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No. You are self deceiving yourself. If that was the case me and everybody else would climb a different mountain 3 times a day, everyday. The secret then my friend is to become or fake to be the "toxic" men they claim to detest. They don't have to know that you are a good man with feelings. Just act as the biggest arrogant asshole you can be. Attraction is counter intuitive. we thought that by being nice and a good friend we will get to something. We were wrong. Let's try the opposite now and see how it goes. I hear you. The thing about MGTOW and redpill is that i can see the bitterness of these guys. And if i get in touch with that i will become a bitter man. I don't want that for my life. I rather being an optimist and wrong, than to be right and redpilled. Glad to hear. Me neither. No it isn't. You just think the grass is greener on the other side. In my case i got the looks, I am super handsome and fit not super fit though but fit never the less. These looks have not got me too far. Physically i am a 9 but psychologically i am a 5. I realize now that a good inner psychology is what matters. Like the girls said, they have an X-Ray vision to see if you are confident. If you are not, you are not getting laid. Looks don't matter at all in my experience. See? I just fixed your post. I tried being good looking, humble and nice. Nope still no sex, just polite rejection. Now i am an arrogant asshole, and I can sense people thinking to themselves -''Who the fuck he thinks he is?'' I am God mofuga!

I had an awakening experience about a month ago. So yeah, i am someone who claims: -''I have been awakened.'' However, I am still only attracted to hot women, and i want nothing but the hottest and most submissive women in my life. There is nothing wrong with liking the nicest things in life. But if you like nice things, chances are you will have to work hard to get them. Incels do nothing but complain. True. That's why i am never getting married. I don't need to be tied to a person and be denying and repressing my natural polygamic nature. Like i said, girls are not stupid. Yes this gives you your power back. Yeah. Good advice my friend.

So true. Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder, but... No they are not. I have met lots that are not beautiful. Their spirit might be beautiful and untouched, but when it comes to their physical appearance, some are hot and some are ugly. Sorry. True. This is soooo effing true. Haha! You are not fooling anyone. A girl can put a cap on, not take a shower, not comb her hair, not wear make up, not brush her teeth and be dressed in sweatpants and using crocs shoes. If she is hot i will spot her hotness from a mile away. We are not stupid. We have like an X-Ray vision for that. Is like when we males play the long just-a-friend game. The girl knows from the very beginning that you want to have sex with her. Girls are not stupid either. No one is fooling anyone here.

True. No it isn't. No that's not the problem.

No there is not. Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder, but... No they are not. I have met lots that are not beautiful. Their spirit might be beautiful and untouched, but when it comes to their physical appearance, some are hot and some are ugly. Sorry. Yes you are.

#1 reason why i smoke weed.

This documentary is a Master Piece:

Hey guys check this out: I think that's what's going on. If i was one of the actors I will be in the room not outside.

Hi, today i had a small panic attack while meditating, which is ridiculous. I had an awakening experience 2-3 weeks ago. That awakening stayed with me for like a week. It was Great, my monkey mind shut the fuck up. But after that week or so, i started projecting again. I thought that if i say nothing to nobody about the awakening staying with me it will stay forever. I quit weed for 3 days. Today i smoked before my McDonald's job and it was great. i was silent and laser focused, but i had a little bit of paranoia though. Happens when i quit smoking and come back. Like coming back was more stressful than quitting. Felt more anxious about coming back than to keep not smoking. Then i get home change my clothes, eat a mango and light up a joint. i thought to myself I shouldn't be smoking recreationally, only medicinally (for insomnia and to stay silent and focused at McDonald's in my case) I am enjoying my high and decide to meditate. I have been realizing after the awakening experience that i am everything. Something very difficult to realize without psychedelics. I haven't fully realized this yet (though) and i don't know if I want or can do it. My meditation was about watching my thoughts and think about how the subconscious programs in my mind deal with this stream of thoughts. You know like abundance mentality vs scarcity mentality, totally opposite points of view for the same situation etc. The thought of being everything came up and anxiety showed up too. Strong. I couldn't keep up with the meditation. At the beginning i thought i was going deep and maybe i did and thinking: -''This is normal we are going deep.'' But i had to stop, turn on the lights, and lay on the bed and overcome it. I am writing because i think it is therapeutic. It's in my mind: I can control it and overcome it. Thanks for your support guys!

