Is starting a pickup community dangerous?

[Dodo]

2 minutes ago, Princess Arabia said:

Single men are even more dangerous. My future husband could be one of those guys at the bar.

Yea, if you're into open relationships and he doesnt get bored of your pussy, or get you get too old for him.

If its all lust and for your looks and pussy, what are the chances of a happy long marriage?

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[Nemra]

10 minutes ago, Dodo said:

Groups of men are dangerous

Couldn't agree more. They tend to be violent and have stupid and toxic views about women.

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[Princess Arabia]

7 minutes ago, Dodo said:

Trust me you want honest men. Im sure there are honest pickup artists too, but most hackers are not ethical

 

I don't care about labels, I look at who the person is, how I'm being treated and how I feel around this person. I'm more interested in how he eats (toxic people usually have terrible diets and eats a whole lot of junk food at ALL times), if he's had any really terrible and horrible break-ups, how was his childhood and how he feels about that today, if he also likes men, if he respects women, if he is capable of respecting my boundaries.....things like that, not just if he has a label of being a pick up artist. That says nothing to me, other than he's a pickup artist.

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[Princess Arabia]

5 minutes ago, Dodo said:

Yea, if you're into open relationships and he doesnt get bored of your pussy, or get you get too old for him.

If its all lust and for your looks and pussy, what are the chances of a happy long marriage?

you lost me here, I thought you were referring to a stranger on the street.

[Princess Arabia]

5 minutes ago, Nemra said:

Couldn't agree more. They tend to be violent and have stupid and toxic views about women.

ugg, this is just so one-sided. I've encountered groups of really nice respectable men. 

[Nemra]

@Princess Arabia Travel outside the US or a less developed country. Most men (from priests to family members to gangs, especially gangs) will have degrading and toxic views about women. Even women sometimes agree with those views.

12 minutes ago, Princess Arabia said:

I've encountered groups of really nice respectable men. 

Of course there are.

[Dodo]

1 hour ago, Princess Arabia said:

I don't care about labels, I look at who the person is, how I'm being treated and how I feel around this person. I'm more interested in how he eats (toxic people usually have terrible diets and eats a whole lot of junk food at ALL times), if he's had any really terrible and horrible break-ups, how was his childhood and how he feels about that today, if he also likes men, if he respects women, if he is capable of respecting my boundaries.....things like that, not just if he has a label of being a pick up artist. That says nothing to me, other than he's a pickup artist.

 You want this guy, but all the pickup artist job is to pretend to be this guy. You understand?

[Miguel1]

11 minutes ago, Dodo said:

pretend

Sigh…

This is a waste of time.

These ”pickup artists” have more balls now than you will your whole life combined.

[Princess Arabia]

39 minutes ago, Dodo said:

 You want this guy, but all the pickup artist job is to pretend to be this guy. You understand?

Thanks again for undermining the female intelligence. Pretend all you want, women are equipped with radars and out of space Alien wap wap binoculars that stretches 1mil kilometers long to detect these handsome looking guys that we don't mind fucking. Lmao. Yeah baby, pick me up baby use me up baby, just don't take my money baby.

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[Princess Arabia]

1 hour ago, Nemra said:

@Princess Arabia Travel outside the US or a less developed country. Most men (from priests to family members to gangs, especially gangs) will have degrading and toxic views about women. Even women sometimes agree with those views.

Of course there are.

I can go to the White House for that. Or even the Police Department. Gang bangers have more respect for women than some of these guys. Spare me the details please as none of this stuff is limited to a particular country or occupation. Don't even have to go further than this forum and sit in your house for the rest of your life to be exposed to toxic views about women. I'll save the plane fare thanks.

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[Dodo]

41 minutes ago, Miguel1 said:

Sigh…

This is a waste of time.

These ”pickup artists” have more balls now than you will your whole life combined.

Who am I?

Ps: I am you and you are me. The pickup artists are also me. The girls are also me. Lets not get nasty and bust each others balls. We are all the I.

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[Princess Arabia]

35 minutes ago, Miguel1 said:

Sigh…

This is a waste of time.

These ”pickup artists” have more balls now than you will your whole life combined.

This is why I don't trust moral people and people who think they can save a particular group of people by talking trash about the people they are supposed to be saving a particular set of people from. Excluding under age, children child molesters and trafficking not talking about real victims of real crimes. But who told him that women need to be saved from horny men who just want to have sex and that's it. Or even love women and their company or even like the idea of pick-up. I've been used and manipulated and trash talked about by the most unsuspecting men who act as if they are gods gift to women more than the blatant, most obvious player there could ever be. I'm not saying I'm going to go have sex with the player because of this reason, i'm just trying to address something here and that is, THINGS ARENT ALWAYS WHAT THEY APPEAR TO BE. It's the sneaky, most wanna-be respectful, kind, soft-spoken, act as if he really cares kinda guy you gotta watch. They are the most dangerous and toxic ones because they will trap you with this facade and bind you with their loving kindness until they've got you beneath their wings, then the true monster comes out and by that time you've invested time and feelings for this con-artist, it takes a lot of work and energy to free yourself from this bondage you've put yourself in.

