Is There Any Hope Of Salvation For People With Unconscious Dishonesty

[Wesley]

I read about unconscious and conscious-honesty and dishonesty on Leo's Blog and i was wondering if people with Unconscious dishonesty can be'Saved' and if so, How? Any tips 

     he only talked about conscious dishonesty saying that at least people with this (conscious dishonesty)          

   had room for redemption

 

Edited April 17, 2017 by Wesley

[Shin]

It's a spectrum, anyone can go from unconscious dishonesty to conscious honesty.

You just need to suffer enough to start to put your shit together and to humble yourself.

[Guest Annetta]

No.  Not unless they are willing to look within themselves will they see their manipulations for what they are.  Once they're out in the open, it feels so much better - but for those who hold too tightly onto an image, they will never change.

[Prabhaker]

On 4/17/2017 at 7:48 PM, Wesley said:

How? Any tips 

Are you  talking about speaking truth all the time...or are you talking about being honest towards your husband or spouse or your boyfriend/girlfriend.....
Are you talking about being honest while paying your taxes correctly or are you talking about telling truth to your children all the time........

What are the dimensions and paremetres of honesty that you  carry in your mind. 
Is it about being honest to your country or your friends or to your parents or towards your employer ......or being honest towards your  workers.

Is it about being honest when you see that it is going to kill you or somebody.......

If you get entangled in these frivolous ideas, u will always be confused....no clarity.

And if you move without clarity you will be divided and gradually schizophrenic......you will have multiple standards in your life and you will always be confused as to what is right and what is wrong......you will begin to manipulate things and situations most of the times.......

Please observe a little fact about life.........you came first into this world and then others came into your life...and then gradually associations happened and then gradually conflict of ideas and morals and thinking patterns......isn't it...

So first things first..... you came first and you should be important to yourself and hence you should be honest to yourself.....that is the first ground rule as far as my understanding and experience is concerned.

"Be honest to yourself " and rest all will fall in place.....everything....and if you are not honest to yourself then no matter how much you try to make others happy, you will always be in trouble and others will always be in trouble because of you.

And this could still be confusing as to what "being honest to yourself means"

Being honest to yourself means that "happiness is always right and don't do anything that makes you unhappy , that creates hesitation in you , don't do anything that doesn't go with your nature".

Most of the times we are in a situation where we are doing things because of people around us.....where we feel that we should do or not do something because it will make somebody important in our life unhappy...we feel almost compelled to do it rather than our hearty wish.....

No, be honest to yourself and let others not decide for you , don't do anything because somebody will be upset if you don't do so ......or else you will always be confused.....what to do,what not to do........

There are relations every where and there are complicated situations because of them .....sometimes your spouse would want something and your parent may want something else.....sometimes one of your child may want something and the other child may want exactly opposite of that.....and sometimes you yourself would want to do so many things which others will not want....it's going to be one hell of a compromise to your nature if you are always playing to the gallery ....

And please understand that you are not going to be always getting favourable outcome bcos of your instincts.....but you will never blame anybody else for your miseries and failures if you are honest to yourself in listening to your heart .

Here, generally we are blaming others for all the  problems in our lives.

So be very clear...if you are not honest to yourself ...you will never be able to be honest with others....it's not possible....at the most you will be diplomatically correct....BE AWARE THAT YOU ARE NOT BORN TO ACT TO OTHERS WISHES....YOU ARE HERE TO LIVE YOUR DREAMS AND DESTINY.....

Honesty  to yourself will set you free......free from others and gradually free from your mind and conflicts..........

Honesty is not about being truthful all the time.....it's about being true to yourself, to have the capacity to listen to your heart rather than the calculations of your mind......

[Prabhaker]

On 4/17/2017 at 7:48 PM, Wesley said:

Is There Any Hope Of Salvation For People With Unconscious Dishonesty

Most of the people belong to two categories ,  Unconscious Dishonesty  and Unconscious Honesty, both can hope, if the live consciously. Those few who are conscious , are already saved. 

 

Edited April 19, 2017 by Prabhaker