Check this one out ''...I would like to share the following teaching I received several years back when I was studying Shamanism. Picture a warrior with bow, quiver and arrows. The bow is a symbol for you as "self," aiming at the target of life. The quiver, your bag of physical and spiritual resources, contains seven dark arrows, seven light arrows, and seven rainbow arrows. These arrows represent the decisions and choices you make from moment to moment about how you direct the energies of your life experience. We are in the dark mirror when we seek validation for self outside of self, looking for emotional approval, mental recognition, physical security, and /or spiritual acceptance from others. When this occurs in our life, we are out of balance and we give away our power, picking up one or more dark arrows to aim at the target of life. The seven dark arrows are: attachment, dependency, judgment, comparison, expectation, the needy child syndrome, and ego self-importance. It is the dark arrows that keep us stuck in our patterns and in karma, with low self-esteem and a negative, skewed approach to life and the world. We are in the light mirror when we carry within ourselves self-reliance and personal happiness regardless of how others perceive us and react to us. We are now empowered to be all we can be, gaining individuality, transforming karma into dharma, and picking up the seven light arrows in the process. The light arrows are: self-awareness, self-appreciation, self-acceptance, self-pleasure, self-love, self-actualization, and impeccability (always doing the best you can whenever you can, and if you could do better you would). Each time we pick up a light arrow we break a dark one, and through this process of transformation we are gifted with a rainbow arrow. The seven rainbow arrows are: illumination, introspection, trust and innocence, wisdom, open heart-to-heart communication, balance of male and female energies, and abundance and prosperity. We are now fully matured, self-actualizing humans.'' -TDLH

Yeah, I have watched it. The disclaimer is genius: I have never done drugs, I am just an actor. Haha yeah right!

WOW! @TDLH Thank you!

He's got a video on the trap of projection. @Ar_Senses You are projecting on him. He will never answer to this.

Thanks for the replies! @flowboy Yeah, that's what my buddy said the first time i asked. And then I asked 2 times more LOL! Bud: -''Dude that's how girls are, she is just saying no politely.'' My buddy is a great example of how all you need is a good inner psychology to have success with women. I have a LOT to learn from him. @universe Those are some excellent pieces of advice. I'll keep the faith, and do exactly what you suggested. And not only with her, with every girl that i meet from now on.

Absolutely Some say Changa is THE way to smoke DMT Changa: Smoking DMT infused into Ayahuasca and other Herbs Is like smokable ayahuasca The herbs are to give it a better taste, and to calm you down. They also make it super easy to smoke. A trip sitter is a must.

@Zigzag Idiot That cover is some great art man! Yeah the one in the middle is totally Jesus.

Hi, I felt the same. I felt like me being/becoming a pothead is/was for the sole purpose of being able to smoke and retain in my lungs big amounts of DMT. OFC that was not my intention, i didn't even now DMT when i started smoking weed. My biggest accomplishment in life: stopped drinking alcohol. Having smoked DMT is the runner up. But that's only because i stopped drinking first. I have had 3 panic attacks this year, with the latest taking me to the cardiologist to check if i was having a heart attack or what the fuck. I was instantly cured when i knew it was all in my head. I see my last panic attack as a gift. I was like: -''OK this is it, it was a fun ride'' I prepared my self for 2 years+ to smoke DMT. Read a lot about the substance, a lot of trip reports and watched lot of youtube videos: Terrence McKenna, Joe Rogan, Shaman Oaks, Graham Hancock, etc. My advice would be: prepare yourself.

@SFRL what do you think?

