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He's got a video on the trap of projection. @Ar_Senses You are projecting on him. He will never answer to this.

Thanks for the replies! @flowboy Yeah, that's what my buddy said the first time i asked. And then I asked 2 times more LOL! Bud: -''Dude that's how girls are, she is just saying no politely.'' My buddy is a great example of how all you need is a good inner psychology to have success with women. I have a LOT to learn from him. @universe Those are some excellent pieces of advice. I'll keep the faith, and do exactly what you suggested. And not only with her, with every girl that i meet from now on.

Absolutely Some say Changa is THE way to smoke DMT Changa: Smoking DMT infused into Ayahuasca and other Herbs Is like smokable ayahuasca The herbs are to give it a better taste, and to calm you down. They also make it super easy to smoke. A trip sitter is a must.

@Zigzag Idiot That cover is some great art man! Yeah the one in the middle is totally Jesus.

Hi, I felt the same. I felt like me being/becoming a pothead is/was for the sole purpose of being able to smoke and retain in my lungs big amounts of DMT. OFC that was not my intention, i didn't even now DMT when i started smoking weed. My biggest accomplishment in life: stopped drinking alcohol. Having smoked DMT is the runner up. But that's only because i stopped drinking first. I have had 3 panic attacks this year, with the latest taking me to the cardiologist to check if i was having a heart attack or what the fuck. I was instantly cured when i knew it was all in my head. I see my last panic attack as a gift. I was like: -''OK this is it, it was a fun ride'' I prepared my self for 2 years+ to smoke DMT. Read a lot about the substance, a lot of trip reports and watched lot of youtube videos: Terrence McKenna, Joe Rogan, Shaman Oaks, Graham Hancock, etc. My advice would be: prepare yourself.

@SFRL what do you think?

Yeah i needed that in here. @flowboy Yeah i asked as she was walking away from me just to see her reaction. Here's what's up now. I have a neighbor, let's call her Carolina I like her very much. One day i told her casually to play chess with me sometime. One day she was doing the laundry. Arc: -''Hey about that chess game....'' Car: -''Right now i am doing some things, maybe some other day?'' Arc: -''OK'' So today i got a nice haircut, put on my best clothes, sprayed some Cool Water cologne, grabbed some green tea bags, and my chess board, and knocked on her door. Arc: -''Hi, you wanna play?'' Car (on the phone talking to her girlfriend): -''Right now i am talking to my girlfriend, I am about to go out with her, maybe some other day'' Arc: -''OK'' It will be good to mention that she is super nice, she is always smiling, at least when we talk. They say it's not rejection until you take it as rejection. And Leo says to keep pushing until she gives me a hard no (or a sweet yes). I am knocking on that door tomorrow again. Some things you just gotta persist. I want to persevere. I am a persistent person. What do you guys think?

