Posted April 14 @Sugarcoat True, We should all be strong in our truth and respect others. Can’t control bitterness of others "Unburdened and Becoming" - Bon Iver ◭"89"◮ Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 14 (edited) 7 minutes ago, Thought Art said: @Sugarcoat True, We should all be strong in our truth and respect others. Can’t control bitterness of others Mm. It must be a very extreme level if it goes so far that a person would lash out at strangers. Many people can walk around with prejudice but they keep it to themselves so in this case serious deep change is needed forum interaction won’t penetrate I think. Nothing wrong w it tho Edited April 14 by Sugarcoat Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 14 (edited) @Sugarcoat Well, books have an effect on people, text messages do, ads do, videos do, The forum does have an effect on it’s users. It won’t change over night but what we are doing in this thread is collectively addressing this issue of our misperceptions. Time and consciousness will tell Edited April 14 by Thought Art "Unburdened and Becoming" - Bon Iver ◭"89"◮ Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 14 2 minutes ago, Thought Art said: @Sugarcoat Well, books have an effect on people, text messages do, ads do, videos do, The forum does have an effect on it’s users. It won’t change over night but what we are doing in this thread is collectively addressing this issue of our misperceptions. Time and consciousness will tell Yea there’s always possibility Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 14 @Sugarcoat https://www.facebook.com/reel/1857567701322253?mibextid=rS40aB7S9Ucbxw6v "Unburdened and Becoming" - Bon Iver ◭"89"◮ Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 14 3 minutes ago, Thought Art said: @Sugarcoat https://www.facebook.com/reel/1857567701322253?mibextid=rS40aB7S9Ucbxw6v That was a beautiful quote actually Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 14 @Sugarcoat "Unburdened and Becoming" - Bon Iver ◭"89"◮ Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 14 3 hours ago, Sugarcoat said: “Hot” women don’t care that you are mad at them. they don't have to. though is see you're the height of civility yourself. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 14 8 minutes ago, bebotalk said: they don't have to. though is see you're the height of civility yourself. I don’t know what u mean Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 15 @Sugarcoat He is saying, I think that you also react to people sometimes in unkind ways. Which, we all do. "Unburdened and Becoming" - Bon Iver ◭"89"◮ Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 15 20 minutes ago, Thought Art said: @Sugarcoat He is saying, I think that you also react to people sometimes in unkind ways. Which, we all do. Ok Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 15 8 hours ago, Sugarcoat said: Ok Why must I care if they care? I just know them. so I am wary of them. Nobody has to take what others do. I'm amused you think this is correct conduct. tbh i had put you on ignore, since you often come across as hostile, arrogant and hypocritical. don't lecture what i say. ever. And accept people have varying moods and states. you do on others. i dunno where you get this notion that you're a "central regulator". Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 15 @bebotalk would you like the thread open or locked? "Unburdened and Becoming" - Bon Iver ◭"89"◮ Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 15 16 hours ago, Consept said: The reality is @bebotalk hates these women because he wants them but doesnt feel worthy, so lashing out is a way to gain power over a sutuation where he feels powerless. If he can make these women feel bad or feel any emotion he has exerted power and also in someway gained some kind of connection with them. The problem he will find is that he will constantly live on this state of hatred and self defence. For the women maybe it'll annoy them for a day, for him he will be in this negative emotion indefinitely, so much so that the longer it goes the harder it will be to get out. How he feels inside will be reflected back to him as he pushes these women to go down to his level. This will be the ongoing consequences for this type of mentality and unless he recognises this and makes effort to change he will be doomed to go through this. I'm not sure anyone's words can pull him out it's really on him to go through this, but if he does want out I'm sure many will help him How are you so sure? I seldom date. Like you know my life and soul and intent. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 15 30 minutes ago, bebotalk said: tbh i had put you on ignore, since you often come across as hostile, arrogant and hypocritical. don't lecture what i say. ever. And accept people have varying moods and states. you do on others. i dunno where you get this notion that you're a "central regulator". lol @Sugarcoat Welcome to the club I simply am. You simply are. We are The Same One forever. Come and join The Glory. Those you do not forgive you fear. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 15 2 minutes ago, bebotalk said: How are you so sure? I seldom date. Like you know my life and soul and intent. What parts do you disagree with? If you liked whatever i said in this post, check out my youtube channel for actual me talking Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 15 I dont care if I look "bad" for these views. So what? people have dark views. If it is the "norm" that people can be racist, sexist, etc. then I don't see the issue. let people have bad views. Or will some pretty women (since they're the arrogant people who get to "decide" who has views or not) who gets off from being "human" and having prejudices? people are human. we're imperfect. maybe others should be consistent in their condemnation, or not assume they're "above" things. or "regulate" who does what. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 15 (edited) @bebotalk I’m not judging you. I am very imperfect too Edited April 15 by Thought Art "Unburdened and Becoming" - Bon Iver ◭"89"◮ Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Posted April 15 (edited) @bebotalk you're free to do whatever you want. But why would you want to be toxic? When you have a choice not to be toxic? This attachment you have to defend your toxic tendencies is a bit silly... As if being toxic will benefit you somehow. I think not being being toxic is a healthier, better choice. It's just common sense. Unless you disagree. That's fine too. Edited April 15 by Salvijus I simply am. You simply are. We are The Same One forever. Come and join The Glory. Those you do not forgive you fear. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