Yeah i needed that in here. @flowboy Yeah i asked as she was walking away from me just to see her reaction. Here's what's up now. I have a neighbor, let's call her Carolina I like her very much. One day i told her casually to play chess with me sometime. One day she was doing the laundry. Arc: -''Hey about that chess game....'' Car: -''Right now i am doing some things, maybe some other day?'' Arc: -''OK'' So today i got a nice haircut, put on my best clothes, sprayed some Cool Water cologne, grabbed some green tea bags, and my chess board, and knocked on her door. Arc: -''Hi, you wanna play?'' Car (on the phone talking to her girlfriend): -''Right now i am talking to my girlfriend, I am about to go out with her, maybe some other day'' Arc: -''OK'' It will be good to mention that she is super nice, she is always smiling, at least when we talk. They say it's not rejection until you take it as rejection. And Leo says to keep pushing until she gives me a hard no (or a sweet yes). I am knocking on that door tomorrow again. Some things you just gotta persist. I want to persevere. I am a persistent person. What do you guys think?

''I see a chronic problem on this sub-forum, which is young males who complain about lack of success with women and failing to take responsibility for their situation. The #1 rule of all growth and personal development is taking 100% responsibility for your situation. I know how hard that can be when you're struggling with women/sex. It feels very much like life is treating you unfairly and that it's the women's fault. Let me tell you right now: this is a total ILLUSION! It's not the women. It's not society. It's not post-modernists. It's not the Marxists. It's not the feminists. It's YOU! This is not me blaming you. This is simply how all personal development works. Whatever problem you have in life you must begin by getting honest with yourself how you created it. Sometimes this is difficult to accept. It's much easier to blame someone else, or even blame yourself (for being too ugly or too short or too introverted). I am not suggesting you blame yourself. Rather, take ownership of the fact that you are the creator of your life. Whatever is missing in your life, you can correct, but only if you stop blaming yourself and others. Be very mindful of how your ego-mind creates narratives which justify your sense of lack, brokenness, or inability to attract women. All of these narratives, justification, rationalizations, logic, "facts", scientific studies, proofs, etc are sneakily fabricated by your own mind! Your own mind is the enemy! Watch it like a hawk. Your mind will try to come up with reasons and excuses for why your life is unfair and how success with women is impossible. This is all horseshit! Do not believe your own mind here. Your mind is clouded by fear, insecurity, and neediness. That is totally normal and understandable, but you cannot resolve your problems from such a place. From such a place your problems will get worse as you start to blame the world and solidify your victim worldview with cherry-picked evidence, "science", and "logic". Be extra suspicious of "logic" and "science" here. There is nothing logical or scientific about your victim attitude or lack of success with women. It's purely about meeting the survival needs of your ego. Sex is a very powerful survival need which will drive your mind towards all manner of mental gymnastics to ensure that you get it, or at least feel better for not getting it. There's good news and bad news. The good news is: Your looks are NOT the problem! The bad news is: your personality, attitude, and mindset are terrible! The good news is, it's possible to change that. The bad news is, it won't be easy and you will resist it like the devil that you are. So what's the solution? Take ownership of your problem and commit to resolving it. For this you need faith and confidence in your ability to self-actualize. You must have enough hope and vision to see yourself get much better with attracting women. This is NOT a pipe dream or fuzzy thinking. The reality is that any man can become 100x better at attracting women if he really takes ownership of the matter. Yes, it takes serious work. But it's also highly worth it. Imagine that within 3 years you're able to attract pretty women and feel confident about yourself when it comes to dating. Isn't that worth the effort? It sure is. This is not a fantasy. I've done it, many men have done it, and so can you! Your looks are NOT the bottleneck, your mindset is. So what do you do after you've established this vision? You must do lots of research to educate yourself about how dating actually work (not how you think it works). Find videos, find books, buy online courses, hire a coach, take a bootcamp, take a workshop, etc. There are literally hundreds of excellent resources available online these days. Most of them are legit, not scams. Study them hard and then get into the field. Start talking to women. Start approaching women. Start flirting with women. Start