Communities of Shame - (Red Pill, Incels, MGTOW, etc.)

[Ulax]

@Emerald You do any work with IFS therapy?

[CARDOZZO]

@Emerald Thanks for sharing!  

[bebotalk]

People enabling incels is the issue. 

they need mental re-orientation. 

[Ramanujan]

@Emerald

MIGTOW = get tired with feminism bullshit , and quit the game all together

RED PILL = get tired with feminism bullshit , but doesnt quit. they think the game is inevitable and they try to play the game

Incels = people with no ability to compete with chads and the top 20% men and call it quits

 

 

 

Edited April 24, 2024 by Ramanujan

[BlueOak]

If you want something, getting together with people who don't have it is not going to help.

Many humans are a direct reflection of the expectations of their peer group. There is nobody to learn from in these communities, no role model, and nobody to take advice on success from. So in this scenario, these groups would be the places to avoid if you wanted sex, companionship, or anything meaningful with another person. 

Edited April 24, 2024 by BlueOak

[Emerald]

On 4/18/2024 at 1:08 PM, Javfly33 said:

@Emerald interesting. What is womens collective wound? How It relates or differenciates from the collective shame wound of men?

Women's collective wound is powerlessness.

[Emerald]

On 4/18/2024 at 1:54 PM, Ulax said:

@Emerald You do any work with IFS therapy?

I have a framework for Shadow Work that has similarities to IFS work, though I'm not super familiar with all the ins and outs of IFS.

[Breakingthewall]

On 9/4/2024 at 8:58 AM, Emerald said:

This 'men trying to match up to a Masculine ideal' dynamic is very obvious even at a cursory glance.

The problem with this is that it is not something cultural, a complex or something that must be fixed, it is something real, genetic, intrinsic to man. Man is programmed to face challenges, to be courageous, and if he is not at the level he will always feel diminished, lacking something. Man today lacks these challenges, masculinity is not necessary anymore, and man feels irrelevant, a pet, a shit. And this is translated to the relationship with women, where the man must give himself, and he find that what he has to give is not enough , then the man dont give, want to take from the women , like a baby

Edited May 2, 2024 by Breakingthewall

[bebotalk]

if peolpe really wanted to help incels, they'd arrange mental health interventions. maybe they should have mandatory mental health counseillinf for all school kids. so even kids who aren' incels and get dates and sex can discuss issues confidentially.