The journey from being people pleaser to asshole

[Javfly33]

I just watched a video from 1 year ago (Understanding Gaslighting) video and I found it extremely insightful. At the end Leo says that he might make a video about how he transcended being people pleaser and found stability in its own truth. 

I think a lot of us would benefit from this video. 

[Yimpa]

Nice episode, I watched this a while back.

I asked Google Gemini Advanced, with the YouTube extension enabled, to distill the best lessons of the episode:

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According to the video, one of the key lessons you can learn is that the term gaslighting is being misused very often [4]. The speaker says that the word has come to be used for a lot of situations that don't really fit the original definition [4]. Originally, gaslighting was used to describe a situation where someone deliberately tries to undermine your sense of reality, like in the movie Gaslight [3, 4]. The speaker says that nowadays, people use the term to describe any situation where they feel like they are being manipulated by someone else [4].

Another important lesson is that it's important to think for yourself and to be critical of the information you consume [1]. The speaker warns that he can be charismatic and persuasive, but that doesn't mean everything he says is true [1]. He says that you should question everything and come to your own conclusions [2].

(I have no idea why Gemini included footnote numbers instead of timestamps… still a work in progress!)