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'Approach thousands of women'

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1 minute ago, Princess Arabia said:

You said you only use women for sex and that your mama is the only female you......(not sure the word you used here). Remember?

Now I only have sex with prostitutes once a month whilst learning the game. So yes, of course, I'm using sex workers for sex. 

Once I find a girlfriend I'll stop doing what I'm doing. I don't want to play a victim and crying now when I can't find a girlfriend due to lack of dating skills. 

I would rather have one cute and interesting girlfriend then fucking sex workers. It's obvious. The problem is my standards very high and my game is not up to them yet. 

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49 minutes ago, TheGod said:

Stop making stupid assumptions and saying things that I didn't say! It pisses me off. 

I had one Brazilian girlfriend and I didn't use her for her body neither did I fuck other girls. 

It's in the Females Are Very Cringe About Age thread by StarStruck started on April 2.

I'm not sure how to copy and paste comments so here goes, verbatim.

"You're making assumptions. I understand myself and I know that I want sex.with women. Which is why I'm fucking prostitutes. There is no value that a women can bring into my life other than just sex. The only women that brings a lot of value into my life is my mother, she's my besty".

Another quote "Nonsense, it has everything to do with sex. When I was a kid I didn't look at girls and didn't even know why they existed. I need sex to fulfill my sexual needs".

And another. "I value and respect women same as I respect my mother. I don't think that their value is defined by their ability to satisfy someone's sex needs. Their value is independence. What I meant is I NEED NOTHING BUT SEX FROM THEM. (bolded by me for emphasis). I can provide myself with everything without needing to depend on anyone, except for sex".

This is what you said verbatim. So getting passed off at me, is like getting passed off at your own words. Thank God for the fact these aren't deleted right away and can be referenced to back up certain claims one make about another because of words coming from their own mouth. 

I will leave you alone now as I don't want you to get pissed off from your own words and as I unintentionally tend to do with some here by speaking my truth.

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14 minutes ago, Princess Arabia said:

It's in the Females Are Very Cringe About Age thread by StarStruck started on April 2.

I'm not sure how to copy and paste comments so here goes, verbatim.

"You're making assumptions. I understand myself and I know that I want sex.with women. Which is why I'm fucking prostitutes. There is no value that a women can bring into my life other than just sex. The only women that brings a lot of value into my life is my mother, she's my besty".

Another quote "Nonsense, it has everything to do with sex. When I was a kid I didn't look at girls and didn't even know why they existed. I need sex to fulfill my sexual needs".

And another. "I value and respect women same as I respect my mother. I don't think that their value is defined by their ability to satisfy someone's sex needs. Their value is independence. What I meant is I NEED NOTHING BUT SEX FROM THEM. (bolded by me for emphasis). I can provide myself with everything without needing to depend on anyone, except for sex".

This is what you said verbatim. So getting passed off at me, is like getting passed off at your own words. Thank God for the fact these aren't deleted right away and can be referenced to back up certain claims one make about another because of words coming from their own mouth. 

I will leave you alone now as I don't want you to get pissed off from your own words and as I unintentionally tend to do with some here by speaking my truth.

Nice investigation! 

Yeah I said a lot of words, but I was so bitter that day hahah. All those statements were emotional rather then rational

 

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21 minutes ago, TheGod said:

Nice investigation! 

Yeah I said a lot of words, but I was so bitter that day hahah. All those statements were emotional rather then rational

 

1 hour ago, TheGod said:

 

It's OK. You're "The God". You're allowed to be human.

 


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1 hour ago, Princess Arabia said:

It's OK. You're "The God". You're allowed to be human.

Yeah I'm human just full of shit haha

But honestly I like and appreciate women, I'm bitter about them because I don't know how to relate to them due to lack of experience. Often I miss the time when I would go to sleep with my ex. I used to watch her falling asleep, she was so adorable. You know you right, I need intimacy it's not only about sex. It's everything. Conversations, watching movies together, holding hands, kissing. I've been lying to myself saying that I don't need this things. Psychedelics revealed that it's pure lies. 

Women are such precious creatures of mine, pure beauty. 

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4 hours ago, Princess Arabia said:

Approaching thousands of women can lead to disassociation and desensitization in the dating world. It's no different than what can happen with hookers and porn stars. It becomes obvious with some men that approach me that they do this with lots of women and couldn't care less if I respond or not. It becomes obvious it's a numbers game and because women are graduates and have masters degrees in feelings and have a certain sense about certain things in this department, it can have a negative impact on the men who approach in the thousands and will only attract the same type of woman, the one who is also detached from her feelings and couldn't care less about who you are as a person.

 

But if he cares if you respond or not isn’t that unattractive because it’s neediness? 

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6 minutes ago, TheGod said:

Yeah I'm human just full of shit haha

But honestly I like and appreciate women, I'm bitter about them because I don't know how to relate to them due to lack of experience. Often I miss the time when I would go to sleep with my ex. I used to watch her falling asleep, she was so adorable. You know you right, I need intimacy it's not only about sex. It's everything. Conversations, watching movies together, holding hands, kissing. I've been lying to myself saying that I don't need this things. Psychedelics revealed that it's pure lies. 

