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yeah yup. What's your gender, just curious?

i'm curious is this based on some approaches or results you got or something else. Seems kind of abstract and wonder how would you pack it in real interaction..

nah bro, I'm talking about this

She sees that you're trying. You're not convincingly enough in your masculine though, so she has suggestions for you. Never allow her to give you advice as this will put on a dynamic where it is impossible to escalate with her. Refuse to be her student and move on to upgrade your skills.

If you don't use dating platforms, avoid texting. Text just for logistics and to hear from each other when you're going to meet next. Don't give her attention online. She has this already. Give her value in real life and make her laugh --> this she doesn't have an abundance of.

That was not respectful man. Let them work for it. That's where the magic happens and you can lead things more easily because she will say yes.. She's giving herself a room to flake because you didn't do a good job and decline her subtle invitation. Why did you try to make it into a more serious thing when all she wanted to do was make it easy for you? Couple more mistakes. You don't try to be respectful. You don't ask her. You invite her, and lead! Don't put her in positions where she has to make choices because she doesn't want that. It doesn't matter whether she wants to eat man. It's not about the dinner, it's about you and you both know it. Her pussy is starting to get frustrated at this point, thinking, "Oh shoot, this dude really doesn't get it:" Of course she didn't. That's classic behaviour. When you fuck up like that you have to bump into her again. She ain't gonna do it for you. You don't wait for a response from a girl, ever. You provoke it. Don't ask for people in your family for specific dating advice. They just wanna make you feel good and not worry. You need clear, no BS instructions to close her, not politically-correct answers from someone who is emotionally invested in you! Bro you didn't even try it with her. This attitude won't move you far. Don't feel bad about yourself. Make yourself change and start knowing where you're fucking up and becoming more attractive to them! You never even got rejected by this girl. That's what you need to realize first. Be transperent with yourself and don't talk bad to yourself.This gets you nowhere!

First time you either bust a not within seconds, or you don't bust at all. Everything is normal bro. Stay proud and keep going out!

there's no way to be in self-pity and confident at the same time. Confidence means being there for yourself and putting yourself out there without apologies.

I hope this is true

Good job man! No one even thought it will.

What do you do differently with those people? Seems like you change your vibe a bit because of the formality..

What kind of wealth, healt, relationships? Just for reference.

They want a long term, commited relationships. Security in their partner. Sex without feeling like whores. Return on investment. They don't wanna feel used. They wanna contribute their man and being contributed back.

Yes, you are. Women just are. They don't have reasons to act right, although they act right most of the time if they have a healthy and balanced life. Their spontaneity challenges your logical, reasonable, masculine self. If you cannot take it, you need to dive deeper within those interactions!

Pick this. What feels like taking things down is sometimes an opportunity for the other person to meet you truly. You were at a crazy energy on a wedding party, now get more intmate and personal. You say she is shy. She will probably have a lot of personal questions for you! Make her comfortable just being with you and then at the end of a coffee date, you can propose for a more exciting activity to get back into your wild side again!

The fact that you don't wanna be seen as such implies to me that you have second-thoughts on your masculine power. That's ok btw..

Just at first. While spirituality makes you want to abandon worldly things and pleasure at first, this seems true that it hinders your dating life. But you can stay on top of your materialistic goals and it will come as a more solind foundation for your spirituality journey. I don't agree with the main hint of this post.

So when someone's agressive at the club, it's not theie testosterone but rather estrogen we're talking about? Does that mean we can say people who show agression use it just to mask their masculine insecurity rather than act from it?

Where did you learn that?

You basically said if his acting doesn't get women, then they are lost and don't see clearly?

Man this is a big fucking success! Congratulations.. What you've done is very rare and is an only way to go. I'm so proud bro <3

As spiritual warrior said, just do you bro. Don't think about how you will come across. The less you care about that, the more atractive traits you will exhibit to the female..

Prepare yourself for years of getting better. Turn up the volume of your interactions, especially regarding females. If you don't know how to get solo with girls, first learn how to be around your friends with gf. See what do they react to, talk to them, ask them for advice honestly etc.

You don't talk to 10+ different women on daily and weekly basis..

I would give her shit for that. Just to see how she cops out. But that0s just me. If you would do it, she would flip it against you in a split second so be careful. If this wass placed on social media like ig or fb, she is using you to get to someone else. Very bad taste idk.