Help me!

[jacknine119]

when i realize that i am zero in any skill i feel huge frustration. because i am already 21 and i cant do anything i dont have carrer i cant approach woman i am not spiritual and so on. how can i enjoy with beggining?

Thank you<3

[Raze]

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gUvL2cYtDvg

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TlwkU9E1zsA

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=s5_DS89_lKU

https://www.girlschase.com/content/how-master-anything

https://www.girlschase.com/content/how-approach-girl-wherever-you-are-easily

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uAcgAGnOtTQ

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-cVBohQ2x1c

 

[Phil King]

Allow yourself to suck at something for a long period of time. Youre being too hard on yourself, expecting perfection when ur just starting. 

1 hour ago, jacknine119 said:

because i am already 21 and i cant do anything i dont have carrer i cant approach woman i am not spiritual

lol, almost no 21 year old has any of these things. Most are not even aware that these are things they should be focusing on, so by having these thoughts, youre ahead of the curve. Right now your so young that you have time to develop mastery in basically any field you choose. Take advantage of your youth, a 50 year old billionaire with tons of girls and an amazing career would give it all away to be your age

 

1 hour ago, jacknine119 said:

how can i enjoy with beggining?

^^ One of the most important vids you will watch in your life

Edited April 26 by Phil King

[Leo Gura]

You have to start by figuring out what you want. Getting very clear about that. It's hard to help you if you are so vague and general. Good advice requires specificity. We need to understand your goals, your values, your situation, your sticking points, your strengths.

[nerdspeak]

1 hour ago, Leo Gura said:

You have to start by figuring out what you want. Getting very clear about that. It's hard to help you if you are so vague and general. Good advice requires specificity. We need to understand your goals, your values, your situation, your sticking points, your strengths.

Agreed with this but I think he needs help figuring out what he wants. 

OP, what do you find enjoyable? That’s a good signal. 

[ryoko]

12 hours ago, jacknine119 said:

when i realize that i am zero in any skill i feel huge frustration. because i am already 21 and i cant do anything i dont have carrer i cant approach woman i am not spiritual and so on. how can i enjoy with beggining?

Thank you<3

I'm the same age as you. Since the age of 19, I have been free from all sorts of institutions, I dropped them out of my life. Also realized early on, there are things which I can make money with, skills which come to me too easy. But ofc they don't give any satisfaction. So, I'm still a total newbie at what I am pursuing.

I wouldn't recommend anyone to do what I did, and there's many more years to come. "Set a goal which will take decades to master, but live in the moment without a care about what happens the next moment."

It all depends on what your values are. Find them.

[enchanted]

13 hours ago, jacknine119 said:

when i realize that i am zero in any skill i feel huge frustration. because i am already 21 and i cant do anything i dont have carrer i cant approach woman i am not spiritual and so on. how can i enjoy with beggining?

Thank you<3

Already 21 hahah. You can still do anything you want. 

Using your age as an excuse is a common self deception technique.

You enjoy the beginning by realizing it never ends. Once you get to level 1 you will be dreaming of getting to level 2. 

 

Edited April 27 by enchanted