[Princess Arabia]

11 minutes ago, Dodo said:

Who am I?

Ps: I am you and you are me. The pickup artists are also me. The girls are also me. Lets not get nasty and bust each others balls. We are all the I.

ok, I hate pick-up artists. All they want to do is use and abuse women and treat them like a piece of meat. You see, how you switched the conversation to try to suit you because you've ran out of ways to try and sway us to agree with your toxic views about a particular set of people. Now, you are them, and you are me and everybody is one and let's just love the lord and sing kumbaya. I told you you were dangerous and narcisstic and now you're trying to use psychology to cool down the pace. I saw right through you from the beginning. 

[Nemra]

@Princess Arabia lol. No. You won't survive there, as you are right now with your views. I'll stop, as I digress. No hate towards pick-up. ✌️

[Emerald]

11 hours ago, Dodo said:

 I dont fancy myself as saviour of women. It just so happened I had an episode where i was in contact with a feminine divine energy and I had to work undercover together with Her against my fellow boys in order to bring balance to situations. The men were very rude and overpowering, and the feminine wanted to fix that.

Its like the divine feminine being unhappy with what the masculine is doing. They are both divine, but the masculine wants to take full reigns, and the feminine needed help.  

Idk maybe it was all a dream, but it was well real for me while happening. And maybe I failed, or maybe it just needed me there as a presence. At that time i was voluntary celibate (as in not even pleasuring myself) and fasting naturally and didn't need to sleep. 

The thing is, women don’t need your protection against this that or the other pickup artist.

And I can see this dream/vision of being the protector of the divine Feminine leading into you superimposing a narrative onto reality where you can play this savior/hero figure to supposed damsels in distress.

But reality doesn’t work that way. And women don’t need this.

The problems that women are facing at the hands of men can only be fixed with true mutual understanding and empathy.

And our core problem doesn’t stem from the fact that pickup artists are seeking sex from us.

The core problem comes from misrepresentation and not being understood or listened to. And having men’s agendas and narratives bulldoze over our agency. Sometimes this dynamic is sexual and sometimes it’s non-sexual. But it’s always about having our agency swallowed up into men’s agendas, narratives, and misconceptions.

[Princess Arabia]

18 minutes ago, Nemra said:

@Princess Arabia lol. No. You won't survive there, as you are right now with your views. I'll stop, as I digress. No hate towards pick-up. ✌️

Don't assume what you believe I wouldn't survive. I survived this and many other shit that the people in my country has been exposed to. I was born and raised here and seen a lot of shit so don't make this pretty face fool you. Dont know if it still is but Jamaica was once labelled the #1murder capital of the world. Nothing to be proud about, but don't assume that I couldn't survive those conditions in those countries you talk about. I survived this. Even though where I lived wasn't bad but I've visited these places and used to date drug lords. But I was very young and had a decent life.

 

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[Nemra]

@Princess Arabia then why aren't you living there, if I may ask?

[Bobby_2021]

7 minutes ago, Emerald said:

And having men’s agendas and narratives bulldoze over our agency. Sometimes this dynamic is sexual and sometimes it’s non-sexual. But it’s always about having our agency swallowed up into men’s agendas, narratives, and misconceptions.

IF you want men to honor your agency, you need to act like you have one. Men are more than willing to give enough agency to women if they can show him that they can handle it.

Most women want their man to decide where to eat, plan where to go, what to speak and make those little decisions. You do not wait for others to give agency to you. You can already see the message you will be sending him. So he will be the one who have agency by default. Women are free to take it into their own hands. Most women will do not. 

Agency will require you to handle matters more directly and communicate clearly. All you can do that, then men will not stand in your way. In fact they will be even more welcoming. 

[Princess Arabia]

17 minutes ago, Nemra said:

@Princess Arabia then why aren't you living there, if I may ask?

I never lived in these neighborhoods im just showing parts of what it's like in the country I was raised in. I've emigrated to the US for awhile now. I don't understand why someone would ask why I'm not living where I'm not living. 

[Nemra]

@Princess Arabia Good for you. Not everyone is like you and has luck like you. Please don't assume that if you survived there, you could survive elsewhere by default. Anyway, I wish you the best.