😂. How to heal ?

[Princess Arabia]

How to heal and move on is to stop believing you need to heal to move on. Do you see mother nature worrying about how to heal and move on? It's only the human stupid and deceiving mind filled with thoughts upon thoughts upon thoughts that's believing it needs to heal and move on. All those healing mechanisms that you'll hear on how to heal and move on are just going to be more thoughts upon thoughts upon thoughts, which is what got you to where you are in the first place.

You're not looking for ways to heal and move on; the mind is just looking for more ways it can reiterate it's existing belief that something is there to heal. It's a fucking loop and will only lead you deeper into the rabbit hole. You have built a web of self-deception using the tool of thoughts and now you're trying to deconstruct this web using the same tool of thoughts. 

Leave that construction alone and go build a new one. It's the only way out; and you do that by realizing it's all thought so go think your way into what you want, not by trying to fix or build upon the existing thought pattern. This won't resonate with the mind so don't even try to use logic with what I've just said, just get out of your head and into the heart space where the mind doesn't reside. Anything born out of thought is destructive because what gets born must die and the heart space is where immortality resides.

[LastThursday]

On 5/12/2024 at 8:12 AM, Rishabh R said:

I have never been in a relationship

Go and have a relationship first, forget the worry about being hurt by girls - you'll deal with it just fine if and when it happens.

[NoSelfSelf]

8 hours ago, Princess Arabia said:

How to heal and move on is to stop believing you need to heal to move on. Do you see mother nature worrying about how to heal and move on? It's only the human stupid and deceiving mind filled with thoughts upon thoughts upon thoughts that's believing it needs to heal and move on. All those healing mechanisms that you'll hear on how to heal and move on are just going to be more thoughts upon thoughts upon thoughts, which is what got you to where you are in the first place.

You're not looking for ways to heal and move on; the mind is just looking for more ways it can reiterate it's existing belief that something is there to heal. It's a fucking loop and will only lead you deeper into the rabbit hole. You have built a web of self-deception using the tool of thoughts and now you're trying to deconstruct this web using the same tool of thoughts. 

Leave that construction alone and go build a new one. It's the only way out; and you do that by realizing it's all thought so go think your way into what you want, not by trying to fix or build upon the existing thought pattern. This won't resonate with the mind so don't even try to use logic with what I've just said, just get out of your head and into the heart space where the mind doesn't reside. Anything born out of thought is destructive because what gets born must die and the heart space is where immortality resides.

This is some game here,one that has zero game is in constant reaction and believing in every lie mind makes,so to get out of the "loop" one has to learn fundamentals of the game so you can then built your own world, i would recommend topic starter to watch movie Wanted(2008) but one needs a little game to understand it..