Females are very cringe about age

[Schizophonia]

Life is too difficult to have the luxury of having complexes like that.

[Nemra]

@StarStruck To be clear, I don't agree with your generalizations, but I understand where you're coming from.

[Princess Arabia]

1 minute ago, Nemra said:

@StarStruck To be clear, I don't agree with your generalizations, but I understand where you're coming from.

He doesn't even agree with his own shit.

[StarStruck]

6 minutes ago, Schizophonia said:

What's the difference between you and a hysterical woman ?
Above all, these women should not approach you in an unpleasant manner, women at least should be careful of sexual predators.

It happens in a social context. During social stuff or dance class. 

[Schizophonia]

11 minutes ago, StarStruck said:

She thinks having traumas is shameful while we all have our traumas. Probably I like younger women because they are fertile and it is just hard wired in my instincts but also because I couldn’t get any gfs in my early 20’ies so I feel like I have some catching up to do. 

Catch up on what? 

As I said, there are plenty of 20 year old girls with bad looks, and especially not very proactive, and even who suffer from mental problems.
There are plenty of women even 40/50 years old (I'm not saying you have to go out with a woman of that age, lol) who are still physically pleasant, and are manic, will cook for you regularly, full of hugs, sexual relations...

You are the only person in the room who is ego-driven and has suffered a loss of vital energy (so you correlate that with age intuitively), not particularly women (unless you are in or near menopause).

Edited April 4 by Schizophonia

[StarStruck]

6 minutes ago, Nemra said:

@StarStruck To be clear, I don't agree with your generalizations, but I understand where you're coming from.

It is ok 

[Schizophonia]

In any case, it is only the present moment that counts, everything else is a delusion of the ego.

[Schizophonia]

15 minutes ago, Princess Arabia said:

My comment here wasn't meant for you. 

I know, it was a comment.

Edit : because I like to intrude and ramble, because I'm narcissistic and I think I'm right.  

Edited April 4 by Schizophonia

[StarStruck]

2 minutes ago, Schizophonia said:

Catch up on what? 

As I said, there are plenty of 20 year old girls with bad looks, and especially not very proactive, and even who suffer from mental problems.
There are plenty of women even 40/50 years old (I'm not saying you have to go out with a woman of that age, lol) who are still physically pleasant, and are manic, will cook for you regularly, full of hugs, sexual relations...

You are the only person in the room who is ego-driven and has suffered a loss of vital energy (so you correlate that with age intuitively), not particularly women (unless you are in or near menopause).

I don’t care about that. I don’t want to date a mother figure. That is what you don’t get. We all fancy different stuff. 

[Nemra]

@Princess Arabia Well, I see that. He's just putting women in a very narrow box, which makes him think that all women should be like that because it is more desirable to him. But it's not that other people are not being toxic to him, which makes him justify his views or biases about women.

[Schizophonia]

2 minutes ago, StarStruck said:

I don’t care about that. I don’t want to date a mother figure. That is what you don’t get. We all fancy different stuff. 

What does this have to do with a “mother figure”? A young woman can unconsciously play your mother, there is no problem.
Stop rambling about this thing to dishonestly try to be right.

Edited April 4 by Schizophonia

[StarStruck]

1 minute ago, Schizophonia said:

What does this have to do with a “mother figure”? A young woman can unconsciously play your mother, there is no problem.
Stop rambling about it to dishonestly try to be right.

Aren’t you into older woman? Where do you think that comes from?

[StarStruck]

3 minutes ago, Nemra said:

@Princess Arabia Well, I see that. He's just putting women in a very narrow box, which makes him think that all women should be like that because it is more desirable to him. But it's not that other people are not being toxic to him, which makes him justify his views or biases about women.

Like what?

[Schizophonia]

2 minutes ago, Nemra said:

@Princess Arabia Well, I see that. He's just putting women in a very narrow box, which makes him think that all women should be like that because it is more desirable to him. But it's not that other people are not being toxic to him, which makes him justify his views or biases about women.

In his own words, he's just frustrated at not having a girlfriend at 20, and making a big deal out of it rather than having fun now and by extension in the future, when that's the only thing that matters.
I mean that if it turns out, he is in the process of developing extremely serious cancer and will soon find himself in cachexia and spitting blood, but he is worried about something as random as "the women I easily attract are on average too old, I'm frustrated because it brings me back to a problem with my ego."
What a fantastic problem lol.

[Schizophonia]

2 minutes ago, StarStruck said:

Aren’t you into older woman? Where do you think that comes from?

I like older women, there's a certain kink to it and I guess it reminds me of my mother or something.
It doesn't matter, I like, want and attract women my age.

From experience, it is better to indulge in the women you attract rather than the ones you want, because women have less ego and are less mistaken about the energy they are looking for.

[Princess Arabia]

9 minutes ago, Nemra said:

@Princess Arabia Well, I see that. He's just putting women in a very narrow box, which makes him think that all women should be like that because it is more desirable to him. But it's not that other people are not being toxic to him, which makes him justify his views or biases about women.

He's only fighting with himself and his own mind. Like most of us about most everything. That simple. What is doesn't care about what you think about it. 

[StarStruck]

1 minute ago, Schizophonia said:

I like older women, there's a certain kink to it and I guess it reminds me of my mother or something.
It doesn't matter, I like, want and attract women my age.

From experience, it is better to indulge in the women you attract rather than the ones you want, because women have less ego and are less mistaken about the energy they are looking for.

Well you should apply your own advice to yourself then. I do agree with your advice though: just enjoying the moment and forgetting the past. But it is just not that easy to do. There is no magic pill to fix traumas. 

[Nemra]

@StarStruck Well, you stated in your previous posts. Young, submissive, etc.

[Princess Arabia]

6 minutes ago, Schizophonia said:

What a fantastic problem

Yeah, right. He'll be begging for those older women's attention some day, maybe sooner than later.

[Princess Arabia]

1 minute ago, StarStruck said:

Well you should apply your own advice to yourself then. I do agree with your advice though: just enjoying the moment and forgetting the past. But it is just not that easy to do. There is no magic pill to fix traumas. 

Nothing perfect needs fixing. Only the mind needs to realize it's illusory. But that's another topic for another thread, let's just stick to age cringe.