Barbarian Number 8

@BobbyLowell Your friendS may be right. Only one thing to do...test it! Make a move on the boy. You can also ask what your friends mean by "not good enough"...they may be really honest and good friends or totally full of.... I would first figure out the friendS thing.

@kieranperez Ja it is actually funny Thank you for the comedy relief ...buut...when one go to work one work. That is what one is there for. ...when one is partaking in a discussion with problemsolving being the objective.....one problemsolve....... Also, to be honest, I have met so many people who loves the label of selfactualizer and being of higher learning and consiusness but who only are able to burp up slogans and onliners like a parrot not knowing the meaning of words....people without experiense and depth......sooo I guess I got triggered....but knowing this I asked for more. Still waiting thou.... Should I be mistaken about you? I dare you

@SelfHelpGuy Relaxing is doing what gives one energy not doing nothing. Doing nothing is death. Good luck!

@Applejuice I wish that everybody had the brains to come up with that question. You are way ahead of your peers and many others. My advice: Take some GAP-years, fill them with experiences....like 3 years of them..then reconsider part of your future.

There is no such thing as free therapy. You pay the barman for the drinks.

@mohdanas Selfamusement.

-Our master will come down the mountain soon! Childreen be patient. Do not feel lost and lonely. Soon he will come with whiteflour in his hair and beard, bringing fort thy commandments on stone(or Samsung) tablets! Do not make false idols humanchildreen! haha Why predict? He is not doing anything that you cannot do yourself. The bar is very low. How can you not see this? If you think this difficult and haven´t done it yourself.......-Oh me Gawd! Thank you for the oppertunity for me to practice patience and toleranse.

@SFRL Well, the US models seems nice. I should testdrive one. I´ve been cursed to be born Swedish and, as everybody knows, our models are all about safety and no fun. We have the "combi"model, that basicly means a very wide and huuuge trunk. Not the appealing kind that of muscle cars. Also the SWE goverment have decided to controll every aspect of your driving. You essentely need signed dokuments for all types of use. And don´t even get me started on bringing it into your garage for one thorough oilexchange and cylinder wall stress testing . You better have laywer on speeddial for that one. Lately we have had an import of the Russian models. I have to say that I was hesitant at first, considering them being rumoured to run on alcohol and constanly break down. Being laoud and hard to handle. I couldn´t have been more wrong. They run like heaven and there are alot of "green-choice" ones. Yes they are a bit loud sometimes, but only when you pump the gas a bit too hard. They seems to be low maintenance too, good for those who like the natural low body paint. Althou I have heard that the older Russian models got some crasy paintjobs and smokes comes out of them. So pick a newer one, from the model -98 and up is recomended. Ja, a new car....well you never know if you gonna get a DOA or the jackpot (not really gonna happen thou). As you say the software can really be a bugged up mess. Here in SWE they are hardcoded with FakeFEM.exe and handles as programmed to. It really causes alot of unnecessery accidents and roadrage. They are not really ment to run on the excisting roadwork, but rather in the manufacterus flawed roadsim. Pity. I would rather go with a foreign model, second owner and a prowed roadwortyness. Be careful thou, if you connect that one to the SWE-system it _will_ be corrupted by malware. I have seen it happen! Athou I browse the catalogs with all new and exciting models, I sometimes wonder if they are just a salesillussion.

@billiesimon No I am not talking about the endgame. Just point in time I am referring to the pendulum-theori in behaviur. Going from one extreme to another before finding a equlibrium. Who knows?..it may start to swing from that also. Each gender will be a constant, but the behaviur changes.

@Igor82 -Thanx for the soup tip!

@thehero Nothing. Everything happened as it was ment to. I am me and I like me. I will stay me awhile longer. Me is a verb.

@Ross I advice you to focus on the free stuff. There is actually sooo much content to work with that it kept me busy for years.....and...there is re -watch value in it. It is impossible to watch it just once and get it. One needs to grow and then rewatch it and there in plain view you will discover something new. It was there all the time but you did not see it. It made me laugh many times. I like surpassing my limits. It is like being able to see ultraviolet. I really don´t care if an Angel or Devil helps me. The deed is what matters not the name given by others for the messenger. I been watching Leo since the start, it has been quite the ride. I don´t waste time with something useless. There must be something in it for me. ...-nooo...I do not get paid to write this......the gain for me is promoting a better world to live in...for me and mine to live in....in a way my action doing so is both selfless and selfish.

@Ross Try to picture them as humans, yes somewhat wierd humans, but still. You will find that they got some nice and good things going for them. Like b**bs. Everybody likes b**bs. When you get older and are done with puberty this fear will most likely vanish. Be patient.

@kieranperez Nice quote....but I be happy if you put some more effort into it. I also collect quotes and cool sticker punchlines. If we look at the practical side of the problem posted, how would you go about to solve it?