being much more social. If you struggle attracting women I can tell you right now what your top problems are. It's not lack of money, looks, muscles, car, height, or dick size. Remember, attraction and dating is EXTREMELY counter-intuitive. It's works exactly the opposite of how you initially think. Your top problems are: You live in your mancave and never go out! You must go out into social spaces where real women hang out. You spend WAY too much time online, indoors You spend WAY too much time on Youtube, Netflix, and playing video games You work too much You are never around cute single women You never start conversations with strangers You have terrible body language due to lack of experience You are not comfortable doing small-talk and being emotional and random in conversations You are far too logical You approach zero women on a regular basis You are terrified of approaching a women who you find attractive, talking yourself out of every approach You have terrible eye contact, you don't smile, and you don't project your voice properly You are crippled by fear and tongue-tied You are unable to start and sustain an interesting conversation with a human being You are disconnected from your body, your heart, your feelings, your emotions You have terrible self-image issues. You hate yourself, you hate how you look, you judge yourself way too harshly. You judge yourself just as harshly as you judge women. You have a bad sense of dress style and you don't groom yourself well You have no experience with physically touching women in a non-creepy way. You don't know how to rapidly physically escalate on a women without creeping her out. You don't know how women think or what they truly value in a man You don't know how to flirt and be authentic You are trying to be masculine in all the wrong ways -- fake masculinity You are needy, needy, needy You are terribly inexperienced You have no sense of passion or purpose in life, which robs you of confidence and masculine vitality Your attitude sucks: you whine, complain, bitch, moan, blame, and are so negative You think you understand life, reality, and how attraction works -- you don't! So work on fixing all of that before you go blaming women. All of the above can be deliberately worked on and fixed. You need to learn how to be a real man. Being a real man has nothing to do with big muscles, big dick, or a fast car. A real man is grounded on the INSIDE. It's ALL about inner game! You need to cultivate that confidence. It doesn't come naturally. You must build it! 80% of getting good with women is just actually being much more social. You need to deliberately re-structure your life so that you're automatically being more social. So that you're going out every weekend. So that you're bumping into new people constantly. So that you're making new friends all the time. This kind of re-structuring is very doable. You just have to be willing to change your lifestyle. And stop watching or listening to any of the following: Jordan Peterson, MGTOW, RedPill, Incel material/forums/reddit All of that is cancer of the mind. It's reinforcing your victim mindset and robbing you of your ability to change yourself. I've been where you are. I know it's tough. But hang in there, hold your vision, have hope, get to work, and things will dramatically improve for you. You will become a new person by the end of this journey and you will be so proud of yourself. You will become a real man, not some whiny JP fanboy. The #1 thing a real man does is take 100% responsibility for all his problems. A real man NEVER blames anyone, and certainly not women or feminism. A real man is a feminist. A real man fearlessly works on himself. So start right there! Start by fixing that.'' -Leo Gura

ALWAYS REMEMBER: We Are Spirits in a Material World

@Serotoninluv You are totally right. Let me re-phrase: One day i had to bike for 15 hours: That day i got a really good taste of what turquoise is about.

Hi, one day i was really pissed off because some dude was trying to scam me (he paid at the end) but i was really angry. What i did was watch Leo's video about How to Deal with Strong Negative Emotions. It helped so much that i think Leo kinda saved my life that day.

Hi, I label myself as orange/green/yellow, and I am mountain biker. When i bike for more than 2-3 hours i start reaching turquoise levels (I think). It's some kind of samadhi or something. This happened to me last sunday: I go into some samadhi but then i am back to the normal me. And when i come back i am like: -''Well, that has to be what being turquoise is like'' The wind, the forest and the water talks to you, but without words. You can zoom in in any object and see God, Infinity, The Absolute whatever you wanna call it. One day i had to bike for 15 hours: That day i knew what turquoise was ALL about. Can't really explain it. It's a little bit like being AWOL. Exactly.

I had a hydrocele in my left testicle, I had surgery too. How did you manage to not having erections while you were sleeping?