Got a girlfriend

[Thought Art]

14 hours ago, Emotionalmosquito said:

There are virtually no good women when you’re cursed into a small town. As for the select few, good luck cold approaching them without getting a negative stigma of being the creepy pickup guy. The final nail in the coffin is not all of us are capable of moving. You might think I’m in victim mentality or avoiding responsibility when I say that. But if you were in my shoes you’d think very differently very quickly.

Yes, but there’s way more to it than just that. You have to be PERFECT in your talking to even have a microscopic chance of getting somewhere close to arriving at the possibility of pulling her home. That guy had probably been practicing his whole life.

I am trying really really hard to convince myself of that. 

@Shodburrito I agree with most of that. Only difference is I think it is possible to get a girl by your personality alone, just highly unlikely 

 

When people like OP come along sharing success stories, no matter how hard I try to feel happy for them and motivated by their success, instead all I have is oceans of unbearably intense jealousy with no end in sight. Does it help me? No. Do I have any way of getting rid of it? No.

Give yourself time. These thoughts you have are untrue if you try more often to speak to people.

I've slept with many girls and I am far from perfect in my approaches or dates, or whatever led to me getting laid.

It's usually just being fun and relaxed, flirty and man to woman. 

We tend to over exagerate how hard it is to get laid. 

When we imagine every girl is a certain way, for example some 10/10 girl who is cold and is hyper aware of your every move, and only wants a chad.. that is nonesense.

There are many types of girls in terms of looks, personality, and what they are attracted to.

I don't know about your small town, but I bet even there you could find someone. 

If you can't maybe consider moving. If you can't move, find a way.

Edited April 2 by Thought Art

[Rishabh R]

Congrats to you @Thought Art too. I didn't knew that you were so good.

Edited April 3 by Rishabh R

[numbersinarow]

On 4/2/2024 at 10:26 AM, Emotionalmosquito said:

There are virtually no good women when you’re cursed into a small town. As for the select few, good luck cold approaching them without getting a negative stigma of being the creepy pickup guy. The final nail in the coffin is not all of us are capable of moving. You might think I’m in victim mentality or avoiding responsibility when I say that. But if you were in my shoes you’d think very differently very quickly.

Yes, but there’s way more to it than just that. You have to be PERFECT in your talking to even have a microscopic chance of getting somewhere close to arriving at the possibility of pulling her home. That guy had probably been practicing his whole life.

I am trying really really hard to convince myself of that. 

@Shodburrito I agree with most of that. Only difference is I think it is possible to get a girl by your personality alone, just highly unlikely 

 

When people like OP come along sharing success stories, no matter how hard I try to feel happy for them and motivated by their success, instead all I have is oceans of unbearably intense jealousy with no end in sight. Does it help me? No. Do I have any way of getting rid of it? No.

This is maybe the first comment (and it's not my first time seeing it) on any forum that has convinced me that solipsism is not true. Other humans exist and have inner lives. I don't care that the person who posted it, just like another blackpilled guy I talked to for years, although not NEARLY to the same extent, is a stage red narcissist unable to see anything outside of his own bubble or truly interact with others seriously, and probably tries to delay his reply times to make himself feel important, which makes me sound like a complete and utter snowflake but I am just saying, objectively, every homosexual/bisexual guy I've talked to, who I was friends with, does that, which is the ultimate contradiction to being blackpilled. Yet, even still, this comment just ticks all the boxes. It's as if someone just spilled a bottle of truth onto me.

Edited June 30 by numbersinarow

[toasty7718]

On 3/28/2024 at 10:53 PM, Shodburrito said:

You're just falling for the SJW diversity agenda, man. And girlfriends are overrated anyway. They just want to control you and take your money. You're better off staying in your mom's basement and focusing on your online gaming skills. At least your virtual conquests will never betray you.Plus, relying on some pickup artist's advice is just pathetic. If you were a true male, you wouldn't need any help getting laid. Girls should be throwing themselves at you just for existing.

But I guess that's what happens when you're a normie who buys into the whole "self-improvement" scam. Real men know that genetics are everything, and if you're not a 6'4" Chad with a chiseled jawline, it's over. And when she inevitably leaves you for Tyrone, don't come crying to the incel forums. We'll just laugh at you for being a cuck. Females are hypergamous creatures who only care about looks and status. Anything else is just cope.

Have fun with your "girlfriend" while she drains your bank account and crushes your soul. I'll be here,  complaining about how unfair life is.

This made me laugh out loud 😂

 

You're being sarcastic, right?

Edited June 30 by toasty7718

[Yimpa]

I got someone I can playfully bite 🐊