''I see a chronic problem on this sub-forum, which is young males who complain about lack of success with women and failing to take responsibility for their situation. The #1 rule of all growth and personal development is taking 100% responsibility for your situation. I know how hard that can be when you're struggling with women/sex. It feels very much like life is treating you unfairly and that it's the women's fault. Let me tell you right now: this is a total ILLUSION! It's not the women. It's not society. It's not post-modernists. It's not the Marxists. It's not the feminists. It's YOU! This is not me blaming you. This is simply how all personal development works. Whatever problem you have in life you must begin by getting honest with yourself how you created it. Sometimes this is difficult to accept. It's much easier to blame someone else, or even blame yourself (for being too ugly or too short or too introverted). I am not suggesting you blame yourself. Rather, take ownership of the fact that you are the creator of your life. Whatever is missing in your life, you can correct, but only if you stop blaming yourself and others. Be very mindful of how your ego-mind creates narratives which justify your sense of lack, brokenness, or inability to attract women. All of these narratives, justification, rationalizations, logic, "facts", scientific studies, proofs, etc are sneakily fabricated by your own mind! Your own mind is the enemy! Watch it like a hawk. Your mind will try to come up with reasons and excuses for why your life is unfair and how success with women is impossible. This is all horseshit! Do not believe your own mind here. Your mind is clouded by fear, insecurity, and neediness. That is totally normal and understandable, but you cannot resolve your problems from such a place. From such a place your problems will get worse as you start to blame the world and solidify your victim worldview with cherry-picked evidence, "science", and "logic". Be extra suspicious of "logic" and "science" here. There is nothing logical or scientific about your victim attitude or lack of success with women. It's purely about meeting the survival needs of your ego. Sex is a very powerful survival need which will drive your mind towards all manner of mental gymnastics to ensure that you get it, or at least feel better for not getting it. There's good news and bad news. The good news is: Your looks are NOT the problem! The bad news is: your personality, attitude, and mindset are terrible! The good news is, it's possible to change that. The bad news is, it won't be easy and you will resist it like the devil that you are. So what's the solution? Take ownership of your problem and commit to resolving it. For this you need faith and confidence in your ability to self-actualize. You must have enough hope and vision to see yourself get much better with attracting women. This is NOT a pipe dream or fuzzy thinking. The reality is that any man can become 100x better at attracting women if he really takes ownership of the matter. Yes, it takes serious work. But it's also highly worth it. Imagine that within 3 years you're able to attract pretty women and feel confident about yourself when it comes to dating. Isn't that worth the effort? It sure is. This is not a fantasy. I've done it, many men have done it, and so can you! Your looks are NOT the bottleneck, your mindset is. So what do you do after you've established this vision? You must do lots of research to educate yourself about how dating actually work (not how you think it works). Find videos, find books, buy online courses, hire a coach, take a bootcamp, take a workshop, etc. There are literally hundreds of excellent resources available online these days. Most of them are legit, not scams. Study them hard and then get into the field. Start talking to women. Start approaching women. Start flirting with women. Start being much more social. If you struggle attracting women I can tell you right now what your top problems are. It's not lack of money, looks, muscles, car, height, or dick size. Remember, attraction and dating is EXTREMELY counter-intuitive. It's works exactly the opposite of how you initially think. Your top problems are: You live in your mancave and never go out! You must go out into social spaces where real women hang out. You spend WAY too much time online, indoors You spend WAY too much time on Youtube, Netflix, and playing video games You work too much You are never around cute single women You never start conversations with strangers You have terrible body language due to lack of experience You are not comfortable doing small-talk and being emotional and random in conversations You are far too logical You approach zero women on a regular basis You are terrified of approaching a women who you find attractive, talking yourself out of every approach You have terrible eye contact, you don't smile, and you don't project your voice properly You are crippled by fear and tongue-tied You are unable to start and sustain an interesting conversation with a human being You are disconnected from your body, your heart, your feelings, your emotions You have terrible self-image issues. You hate yourself, you hate how you look, you judge yourself way too harshly. You judge yourself just as harshly as you judge women. You have a bad sense of dress style and you don't groom yourself well You have no experience with physically touching women in a non-creepy way. You don't know how to rapidly physically escalate on a women without creeping her out. You don't know how women think or what they truly value in a man You don't know how to flirt and be authentic You are trying to be masculine in all the wrong ways -- fake masculinity You are needy, needy, needy You are terribly inexperienced You have no sense of passion or purpose in life, which robs you of confidence and masculine vitality Your attitude sucks: you whine, complain, bitch, moan, blame, and are so negative You think you understand life, reality, and how attraction works -- you don't! So work on fixing all of that before you go blaming women. All of the above can be deliberately worked on and fixed. You need to learn how to be a real man. Being a real man has nothing to do with big muscles, big dick, or a fast car. A real man is grounded on the INSIDE. It's ALL about inner game! You need to cultivate that confidence. It doesn't come naturally. You must build it! 80% of getting good with women is just actually being much more social. You need to deliberately re-structure your life so that you're automatically being more social. So that you're going out every weekend. So that you're bumping into new people constantly. So that you're making new friends all the time. This kind of re-structuring is very doable. You just have to be willing to change your lifestyle. And stop watching or listening to any of the following: Jordan Peterson, MGTOW, RedPill, Incel material/forums/reddit All of that is cancer of the mind. It's reinforcing your victim mindset and robbing you of your ability to change yourself. I've been where you are. I know it's tough. But hang in there, hold your vision, have hope, get to work, and things will dramatically improve for you. You will become a new person by the end of this journey and you will be so proud of yourself. You will become a real man, not some whiny JP fanboy. The #1 thing a real man does is take 100% responsibility for all his problems. A real man NEVER blames anyone, and certainly not women or feminism. A real man is a feminist. A real man fearlessly works on himself. So start right there! Start by fixing that.'' -Leo Gura

