Dear Leo, a question about Jack Black

[Yali]

8 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

My last girlfriend took a $100k car from a billionaire as a gift.

Did you meet that girl at a club? She must be very beautiful to be spoiled with such a gift.

Seeing an average-looking guy like you pull a girl like that has given me hope that pickup might work for me.

@Leo Gura

Edited March 21, 2024 by Yali

[zazen]

I always remember this old video of Robbie Williams as a display of charisma and self amusement.

Though not a parallel example to Jack Black because one could say he’s good looking but still. 

[Princess Arabia]

4 minutes ago, Yali said:

Did you meet that girl at a club? She must be very beautiful to be spoiled with such a gift.

Seeing an average-looking guy like you pull a girl like that has given me hope that pickup might work for me.

@Leo Gura

Leo is smart and knows psychology so beware. Not because you see him as average looking. It also takes wit and charm amongst other personality traits.

 

[Meliodas]

1 hour ago, Leo Gura said:

Be careful not to over-simply this. Your unique genetics require actualization. You must place yourself in the right situation where your genetics can work for you. And then you must still train up. Your free will is used to discover and align yourself properly. Life is all about finding a niche for yourself. And there are millions of niches available.

Hard work still matters. People with good genetics still work hard. You need both to be worldclass in anything.

But also, remember, you don't need to be worldclass in anything to have a good life or to get a girlfriend.

Also, remember, you don't know what your full genetic potential is. That requires a lot of work to discover. Just because you think you can't do something doesn't mean it's true.

For example, if you're not an extrovert, you can use your introversion to earn lots of money and get girls that way instead. So it's not like introverts have no alternative strategies. An introvert could use his brains to engineer a scheme to get more girls than an extrovert.

but doesn't this imply that all free will operates in the orbit of predestined genetics and stuff. It seems like there is only a sliver of free will that we actually have , otherwise we already are restricted in options from the time of birth isn't it?

 

[Leo Gura]

31 minutes ago, Meliodas said:

we already are restricted in options from the time of birth isn't it?

Obviously you are.

Even your super-yogi cannot outrun a kangaroo.

Humans are finite. This should be completely obvious. But again, spiritual fantasies have convinced some humans that they are infinitely free. No you aren't. Not even close. You can't even stay awake for several days without approaching death. You cannot will your way out of reality.

What you're doing is surfing the waves. The waves can crush you at any time. You don't control the waves.

Edited March 21, 2024 by Leo Gura

[Schizophonia]

46 minutes ago, zazen said:

I always remember this old video of Robbie Williams as a display of charisma and self amusement.

Though not a parallel example to Jack Black because one could say he’s good looking but still. 

He killed himself because of Lewis, unfortunately.

[Nemra]

2 hours ago, Leo Gura said:

You're in luck cause hot girls love unearned shit

Burn 1000%. 😭 My hell is enough for me. 🥲

[OBEler]

Sorry but Jack Black looks good. He doesn't look average at all. He has a symmetrical face, good teeth, almost full hair, Good voice, good clothes styles. Just overweight and short but that doesn't make everything ugly about him. You can still see he has the genetics.

 

 

 

Edited March 22, 2024 by OBEler

[Consept]

Being authentic, comfortable in your own skin and being able to express yourself, is always going to be the most attractive version of you. Everything else is just bonus that can help but should never be the foundation. If you think about what attracts you to a person just in terms of a friend its going to be their authenticity with you, if someone seemed like they were saying certain things so that you talked to them you would not feel that connection, it would even be awkward because youll be thinking they have some other motive. 

1 hour ago, OBEler said:

Sorry but Jack Black looks good. He doesn't look average at all. He has a symmetrical face, good teeth, almost full hair, Good voice, good clothes styles. Just overweight and short but that doesn't make everything ugly about him. You can still see he has the genetics.

No way, if he wasnt Jack Black you wouldnt look at him and think thats a good looking man, thats how strong his charisma is that you think that. 

Edited March 22, 2024 by Consept

[Leo Gura]

57 minutes ago, OBEler said:

Sorry but Jack Black looks good.

Lol

[NoSelfSelf]

Crazy that you guys think Rsd teaches game sure they teach game as much as buddhists teach you about enlightment.You can learn it from someone that's been on the streets like pimps,hustlers,players because they will never ask or compare themselves with another man ,or ask about another mans game its already shows the source is waterd down for the masses, so they can get most money,that's why like kung fu(or whatever tradition) knowledge wasnt given to the  masses and shouldnt even be known about it because they will ruin the point.Another thing is having great social skills and personality vs having game(which is only little part of it)..

[Sleyker]

Honestly the whole concept of game is useless.

You're a man and you're designed to attract women. Period. What else do you need????

What happens is we have trauma, stored emotions and beliefs around women, that get in the way of this natural attraction happening. Purify these and all that's left is you authentically being a man that EFFORTLESSLY attracts women, no fucking game theory, no lines, no nothing

[Leo Gura]

1 hour ago, NoSelfSelf said:

Crazy that you guys think Rsd teaches game

Sigh...

[Leo Gura]

5 minutes ago, RightHand said:

Game consists strictly of hardcore techniques, such as those taught by individuals like John Anthony Lifestyle.

Nah. You can find many softer dating advice courses and teachers if you want.

For example, David DeAngelo stuff. David DeAngelo sold more dating advice than all of RSD. And it's good stuff. Eben Pagan has some top-notch courses and seminars for relationship advice.

Edited March 22, 2024 by Leo Gura

[Yali]

22 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

Eben Pagan has some top-notch courses and seminars for relationship advice.

How can I access them? His site is down @Leo Gura

[mmKay]

huh, didnt even know this is a thing 

https://www.youtube.com/@DoubleYourDatingDD/videos

[NoSelfSelf]

@Leo Gura They teach pick up which is all about how to make her attracted to you for the whole point to put her in bed,in such a way to not tell what they are doing.Further more they teach last minute resistence concept to have bigger window of opportunity for "success" which is so called "lay count" that makes you stroke your ego.That is not game,but they sporadically spit game which cant stick because of the system in place described above.

Game teaches how to stand on who you are and give women free will to choose you,there is no manipulation to make her do anything.No thinking ill do this technique to give me a better chance to get laid.

This guy cant kneel to save his life(game) and pick up guy will give all of his power for some ass.

 

[Sandhu]

44 minutes ago, NoSelfSelf said:

@Leo Gura 

This guy cant kneel to save his life(game) and pick up guy will give all of his power for some ass.

 

It's a movie scene, not reality. In real life, perhaps only one in thousands would lay his life for his pride. Reality is more harsh, raw and nuanced than ideals and imagined scanarios.

 

[NoSelfSelf]

@Sandhu You just showed me your game is weak by focusing on negativity there is no hope then,i guess if i put Socrates painting of him drinking a posion you would say its just a colors on a canvas.Exactly my point is to put extravagant scenarios to illistrate that somebody with game would give its own life instead of giving away his own inner self ,while some guy will give it for a piece of ass,but you dont read my words you focus on your negative perspective so my queastion is why would a woman choose you over someone with higher ideals? Talking about nuance and cant get the nuances of my message 😅

Edited March 22, 2024 by NoSelfSelf

[Leo Gura]

10 hours ago, Yali said:

How can I access them? His site is down @Leo Gura

I don't know. His content is pretty old at this point. There is a mountain of newer dating advice content you can find online. Just search around.

Edited March 23, 2024 by Leo Gura