most people don't have a lifestyle that is conducive to healthy relationship

[Boris97921234]

I think most people in society dont have a lifestyle that is conducive to a healthy longterm relationship.

For me personally, working 40 hours a week and maintaining a relationship seems impossible. Also points being made in this video.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XF77426aWzY&t=523s&ab_channel=Actualized.org

 

[BEWISE]

This is a funny question I mean it all depends on the people who are in the relationship. I didn't watch the video. I see a lot of these questions could be answered by a little bit more experience in life. Overthinking things before they take place is always the wrong route. I think if you tried and actually lived with someone and worked 40 hours you can have your own perspective. I mean if you're not working that means you are probably sitting up under each other all day and night and eventually you will get tired of that. Then you wind up having a baby from all the free time now you have to find a job which will probably be more than 40 hours. LOL so be careful what you ask for. In conclusion I think 8  hours at work and the rest with your significant other is more than enough time.

[Rishabh R]

@Boris97921234 It depends on people but also you are in a great advantage as long as one does not have a toxic lifestyle like smoking cigerette, drinking alcohol , abusing people etc. as people in my college do.

[Basman]

I think the modern "career oriented" lifestyle is not conducive to any relationship in general compared to the past. We used to live with our work when we where farmers and everyone depended on each and lived in a close-knit community. Similarly during early industrialization when workers lived at the factory.

The modern lifestyle atomizes and isolates people. Of course the quantity of our relationships suffer as a consequence.