Barbarian Number 8

@TheSomeBody I have noticed that the taste changes over time. When in my teens I liked Samatha Fox sized boobs and now they are a turnoff. Maybe it was just the enhanced novelty of boobs and biguns that was the thing? Now I prefer normal to small. Also haircolor preferens has changed. Now I am in "my blonde-period". Not sure about this one. Beacuse when I was younger I preferred black and at that time most people in Sweden was lighthaired. Now black is the most common color and blondes (true ones) are rare. This might have something to do with people desire rare thing and don´t value common. The Diamonds vs. dirt -thing. Interesting topic that you came up with!

@Elisabeth -Ahoj! I am happy to hear about the good IT-conditions in Prague! I have been to Prague a few times (in summertime) and loved the town. It is only a 65 minutes flight from Sweden. It would be nice to stay there longer. What kind of sallery per hour do the IT people have there? Do you have any good links? No my comment about the wolly mammut is not hurtful, it is actually very descriptive and kind. The IT-females that I have encountered usually had hairy legs, armpits and facialhair (mustach and sideburners) airhair, unibrow and to that we can add bad hygine with unbrushed teeth with a breath that could kill. They dress and act masculine. It was quite amazing to see it. At first it was like a bad joke. My lesbian and bi friends said that the females was straight. Straight but very "uncept". Ja, I see the dubbelstandard with me not having to shave yet hoping the women too do just that ...in my defence...-have you ever kissed a woman with a mustach and unbrushed teeth? I am thinking that you might believe the Prauge and Swedish women to look the same. They don´t. On the topfloor McDonalds in Palladium I used to observe Praguepeople to count their money, order something small, sit down and unpack something else from their bag and eat it with the MD-food. In Sweden poor people gooble up MD´s like it was their last day alive. You are pre/entering the-MD-plauge, Sweden is about 28 years in. The difference is litterly massive. Have you been to Sweden? This meaning.......Praguepeople are waaay more thinner and in shape than Swedish. Giving the frase; "the women who've decided to not play the"conforming to the contemporary beauty ideal" game a break".....is not really a fair one. Yes everyone may present themselves as they want and I also have the right to avoid the above mentioned females. I am hoping that the uncept females will be marginalised as more women enters the IT-field, just beacuse I like hygien and non-manly females. In any case I do prefer to look for females outside the IT-sector. Considering me, I like to say that I am very openminded and rarely "judge". If you followed me around for a day, you would understand it would be difficult for me to be otherwise. Also, with age comes this thing of not being PC but more to value the truth. Since you found my comment "incredibly hurtful judgement", I suspect that you took it personally. I don´t apologize but I like to know why you prefer to be hairy? I will never find hairy/uncept women attractive, it is my personal preferens thou, but I like to know your thinking about your hairyness?

@Amer It happens. Sometimes it is a kind of autocorrect, meaning the passionproject was wrong or no longer useful. Variation is a basic human need, so I guess it also comes into play.

@SFRL -Ja, it really is a pain to find a good one. Some people that I know just call an Uber or common taxi, some even ride the buss. I wouldn´t go that far. Sometimes, now in summertime, I like to go around kicking some tires and try different models out. Ofcourse the really expensive sportsmodels are waay out of my leuge, but one can look and dream...one day.. You are lucky to testdrive one! Guess some of the models are hype. Was it one of those Asian brands? They look good but are not really built for non native drivers. One thing that really annoyes me are the ones covered in plastic. I takes away from the full experiense. That is the main reason for owning one. Speaking of cover; In wintertime all models are well covered or parked in a garage and it is much easier to bump into a lemon. When one unviels it...it can really confuse you. This one time I thought I got a ok 4 seater with nice beamers at the perfect hight but it turned out to be a van with lopsided headlights just not in their original place. Not a good run. Spanx wonder.

@Arman Where is the tail of the ox..uhm....horse of Enlightment? Also why is it a "Barbiedoll-horse of Enlightment"? Meaning no genetalia. Yes, I am an art-critic.

@Elisabeth I´ve tried the IT-path and really could not stand it. Althou I did have anything but few and flexible hours. They will work you to death. I was surrounded by binary-thinking-people...and almoast all boys (regardless of age)....and the "girls"....well....they made me question my feelings about mounting the "wolly mamuths" or just to stay single. That was a bad time for my lovelife I did enjoy the no-shawing thou

@thehero We really need to examine you before answearing that question. It would be a mental version of "bend over and cought three times". If you posted some pic of yourself, it would also be helpful (with clothes on/not bent/and frontal) to see your fashion sense and how you look to the world. Some basic stats like age, hight, width, race, religion, location and proffession would also be good to know. Otherwise you will get the disney-advice "there is one for everybody-just wait and see-your time will come-you are great just as you are".