Women are such precious creatures of mine, pure beauty. 

Yeah, you were lying to yourself, but I saw through all that, that's why I wasn't too hard on you when you were talking all that jazz. You get to a point when you can see through some of human's bullshit, especially when one has dealt with men through all these years. All the crying and bickering and hollering and hating and bitching and moaning from men about women and all that you seen them carry on with is just them really saying how much they love women but have seemingly lost control in their relations with them or lack thereof; and if it's not that, it's something close to that dynamic. I'm in no position to say exactly what that is but I know that people don't get emotionally charged over something they couldn't care less about. 

Nobody craves sex just for sex's sake. Sex is no different than eating chocolate and when one craves chocolate it's because the body is lacking in certain nutrients. Same goes for just about every craving. There's something lacking in either one's psyche or mental state or physical body. Notice I said crave, so please no moral police please about my saying sex is just like eating chocolate. People seem to like to think of certain things as special over the next thing when all that is, is a bias and a survival agenda strategy. Existentially, nothing is more important than the next; it's all neutral.


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Why the fuck do you care?

Because you're not approaching. All you're doing is analysing it.

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3 minutes ago, Raze said:

But if he cares if you respond or not isn’t that unattractive because it’s neediness? 

No, that's not neediness. It shows that you aren't just approaching because you feel you should as a man. Most women get approached, it's nothing new or off or strange or even a turn off. It's when we can sense he's just approaching because you're a piece of skirt, and he wouldn't feel like a man if he didn't or he feels like it's his duty, or he feels like the woman is only dressed a certain way because she wants men to approach her, is when some when gets turned off.

Neediness to a woman and when it becomes a turn off, is after the approach, after the phone exchanges, after the connection has been made and he is just constantly up her ass, constantly needing her attention, constantly needing her approval, constantly asking what she's doing, where she's going, who she's with......all that jazz. When a woman likes a man she likes a man. She's not going to find you unattractive if she sees you care that she "rejects" you. That's for child's play and high-school teenagers who are just starting out in the dating field, if that's even such a thing. Men are constantly viewing women how they see women. A man is more likely the one to be turned off if she's too into him not the other way around, as long as he's not as I described, because that's not "normal".


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4 minutes ago, thenondualtankie said:

Why the fuck do you care?

Because you're not approaching. All you're doing is analysing it.

Speaking to me?


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Posted (edited)

@thenondualtankieDon't hide behind a computer screen. I asked if you were referring to me. It's a yes or a no.

Edited by Princess Arabia

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Just now, thenondualtankie said:

No xD

I replied to the original question.

hahaha ha. My bad 


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@thenondualtankieI get bullied on here a lot so I have to beware and be on the look out for bullies. Especially your comment was right under mine so I wasn't sure. Was gonna go hide and call the Principal.


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Posted (edited)

To get good at any skill requires thousands of practice sessions.

Thousands of golf balls.

Thousands of writing days.

Thousands of baskets.

Thousands of rounds in the boxing ring.

Thousands of music sessions.

Edited by Leo Gura

You are God. You are Truth. You are Love. You are Infinity.

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Would you trust a chess player who has played 10 games or 1000 games?

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Just now, Yimpa said:

Would you trust a chess player who has played 10 games or 1000 games?

Many times I've played games I know nothing about or first time player and beat the shit out the pros's. It's called beginner's luck. Chess is different though.


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14 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

To get good at any skill requires thousands of practice sessions.

Thousands of golf balls.

Thousands of writing days.

Thousands of baskets.

Thousands of rounds in the boxing ring.

Thousands of music sessions.

Yea, but in this case, you're only getting good at approaching. Nothing to do with success. Getting good at the type of women to approach and how to handle the approach is worth a lot more than how much you approach. No? Just asking. 


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Posted (edited)

Approach 1000 woman if you want. It's more easy to join groups (yoga, trails, running, meditation), develop your humor, being fucking interesting/unique. 

Edited by CARDOZZO

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29 minutes ago, CARDOZZO said:

Approach 1000 woman if you want. It's more easy to join groups (yoga, trails, running, meditation), develop your humor, being fucking interesting/unique. 

Yes, I very rarely take men that approach me on a whim Hoff, seriously. Most of my dates in the past came from just regular guys that were spur of the moment kind of thing. I'll give a few examples. 

Once I went to a facility and the guy at the desk was kind of handsome and we were just talking regularly chit chat and he asked for my number just casually at the end of the convo. Rest is history. Another time, just a regular guy in the neighborhood and we hooked up through just seeing each other on the street and exchanged numbers. He didn't approach formally approached and I wasn't looking for a date, just normal stuff. Another time was just through mutual friend and a house party, I mean just normal shit. Not when a strange guy says, hi, I like your outfit would you like to hang out sometime. Idk. How do I know that. I never even knew this was a coordinated thing amongst males till I got on this forum. 

To be honest, I never even realized it was so hard for guys to get dates, it was always an assumption of mine that women were the ones finding a hard time because we don't approach men and there were so many women to pick from. Just like how guys are assuming shit about women, women are also assuming shit about the game. I always thought how lucky men were to have their pick because women had to wait until approached for not seeming pushy. 

This shit is news to me.


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