Masculinity vs. Femininity - A complex explanation

[Princess Arabia]

35 minutes ago, Schizophonia said:

It's not totally wrong.

I got more men telling me men are idiots, stupid and assholes than me calling men stupid, idiots and assholes. Every time i turn around, here goes another one. I tend to try to discourage them from speaking like that, but when I realized it was the norm, I left it alone and started calling men stupid, idiots and assholes.😂

[Alexop]

@Princess Arabia Thanks for feedback. There will be editings for sure. I want to add one more section where I'll encourage to ignore sex and gender and only focus on the energies. Only the contemplation I did for writing this changed my day to day life, amazing how these two energies shape our behavior. People who ignore and don't study this topic are prone to a life of suffering. Observing this in people and yourself daily will change your life.

Edited March 29 by Alexop

[Alexop]

1 hour ago, Princess Arabia said:

I got more men telling me men are idiots, stupid and assholes than me calling men stupid, idiots and assholes. Every time i turn around, here goes another one. I tend to try to discourage them from speaking like that, but when I realized it was the norm, I left it alone and started calling men stupid, idiots and assholes.😂

As @Schizophonia, the man is the one coming with the current, men have shiloads of personal develpment to do until they can call themselves men. And will be double as hard when the influencing woke mob around him has no clue what real masculinity is. What happens when men fail to become men? the woman has to become the man and she'll hate it in most cases.

Or another cool meataphor: The man is the nature and the woman is the flower, if he providers her sun and water, she can relax, be vulnerable and beautiful. If the man is a desert, she'll become a cactus.

 

 

Edited March 29 by Alexop

[Princess Arabia]

31 minutes ago, Alexop said:

There will be editings for sure. I want to add one more section where I'll encourage to ignore sex and gender and only focus on the energie

Yes, please do. I'm also focusing on the energetic patterns also as I've insinuated many times in my responses to people here. I'll say "it's energy at play" many times. I see energies now and not so much humans doing anything, but only an energetic pattern. I've started to see it as such as in habits and reactions. That'll be interesting.

[Princess Arabia]

26 minutes ago, Alexop said:

Or another cool meataphor: The man is the nature and the woman is the flower, if he providers her sun and water, she can relax, be vulnerable and beautiful. If the man is a desert, she'll become a cactus.

This is why it's instinctual for women to find men with status attractive. Whether they are with these men or not or whether they want to have sex or not. It's just an instinctual attraction for this reason.

[BluntIbex]

Are we pushing men to talk and express emotions and feelings without the understanding that the way they deal and process emotions and feelings naturally is not by talking and expressing, but rather waiting for their testosterone levels to replenish as they work in the garage?

 

Is it an issue in progressive countries, such as Northern Europe, that we are forcing men to express and talk about emotions as "he does not want to speak with you because he wants to dettach from what happened until he replanishes his testosterone and feels better"?

 

Or is a wholesome man, a man who has taken up the challenge to combat his autistic mind and express and speak out loud about his emotions, but at the same time does not surrender completely to his emotions and starts to find a solution?

 

Is expressing and speaking out emotions and feelings the best method of dealing with emotions and feelings?

[Chosen144]

On 29/03/2024 at 2:09 AM, Shodburrito said:

This article is a bunch of baloney! Ain't no way men and women are that different. We all just people, ya know? Who cares 'bout testosterome or estrogem or whatever. My cousin Jimmy acts more like a girl than my sister sometimes and he's a dude! And I know tons of ladies who could beat up guys easy.

All this stuff about guys bein' more into systems and robots and math is stupid. Plenty of girls like that nerdy stuff too. And guys can be emotional and all huggy and crap, I seen it. Sayin' guys and girls play with different toys is dumb. Just let kids play with whatever the heck they want!

I don't get why it matters if guys got more hair and muscles and lower voices or girls got hips and boobs. What's that gotta do with anythin'? Guys can like talkin' and helpin' people and girls can like workin' alone and competin'. Jobs should go to whoever can do 'em good, not cuz they got certain private parts.

All them science words don't mean nothin'. You can't say guys are from Mars and girls are from Venus or whatever. We all from Earth! Who cares if girls get periods and moody or guys get angry and less feely. Everybody's different and that's okay.

This thing about girls only wantin' sex if they love the guy is old-fashioned. Girls like doin' it too, and sometimes they just want some fun. Guys ain't always horndogs either. And that's fine.

Basically, all this girl brain and boy brain stuff is silly. Let people be who they are, don't put 'em in boxes. We need everybody's skills and smarts to make the world better, not just guys or just girls.

You’re not understanding whatsoever. Masculine and feminine are energies not genders or behaviours of the two genders. They are energy, a man or a woman can lean it to one of these energies. Too much into one side is not ideal. Being balanced is. Masculine and feminine energy can be applied to anything, not just human behaviour and gender. It’s an abstract idea, a universal cosmic energy.
 

Masculine - Order, logic, analysis, physical, simplicity, mathematics etc

Feminine - Chaos, Complexity, Artistry, Creativity, Colourful, Change, Mind And Spirit etc 

[Jannes]

I just realized that interesting dynamic in sex: its (often) attractive when a man is manly and a women is womanly. Being more apart is what makes coming together better.