@Michael569 Hello good neighbour! That is very true true what you say. But I have something to add. I multithread the linnear path of life. Picture it as a rope. A rope got many threads going to one derection (and ofcourse coming from one). Well my threads are not all the same. They are mixed. Some hard earned and some easy. Some I paid in blood and some was free. I seek balance. All these threads in my "life rope" are all mixed. I do not need all to be of blood and pain. I can also learn from the free easy ones. Think yin and yang. It is as a norm belived that there only is something to learn from pain and suffering, that is not true...or rather...it is only about half of the truth. I claim there is also something to learn from the opposite. Many are blind to this point of view of mine. That is probably a legacy of Christianity. Ofcourse this is not a binary issue, I also account for and acknowlegde the many shades between light and dark. I accept the existanse of all shades and they all in a mix makes me me. Simply put. Just as the easy way can become the hardest so can the hardest way become the easiest. It is all in constant movment/morphing. I don´t think that you are bashing me. You seems to put thought into your posts and I like to hear your input. I expect to learn. Greetings from the cold North!

@SaltyMeatballs -FIRST! ...I have to congratulate you for coming up with _the_best name! I laughed so hard that I farted! It is genius! ..-well the topic?...uhm...well consider this: How interesting is a 21 year old girl really? She is in her physical prime and alot of focus goes into that. Shallow conversation and rapid change of boyfriends is kind of to be expected. Ofcourse I generalize...or...do...I? Someone said that girls get away with stupid s*** beacuse men want to boink em. ...and that (non resistance) does not build character. True. You, on the other hand have not yet peaked.....start becoming "the most interesting man". Althou the 21 flake can be fun, high energy and so on,,,,,they are often sh** boring in conversation. "Relationship", I think should be built a litle later in a mans life.

@Michael569 Mr. Michael, I am on fire! I do already know my path and endgame. What I am trying to work on now is plotting the roadmap inbetween points and preferbly figure out as a smooth ride as possible. Also I am seeking combinations of work (evil) and travel (heaven), like in the Praha-conversation with the kind&helpful @Elisabeth Work is the life and world for many but it is not living for me. I want more.

@Elisabeth That was actually a nice pay for a halftime job. Just to make sure 4h á day x 22 days= 1000 E after tax per month? A third of the sallary, as a norm in SWE, is calcylated to go to rent. Althou we mainly live in single housholds. I guess the capital-living adds some. A lot of people here lives pay to pay. So being able to put away 20% is very good. Flight cost about 100 E, ok price. hehe, ja distant&pleasant...we translate it to "being nonpersonal" or just plain bland. We have three personas and you met the business/offically social one. It aplies to people we need to be nice to but keep at a distance. -Thank you for the Praha info! I will look into that market.

@john23 -I should apologize, sorry. I missunderstod on purpose. I think in colorful motionpictures with sound. I had a glass of wine and that makes me sometimes to joke with people.

@Elisabeth I seek to avoid work in the normative sense and some of its "fallout". I did describe the kind of people in the IT sector, thus your reaction. I never date coworkers. I recognice that we both translate from a native language to english and then back to another native language. Anyhow, I was curious about what number a CZ would consider a high pay, in order to compare it to livingcost in Praha. Most commonsallerys are below Swedish but so are the cost of living also. I think that we might be the second most expensive country in the world. So the relative numbers between the two are of interest when trying to live a good life. It may turn out that it is possible to save more with a CZ pay than a SWE one. Relatively. I did get a positive image about how young CZ people presented themselves althou most seemed poor they did dress nice and neat, also suits seemed very popular for men. I suspect that we differ in this messuring. Like inches vs. centimeters.

@okulele It is called life. We all have our part to play. You play the sensitive watching and telling others about it part. Sometimes we can change part to play.

@Viking Why not follow your instinct? Go to the gym, punch a sandbag and scream your head of. Sounds like the way to go. You get fit in the process. If you have no gym money....go down to the local bar...find that big headshaved mf in black...jaaa...you guessed it! PUNCH him! right bwtween the nostrils....then the screaming and crying bit comes au naturell. I am not liabel for any of my advice. R.I.P.

@john23 ...-Wait???? Are you asking about if there is an alternative to showing a poor toad up the ass or nose??? I really hope there is some synthetic solution to this problem....

@BobbyLowell Dear Bobby, you seems to be a normal teenager. The condition will pass. You will be completely cured. You need to follow these simple steps: Realise that people don´t know shit (me excluded ofcourse). Get busy and focus on what you want out of life. It is rare to have a good conversation with somebody that haven´t lived yet...you are not unique. Just young. Grow past the teens and about 22. Realise that most people are to busy with themselves to actually notice you. Never leave the house.

@F A B Use booze or experience. It is very difficult to kiss when smiling...as you already know... Start with small pecks and if that relaxes your face go longer. Otherwise there is always hugging. Monkeys smile when afraid, so I guess we do to sometimes. Relaxing in the situation would be a good thing. Try to controll your breath and focus on being present in the moment.