ALWAYS REMEMBER: We Are Spirits in a Material World

@Serotoninluv You are totally right. Let me re-phrase: One day i had to bike for 15 hours: That day i got a really good taste of what turquoise is about.

Hi, one day i was really pissed off because some dude was trying to scam me (he paid at the end) but i was really angry. What i did was watch Leo's video about How to Deal with Strong Negative Emotions. It helped so much that i think Leo kinda saved my life that day.

Hi, I label myself as orange/green/yellow, and I am mountain biker. When i bike for more than 2-3 hours i start reaching turquoise levels (I think). It's some kind of samadhi or something. This happened to me last sunday: I go into some samadhi but then i am back to the normal me. And when i come back i am like: -''Well, that has to be what being turquoise is like'' The wind, the forest and the water talks to you, but without words. You can zoom in in any object and see God, Infinity, The Absolute whatever you wanna call it. One day i had to bike for 15 hours: That day i knew what turquoise was ALL about. Can't really explain it. It's a little bit like being AWOL. Exactly.

I had a hydrocele in my left testicle, I had surgery too. How did you manage to not having erections while you were sleeping?

This sentences tell me that you are becoming addicted. Weed addiction is the worst addiction in the sense that you don't notice it being addictive and you don't notice it fucking up your life. I smoke at least 1 gram per day, and i started just like you: just one little joint on the weekends....

No. I am a spiral wizard (at least i wish) I take note on what level of the spiral people are and talk about appropriate stuff with them. For example: -Mom, Aunt and Grandma are blue so i talk about food and family with them. -Dad, Boss and Uncle are orange so i talk about money, women, success and sports with them. -It's pretty easy to talk about almost anything with green and above people. They are open minded. Sometimes I make the mistake of talking orange, green and tier 2 concepts to my blue relatives. I end up annoyed and frustrated. Sometimes I make the mistake of talking green and tier 2 concepts to my orange friends. I end up annoyed and frustrated. I end up telling myself: -"Wow, I wasted a lot time and energy there.''

@Anderz = troll

Hi, on June 23rd i am going mountain biking to some indigenous territory with the minibus guys. It's gonna be Great! The place is called Golden Grain. It's a 60 km round trip that starts at a watering place called Adriano's. This trip is only for guys that have done previous rides, it's sort of exclusive haha! Hmmm... Now that i think about it. It's gonna be as tough as usual. They just want proven people. I shouldn't be laughing yet.... haha! I got the message today. When i go on these rides i compose a to-do and a to-carry list, it's very useful. That's a tip in case you are planning a nice ride yourself. I am getting new tires for this ride, i might even go tubeless but idk. I am gonna tell the guys at the shop where i am going, so they can tell me what tire to use. I am getting new gloves too. I'll let you know when my bike is at tip top for the ride. My baby is like a race car every single detail has to be perfect. See you next time!

Hi, I am 39yo and have never voted in my life. I am a leader not a follower. The moment i see my face in the ballot i will vote for myself ,other wise i don't bother. Arc

Hi @Shroomdoctor This stuff works. I started watching Leo's videos on January 2017, and on September 2017 i started my own (stage orange) biz online: (I am like a human scanner, I take advantage of weak markets). I still work at ''McDonalds'' but i have a side income. I had this idea for almost 9 years. But i had the balls to do it only until i started taking kinda seriously personal development. I fired almost all of my friends. And sometimes i missed them. But fuck them. I am a lone wolf and it is great! This is a very good thing. Specially if you are young. This is bad sorry to hear man. -Exercise and eat healthy. -Go to bed at the same time and wake up at the same time. -Meditate (daily). -Make money even if it is at a 9 to 5. Do it thinking it is temporary, or do it thinking you are there to some day be the owner of the biz. -Nutritionally i have actually accomplished big stuff through self actualization. -Found my Life Purpose: Art -And i am developing a 10 year plan to escape wage slavery that OFC includes art. My life is pretty great right now, my stage orange biz blends perfectly and synergically with my ''McDonalds'' job. It is totally customized to me. No one else in the whole universe could have done it except me. I can stay where i am and cruise through life. But that's not the plan. I have a big list of projects. Arc