I know that people will stop functioning about eleven o´clock, bad breath and sluggishness all day. Bingeeating between 21:30 to 02:00. A month of this. Althou the kids, ill, old and pregnant may be somewhat excluded...I expect to call the ambulance for some pregnant young girl hitting the floor thinking she is dying. After that a big party with lots of food and smiles. It is pointless to determine any plus and minus on a situation that will not change. A reflection can be made...people themselves determine what shape their life will take. Very litle is actually inflicted upon them by outside force. Most prisoners hold the key in their hand.

@Silvester It is not problematic at the raight point in life. At one point in my life I was busy with surviving----i.e. the wrong point. Last year (also-happened before) I sat on a tropical beach, umbrella drink in hand watching the waves role in and had a footmassage---i.e. the right point. "Would it not be nice to share this experience with somebody?".....there is a difference between inflicting and sharing a point in life with somebody else. It depends on where yourself are at.

@UpperClassWhiteBoy Your subjecttitle implaies that you don´t want to care what people thinks of you.... ...but in your post you want to know how to stimulate/aggrevate people in such a way so they can´t retaliate on you. Do you see the split?

@8Ball -She won´t make a move on you with friends and family there. It would be very unlikely. You need to isolate her. What girls do when nobody knows is amazing sometimes. Going out with 4 girls is not as good as it sounds if you want to boink one of them. Basicly everybody gets frustrated. The girls can´t pickup when you there and you can´t make a move either. Nobody happy. I think that she is interested but just inexperiensed and made a stupid move to bring you and the girlgang together. Well, now we have to wait an entire week untill the next "episode"

@zoey101 -Ja I think all girls do that Princess for a day, memory for alifetime But I am a free spirit and do not need a public ceremony and contract to prove my love. Also, you are a woman......if you view it from a mans perspective you would be afraid. I mean look at the contract. One should also consider that we got a much longer lifespan now, rather when the contract was formulated. One can also add the birthcontrolpill and womens access to the labourmarket. If you consider that all things end......well even love.... The contract is very bad for a man. I believe it to be especially true in America. I like to point out that ofcourse it works for the ones who stays together their whole life. But in my experience that is rare. I don´t see it as depressing or a bad thing. It is just the way it is. "I´ve have rather loved and lost, than never loved at all..."-something like that.

@Nahm That misstake is only a risk in Thailand.

@pluto Hello Mr. Pluto! Could be true, but I have been looking for a loong time and not found anything yet. Any hints?

@Spinoza hehe No internet = death Ja, some kind of selfemployment seems to be the closest to "heaven"

That may be a or some quote from the Christian Bible. Problem: When trying to selfimprove/actualize, I noticed that there are a lot of egomaniacs that try to sell one on their "gospel". Sometimes they are really good salespeople and it takes awhile to figure out that they are full of s**t. My life is finate. Question: How to quickly spot the charlatanes in order to move on. Addition: Yes, I am aware of the fact that nobody is 100% "correct and pure". But I like to try to find the golden nuggets at a as high percent probability as possible. Looking for gold in a 75% chance area is better than looking for gold 10 % chance area. Yes, I know that not all do it maliciously (deliver bad "advice"), that makes them harder to spot.

@Emne Value the time spent together. Nobody gets out of life alive. Don´t waste yours.

@CuteCornDog Hello You are not really saying anything that just aplies to you. These things are on the meny for all living people. Perhaps you should try to change what enviroment that you reside in? Both geographicly and mental? Ja, I know, easy to say and hard to do. But...why not try? Also, consider calibrating your internal model of the world to more fit the actual external reality of the world. You might be one of those prisoners with the key in your hand.

I wondered that myself. Maybe he is just judgeing people without getting to know them?

@SFRL -How else would you know if it is a good fit? This one time I got into one and it was totally "spacy", had both plenty of room and an vacant eco. Made me miss friction of both soul and earthly desire. Looked nice thou.

@Jamesc 1. Conformaty 2. Stupidity. 3. Lack of originality. 4. A huge bill. 5. Pressure. 6. Lost freedom. 7. Death of love.

@Capital -No. You are not advanced. You have lived 19 years. You live in a basement. ...but you might be tougher than most 19 years old. Consider that the world is a bigger place than you have seen and experienced. Go out and taste it!

@zoey101 I dare you to find a video about "what-plants-to-grow-for-the-selfactualizing-single-40-something-man"........ BarbarianNumber8 ....One point....the World...zerO points

@BjarkeT -Thank You very much!

@Ether The problem is not thinking. The problem is your conception of "reality" and what value you give it. Actually, everything is neutral. Your experience or the collectives agreed values of it may not be. Example: It is agreed that holding black slaves in US is bad. That is slavery. It is agreed that paying close to nothing for Asian products are ok and not slavery. Funfact: I heard that "suicide-nets" are now being installed on tall buildings...in order for non african-non-usslaves to jump of the factory to kill them nonslave selfs. Most things are point of view. Most people do not want to have a view.