How to accept the BlackPIll

[Yali]

that's why it's important to have compassion. no one gets to choose who they are.

[RendHeaven]

5 hours ago, Growly said:

@Rigel 

 

@Growly pretty sure this dude got a cute GF through youtube. And his channel name is "never give up"

looks like you ran off with the wrong takeaway 

[Growly]

@RendHeaven

Wrong, you realize that that video has 21million views....

That means he has some social status and that's what seperates himself from below average people. So that girlfriend only came to him because of that reason; If he didn't make a youtube channel, he  would be like the rest of the below average people which is never getting a girlfriend

[Growly]

@Leo Gura Yeah, even though it's %100 truth, I will stop consuming this disgusting ideology.

This is probably the worse ideology I've come across that actually took a tole on my mental health.. other ideologies didn't effect me as much as this brutal shit.

[Growly]

@Rigel Being confident while being ugly will be seen as arrogant while the good looks will be seen as confident.

Look up the "Halo effect"

[vibv]

8 hours ago, Growly said:

I wish I never discovered about this blackpill ideology, but it is what it is. 

Don't you see the irony here? You even recognize that you'd be happier if you didn't believe in that ideology. And still you say that you have no other choice than believing in it. Is that really true?

You have a choice. You are creating your own unhappiness.

[Davino]

8 hours ago, Yimpa said:

 

This video was touching, what a life story. thanks for sharing @Yimpa

[k-ahmadzadeh]

@Growly

Brother, you need really to stop consuming those materials because they only remind you of the negative aspects of life. Hopefully, you have other positive elements in your life or can engage in activities that promote positivity. When you feed yourself with negativity, it diminishes your capacity for positive feelings and attitudes in your daily consciousness. Try to maximise positivity, and negative influences will lose their grip on you. Then, you'll likely notice that there are other valuable aspects of life beyond relationships and socializing. 

To release sexual tension and fulfill your need for feminine energy, consider seeing high-quality escorts. It can really help you. I regularly meet a girl who is too sweet to be escort, and it helps me release tension and refocus on other aspects of my life. 

I am practising both, thus, gaining benefits despite being black pilled. The principle here is to maximise your quality of daily life. 

Additionally, you can seek out like-minded friends. When it comes to friendship, wise individuals don't judge based on looks; who are only people you would want to be friend.

[k-ahmadzadeh]

 

[OBEler]

Look at Steven Hawkins.There is more to life than a girlfriend and friends. Find it.

The black pill is true on the average. But if you look on the individual there are exceptions.I know a good friend who is an 8 but an introvert and even if he is partying a lot, hosting house partys, he never got a girlfriend. He don't know how to talk to girls.So we talk here about probabilities on both sides.

 

 

 

 

[mmKay]

Swordsmen wear terrible disfiguring facial scars with the biggest pride 

Wear the ugly face that God challenged you with as a test of your character with pride. 

 

If you looked through the eyes of a person that has esthetics and contrast it with what you see, it's exactly the same

 

The difference is how people react to them and how they have been conditioned and showered with praise throughout their life's which has solidified their confidence.

They get more attention and have it easier in life

They are confident because society tells them who they are, and it happens to be positive

Why do you want an easier life? Don't wish for a lighter load - wish for stronger shoulders

Why do you allow society to tell you your worth? Is displaying a symetrical face the climax of living life?

 

What you're ignoring is that many aesthetic people still have self esteem issues . And they will loose their looks eventually. Their self worth and value is conditional 

You can build deeply gounded timeless unconditional confidence that emanates from within. From proper beliefs. From unconditional love towards yourself. From building yourself into a high quality man  with your own two fucking hands

Having it easy is a blessing but mostly a curse. Human beings are notoriously ungrateful and unappreciative of things they haven't earned

 

Yes, looks influence how people react to you. One of the core fundamentals of game and powerful appliance of social dynamics is being at the cause and not at the effect.

Don't look for others people permission to be yourself. Don't seek for approval from others. It's good if you get some, but don't depend on it. 

 

Do you want to hear something crazy? All of what people say or do is first filtered through your beliefs and frames and then you draw conclusions and react.

With the proper mindset you will invalidate anything that isn't aligned with an empowering reallity. I'm not talking about being defensive or arrogant. I'm talking about manufacturing delusional amounts of coincidence that emanates from within and is not dependent on seeking validation and positive reaction from others.

