HELP, I'm in love with two boys !!!

[Asia P]

@jimwell thanks thanks thankkss for your messagee, it reassured me a lot.

On 2/4/2024 at 3:39 PM, jimwell said:

  It's not good to take any romantic relationship too seriously at that age. Enjoy the romantic experiences but don't take them too seriously. You're only 18, girl. 

Hahahah everyone tells me this, but im so serious about my relationshiipp, at least as seriously as I take life in general (not a lot)

On 2/4/2024 at 3:48 PM, jimwell said:

Is that you @Asia P? 

Regardless, break all the rules, girl. 

I didint know her, but its definitely me. So accurate.❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[Asia P]

8 hours ago, mmKay said:

@Asia P do It.

I was skeptical of the idea at the beginning but I've met a few girls that told me LITERALLY the exact same story you are sharing .

Apparently some brains are wired to be less jealous ( or they managed to mentally rewire their jealously and not get triggered by it) and open for polyamourousness.

I thought that once you start having sex with different people the relationship will crumble but apparently these people are so above the  baseline emotional intelligence that they can really handle it

You've also hit the jackpot with your X guy. If he's willing to open the relationship up, you're free to explore.

You will meet more Y's later in your life

Usually an open relationship has to be an expectation you set from the very beginning. Because if you start exclusive and later you  want to go non-exclusive, there is a perception of " losing the exclusiveness". You don't have this perception of losing anything if you start with the expectation of polyamourousness

Your communication with X seems to be very good and he seems to be open and serious about the idea. This can definitely work, at least short to mid term, if your emotional intelligence is high, and he sees your joy and pleasure as his joy and pleasure and vice versa. This is the way one of the girls explained her open relationship to me. They would come back from their other partners excited to share every that happened and they enjoyed. Pretty remarkable relationship and emotional skills.

 

Men are more open to the idea of open relationships overall because it benefits their reproductive biological reproductive strategy of impregnating as many women as possible

 

Also you are extremely young and inexperienced. You have a very long time to experiment around. And the best time is likely now. 

You make me feel like everything will go in the right direction. Thank you🙏❤️

[r0ckyreed]

This is why polyamory exists. Look into it. Monogamy isn’t for everyone.