Hi. Yesterday i tried changa for the very first time. Gotta tell you that taking a full tab of LSD is like taking a cup of coffee compared to smoking changa. I did it in a wrong set and setting though. My apartment was a total mess (i-just-moved-in type of mess) and I didn't meditate. LSD lets you know there's something more. Changa lets you travel between dimensions. LSD shows you that the spirit is affecting the matter. Changa is purely spiritual. I started hearing a beep. Then i was in a place that was constantly morphing, colors were red, white and black, but mostly red. There was no up or down in that place. Colors changed to cream, blue and yellow it was beautiful, and very scary. When i tried to resist it, it stopped being beautiful, the shapes stopped moving and i felt like trapped by some other shapes. I didn't have a body, i was/am pure spirit, a ghost tops. I saw the serpent everybody talks about, but it was drawn by the geometric shapes. It was not an entity. But it probably would have come alive if i would have stayed longer. I never lost connection with the ''real world'' but i was definitely close to. This material reality is just a curtain. There are other (infinite amount probably) dimensions. Insights: -I am not my body. I no longer identify with my body. -I am an infinite spiritual being that exists interdimensionally. -I was never born, i will never die. I have never been alive. I just exist. -I am nothing. I am pure spirit. -I might be god. I might be living everything simultaneously-infinitely. But idk. Notes: 1. I can see the potential of this substance for addiction treatment. 2. I liked the smoke and the taste. I expected it to be harsh. 3. Minutes after the experience i told myself: -'' I might do this again in 10 years'' Now after integrating i understand that i want to go to that place again and more prepared. 4. ''Shamanic'' preparation is wanted. Like eating super clean x amount days before the experience and meditate during those x amount of days. That's for those of us who still don't have a daily meditation habit. 5. I was prepared but i could have been more prepared. Arc.

My spirit is not located in my body. I, the real I is outside my body. The physical world has an astral counterpart, so the astral dimension is in a lot of ways very similar to the physical world and when you are there it feels more real than the physical world. The astral realm IS NOT DMT-land. I had a wrong set and setting because i needed a trip sitter and i needed a pipe. Honestly i didn't want to be alone with the stuff because i don't trust myself enough and might have done the mistake of smoking changa alone. My trip sitter was the best. He's got a couple of DMT trips under his belt so he knew exactly what to do. He disconnected the fridge. He said: ''I'll be outside, you want to be alone for this'' when i told him -''It's definitely working'' He said: -''Smoke more, you have to smoke it all'' And i did. He then turned off the lights and turn on the fan. Which was a great idea. This trip has given me a whole new perspective about how important meditation is.

LOL What? Mmm... Yes you do. Do you have any idea of how much DMT costs? Psychedelics are not free (except for mushrooms). 1 dose of changa is like 15 bux. 1 gram of dmt is like 150 bux. 1 tab of lsd is 15 bux And these are very cheap prices. Those prices can easily double up depending who and where you are. LSD and mushrooms effects last for hours. You will have no time to you will be stoned out of your mind. You can barely move in those states. Seems like you have never done psychedelics@Jed Vassallo

yeah, i would rather a cabin myself.

True. If i was a millionaire i would be doing a lot of psychedelics too. And I will be out in nature doing sports, solo traveling and pick up. No need to worry about cleaning or cooking? MBFN

Thanks for the replies. She is my half sister. I think she is just siding with her dad because i hate my step father, and she knows it. I am in meh state. I don't care. The least relationships the better. My grandma has a saying: -''Whoever doesn't love me is making me a favor'' I am just practicing self acceptance. If i ever see her at a family reunion i will just say hi indifferently, and stay out of her radar. I used to care, now i don't. That's just how us human beings are.