Don't ask for permission to live 

 

 

[RawJudah]

If the internet didn’t exist, this black pill victim shit wouldn’t exist. Everyone’s getting on with life, and they don’t fall for this crap. 
Take a week away from the internet and see how you feel. You’ll probably forget most of the ideologies that you’ve accumulated. 
Go outside and do other things. Take your mind completely off women and the unfairness of life. Genetics is something you ain’t gonna get around. You have to accept it and move forward. 

[MAHAVATAR_-_BABAJI]

9 hours ago, Leo Gura said:

#1 thing you must do immediately is stop consuming toxic, low consciousness, negative content from the internet.

Nothing can help you if you keep brainwashing yourself with trashy content from trashy people.

Only listen to positive successful people.

What happens after step number one if your reality keeps reinforcing and validating the toxic content you have consumed?

[MAHAVATAR_-_BABAJI]

1 hour ago, RawJudah said:

If the internet didn’t exist, this black pill victim shit wouldn’t exist. Everyone’s getting on with life, and they don’t fall for this crap. 
Take a week away from the internet and see how you feel. You’ll probably forget most of the ideologies that you’ve accumulated. 
Go outside and do other things. Take your mind completely off women and the unfairness of life. Genetics is something you ain’t gonna get around. You have to accept it and move forward. 

No heterosexual man will get their "mind off women". Even without the internet depression and social isolation still exists. Just like God still exists independently of your belief in it/him.

[MAHAVATAR_-_BABAJI]

4 hours ago, OBEler said:

Look at Steven Hawkins.There is more to life than a girlfriend and friends. Find it.

The black pill is true on the average. But if you look on the individual there are exceptions.I know a good friend who is an 8 but an introvert and even if he is partying a lot, hosting house partys, he never got a girlfriend. He don't know how to talk to girls.So we talk here about probabilities on both sides.

 

 

 

 

You have no true understanding of how he actually experiences life. On the outside he makes it seem like he is fine. Unless you are homosexual there is no way you will feel fine as an attractive male and not having an intimate relationship. We all desire Love. 

[MAHAVATAR_-_BABAJI]

8 hours ago, Growly said:

@RendHeaven

Wrong, you realize that that video has 21million views....

That means he has some social status and that's what seperates himself from below average people. So that girlfriend only came to him because of that reason; If he didn't make a youtube channel, he  would be like the rest of the below average people which is never getting a girlfriend

100% True. I've personally have not even read black pill or any pill. I just hear bits and pieces. The more you become aware or certain aspects of life our minds can seek to validate the parts of life we want to be seen as true.

If you don't have a higher status than her then don't expect to get laid. It's signals rather than actual evidence. Your location is also a huge factor. Race is a huge component. 

Idk if you are white, black, asian, Indian, etc. As a Black guy(women say I "look like milli vanilli and Lenny Kravitz all the time) in an upstate ny suburban area rarely do the women of my age(24) interact and have relationships with black men. I have to find other races and even approaching is hard. I look through their socials and it's all white dudes. I go to parks and white chick's always call security or cops when I'm simply reading a book(cops park behind me).

Think about factors and other outside influences before just saying "women" are this and that. I've had white gf and relationships which proved it wasn't that I wasn't attractive or high status. Other things are at play which we aren't aware of. 

Maybe moving to a place where diversity is high may help? Again, it's a Longshot and not everyone has money like that. Goodluck in your journey and hope something i said has some benefit!

#Godspeed🙏🖤🙏

 

Edited April 14 by MAHAVATAR_-_BABAJI

[bebotalk]

We need to go back to the time before participation trophies. That seems like a trope, but then it seems practicality has outshone misguided betterment. 

Nothing comes without work. 

And we're born in cold, hard and dark spaces. 

 

[MAHAVATAR_-_BABAJI]

Avoid reading things that don't provide solutions to the way you feel.

If the outside environment was blessing your ego would your state of consciousness resonate with complaints where one is insufficient(black pill).

[ExplorerMystic]

Leave black pill . Take some Positive pill 💊.

 

[bebotalk]

all of these dating ideoogies are just scams. or i guess the Web has allowed people of like minds to congregate.