If you had a child… would you want a boy or a girl?

[Seed]

Just curious, baring in my gender differences that are so often discussed in here.

 

[mr_engineer]

7 hours ago, Seed said:

Just curious, baring in my gender differences that are so often discussed in here.

 

There is no other reason to have a gender-preference for your child, other than self-bias. 

So, when you ask us this question, what you're really saying is that you want to know our biases! 

[Sabth]

A girl! Definitely a girl. But if I get a boy, idk. Maybe I should just accept it as myself. Nah. 

[Bobby_2021]

Both are awesome. But boys are more mischievous to raise than girls. I always that it would be nice to have a girl first and then a boy.

But I underestimated how hard it is to raise one. They are a freking drain on your time, especially for the mother. 

[Sabth]

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Edited April 2 by Sabth

[Bobby_2021]

1 minute ago, Sabth said:

My sister had a boy firstborn. And I just thought that I wouldn't like to breastfeed a boy. I couldn't imagine it. Raisin a boy. It would be a bigger baby too. So I don't like a boy. (But I couldn't imagine having to breastfeed a baby either) But a girl would def be easier. And I have seen a lot of young mothers who have daughters , rather than a boy , though nothing much is different. (Nah I just wanna be like my fam ~) If there is a preference then I want a girl. 

I see where you are coming from. Once you have a baby, you will probably lose all the fine preference you have to the gender of your baby. 

[Sabth]

10 minutes ago, Bobby_2021 said:

I see where you are coming from. Once you have a baby, you will probably lose all the fine preference you have to the gender of your baby. 

She also lost a lot of weight for having to breastfeed a boy.. being a mother.

Edited April 2 by Sabth

[Yimpa]

I wouldn’t want to impose my agenda of what gender my child should and shouldn’t be. We would explore that together. 

[Sabth]

I also don't have older brothers. I have older sisters.  

[Seed]

On 4/1/2024 at 8:40 PM, Sabth said:

A girl! Definitely a girl. But if I get a boy, idk. Maybe I should just accept it as myself. Nah. 

are you male or female?

[Seed]

@Bobby_2021 Why is that?

 

I have a ten year old girl and due a baby boy in 2 months! xx

[Bobby_2021]

3 hours ago, Seed said:

@Bobby_2021 Why is that?

 

I have a ten year old girl and due a baby boy in 2 months! xx

Omg I am so happy for you. I remember your old posts asking for thoughts on having a second baby and I encouraged you to go for it. I always like to have girl first and then a boy. Somehow the configuration is so nice, don't know why. That's exactly what you got!!! 

Dropping tears in my eyes right now. It happened so fast afterwards isn't it.

I have some experience taking care of my nephew and he is already making us walk on the line. Lol. Girls are generally easy it seems. His mother has a friend who has a girl child and she is too peaceful. 

Good luck for the delivery.

You will have a great baby boy. 

[Sabth]

20 hours ago, Seed said:

are you male or female?

Male~ na jk. Female>

Both of my older sisters had a boy first so I wonder if it's good to have a firstborn boy. They have the dynamic of an older brother. Then girls. 

But originally I like girls. 

Edited April 6 by Sabth

[Leo Gura]

A demon child.

[TheGod]

Millions of my liquid children die after I jerk off 

[Abe27]

@mr_engineer 

On 1.4.2024 at 9:08 PM, mr_engineer said:

There is no other reason to have a gender-preference for your child, other than self-bias. 

So, when you ask us this question, what you're really saying is that you want to know our biases! 

Sounds like you have a pretty strong anti-bias bias.

[Vrubel]

A girl, I can intuit I'll have at least one girl.

[Frosty97]

8 hours ago, Leo Gura said:

A demon child.

@Leo Gura Because a demon child will be more well off than an empathetic child? Or for your personal spiritual growth?

Edited April 6 by Frosty97

[Nemra]

A girl and a boy, because it'll make them not easily locked into some stupid groupthink or mindset of their culture. TBH, I don't want any.

Edited April 6 by Nemra

[Schizophonia]

Whatever, i target at least 3 childrens.