How to accept the BlackPIll

[RawJudah]

2 hours ago, MAHAVATAR_-_BABAJI said:

No heterosexual man will get their "mind off women". Even without the internet depression and social isolation still exists. Just like God still exists independently of your belief in it/him.

There's so much more to life than relationships. These young dudes are lost in a fog of internet and porn - which makes them think about women constantly. When you mature a bit more you realise how pathetic it all is, and that there's much more to life. In a way being young sucks because you don't know any better, and chances are their father is clueless too.

[Growly]

@MAHAVATAR_-_BABAJI

You just confirmed blackpill being true using your direct experience, thanks.

But I'm trying my very best to stop consuming the blackpill and go more towards looksmaxxing aka self-improvment.

 

@mmKay I understand that beliefs change your reality, but it's so hard to change when an ideology validates your experience(mostly all social experience)

[Growly]

@k-ahmadzadeh I'm not sure how an average indian can live happy in india, or they aren't happy...

[Leo Gura]

4 hours ago, MAHAVATAR_-_BABAJI said:

What happens after step number one if your reality keeps reinforcing and validating the toxic content you have consumed?

Feed and program your mind with positive empowering content and by taking action on building your life.

Edited April 14, 2024 by Leo Gura

[Schizophonia]

9 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

Feed and program your mind with positive empowering content and by taking action on building your life.

Do you think that this forum overall has a good influence on you or others?

[Yimpa]

1 minute ago, Schizophonia said:

Do you think that this forum overall has a good influence on you or others?

Compared to the type of shit I used to consume on the internet, for sure.

[Schizophonia]

Just now, Yimpa said:

Compared to the type of shit I used to consume on the internet, for sure.

Do you watch incel content or stuff like that?

[RawJudah]

1 minute ago, Yimpa said:

Compared to the type of shit I used to consume on the internet, for sure.

You must admit, that there is a lot of shit on this forum too. When this forum first started there were some great questions being asked. Now it seems to be dumbed down a bit...

[Leo Gura]

45 minutes ago, Schizophonia said:

Do you think that this forum overall has a good influence on you or others?

Relative to Black Pill, yes.

This forum can be a time sink and a distraction, but it is not toxic or negative. This is a place to feel less lonely in your personal dev journey. It can be lonely out there.

Edited April 14, 2024 by Leo Gura

[Yimpa]

54 minutes ago, Schizophonia said:

Do you watch incel content or stuff like that?

I used to spend hours everyday on Omegle chat and I could never maintain an intimate relationship with anybody.

[Rigel]

14 hours ago, Growly said:

@RendHeaven

Wrong, you realize that that video has 21million views....

That means he has some social status and that's what seperates himself from below average people. So that girlfriend only came to him because of that reason; If he didn't make a youtube channel, he  would be like the rest of the below average people which is never getting a girlfriend

Nothing’s preventing you from building social status if he managed it.

14 hours ago, Growly said:

@Rigel Being confident while being ugly will be seen as arrogant while the good looks will be seen as confident.

Look up the "Halo effect"

That’s your thinking mind again. Most of what appears in it is ripe for the trash where it belongs.

There’s a big difference between arrogance & confidence. Arrogant people aren’t confident. They are compensating in a dysfunctional way. Know within yourself what arrogance & confidence are.

You are seeking approval. That’s the problem. Who gives a shit if some people find you arrogant? Others won’t. Focus on people that vibe with you. You can’t please everyone and you shouldn’t want to.

I won’t look up “the halo effect”, that’s more bullshit you gotta rid yourself of.

“Yeah but x!” <- Trash

”Yeah but y!” <- Trash

”Yeah but z!” <- Trash

[RendHeaven]

20 hours ago, Growly said:

@RendHeaven

Wrong, you realize that that video has 21million views....

That means he has some social status and that's what seperates himself from below average people. So that girlfriend only came to him because of that reason; If he didn't make a youtube channel, he  would be like the rest of the below average people which is never getting a girlfriend

you said "wrong" and then explained to me a bulletproof escape strategy from your situation as if that wasn't more evidence for my point.

are you a clown?

[Leo Gura]

2 hours ago, RendHeaven said:

are you a clown?

Don't be mean.

[Raze]

https://www.playingfire.com/7-scientific-studies-that-disprove-the-redpill-blackpill/

https://www.girlschase.com/article/how-disprove-looks-are-pillar-attraction-ideology

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ndzh0NlOUyE

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P1at4IdKPRk

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l0I-9Gc96_8

 

Edited April 15, 2024 by Raze

[MAHAVATAR_-_BABAJI]

19 hours ago, Growly said:

@MAHAVATAR_-_BABAJI

You just confirmed blackpill being true using your direct experience, thanks.

But I'm trying my very best to stop consuming the blackpill and go more towards looksmaxxing aka self-improvment.

 

@mmKay I understand that beliefs change your reality, but it's so hard to change when an ideology validates your experience(mostly all social experience)

Every ideology has nuggets of truth. All truths are half-truths. One truths doesn't check mark an entire ideology. 

It's all about appearance and signals. If you wear nice looking and we'll fitted clothing, clean and kempt hair, you smell nice then there shouldn't be a problem. 

[SeaMonster]

On 4/14/2024 at 1:38 AM, Growly said:

Yeah, even though it's %100 truth, I will stop consuming this disgusting ideology.

Blackpill is not 100% truth, it's more like a self-fulfilling prophecy.

What is 100% truth is that in life you're dealt a certain hand, and your outcomes depend on how well you play that hand, not intrinsically on the hand itself.

If you change everything you're capable of changing for the better, you're going to maximize your success in life.

Blackpill is basically a rationalization for not doing the hard work of changing what you can change.

Let's say you're short and ugly.  Can you hit the gym? Yes.  Can you dress well? Yes.  Can you learn how to talk well and be charming, have a sense of humor, learn how to dance, e.g., play a musical instrument? Yes.

Those things get you a long way.

But blackpill guys are secretly whiny, entitled babies who don't want to do hard work.  They are immature and frightened.  They are looking for an excuse to give up.  

That's the crux of the matter.  You can maximize your potential or give up because it's hard, or you don't feel like it, or you feel entitled not to.

[Growly]

@SeaMonster Beauty standards created the blackpill, you can't change beauty standards in a day, it'll take centuries...

The blackpill guys put in the work and still end up not getting results due to their genetic failure, but I stopped consuming the blackpill as I accepted that reality, no point in crying about it anymore

[Growly]

But one thing for sure is that Leo gura really be motivating me because he isn't conventionally attractive and he still is happy. Which gives me hope that I might be in a delusion with this blackpill ideology.

[Leo Gura]

6 minutes ago, Growly said:

But one thing for sure is that Leo gura really be motivating me because he isn't conventionally attractive and he still is happy. Which gives me hope that I might be in a delusion with this blackpill ideology.

Did you read my Jack Black blog post?

[Applegarden8]

On 4/14/2024 at 10:05 PM, Leo Gura said:

Relative to Black Pill, yes.

This forum can be a time sink and a distraction, but it is not toxic or negative. This is a place to feel less lonely in your personal dev journey. It can be lonely out there.

It is pretty lonely in a sense that you are in a sea of virtue signaling people passive aggressively attacking you. That is what I keep experiencing the most and is the biggest downside. People do not accept you for who you are, but the paradox is that this is the most of what I authentically am that I have ever been in my life. It's sad. People having problems. Not solving them and then projecting them to all other people. It's like an MLM.