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I've been going to the gym for five years now and I always see the same story: a new member come to the gym and then, after a few months (or even a few days) he give up. Why?

I'm trying to put some boundaries here.

"I can't live without you" "You are mine and only mine" "Happiness is when I'm with you" "Your love is all I need to feel complete" "You are my forever" I have never told these things to my girlfriend (she neither) and I'll never do it. I love her but this stuff sounds fake to me. Of course, I'm happy when I'm with her, but I don't think I need her to be happy. Of course, I want to stay with her, but I don't know whether this love will last forever or not...etc

@MM1988 You overanalyze things. I used to do it too. Be careful, it could be misleading, you can't control everything. Black and white thinking doesn't work. Don't be so mechanical, if she does this way, then I should do that way... Allow yourself to make mistakes.

I know how it feels, but I would like to reassure you. It's probably performance anxiety. I had it on my first sexual experience. We want to impress, to demonstrate our masculinity, to be passionate. Yet, all these ambitions, added with the lack of experience, lead to a lot of stress. I was able to overcome that problem (get it up) thanks to her openness. In the beginning, she thought it was her fault, then I explain to her I was a little stressed. She understood and tried to get me comfortable. This mood let me release the tension and have amazing sex. Now we have sex in whatever place, situation, position. We like to experiment, especially the hard things I wish you the same

@Telepresent 1) If my girlfriend told me this clingy stuff, it would be a turn-off for me 2) No, my girlfriend isn't upset. I brought it up because I was looking for a cute message for her birthday and I saw on the internet those things that make me think.

Basically, to keep it simple, if you have a profit, then, you can: a) put that money under your mattress or b) reinvest that money in a business in order to create other profits

Anyone who has studied macroeconomy knows that income creates other income. If we want to keep our economy stable we must spend. (notice: spending does not necessarily mean consuming) If you were an entrepreneur and you had some money to spend, then what kind of business would you run into? For example, I’m triggered by Technogym. They provide training machines and equipment as core business. They use environmentally sustainable production processes, they care about their customers and employees’health...etc

Try to put your mind on something else, I guess

@Shin No. Every 10 seconds you stop for an hour ?

You should be able to feel when you are going to come in advance. Then slow down and focus on your breath. Repeat it as long as you want.

@aurum Thank you I actually want to master my relationship. Now I'm trying to figure out what are the main factors in a successful one. I'm questioning the common thoughts like "be her best friend" ecc... I've read The way of a superior man and I found it amazing. I'm a little afraid of depolarization. Anyway, right now, we have good communication and sex. p.s. Our relationship isn't an open one, yet we are quite free, we let us space and we don't have strong jealousy.

Since I have a lovely girlfriend, I'm not interested in other commitments anymore, but I still use the attraction game approach with almost every girl I stumble upon. I even kissed two close friends of mine, but just to have fun, and I don't feel like I've cheated on her. I do that because I obviously enjoy that and (counter-intuitively) because I think it could strengthen my relationship. I mean, It helps to keep the sexual tension between us and to avoid depolarization. Do you agree? Why?

@Spiral I'm not talking about breaking up, I'm looking for opinions from people more experienced than me. Breaking up is not an option.

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I'm looking for a slogan to encourage people to do some sport. I mean, physical activity leads to several tangible benefits, it's in their interest to do that, but still, so many people prefer to stay on the couch.

I've been going to the gym for five years now and I always see the same story: a new member come to the gym and then, after a few months (or even a few days) he give up. Why?

The way of a superior man by Deida It focuses on giving your gift in a relationship. Personally, I love this book. It helped me a lot.

@bejapuskas Sorry, I didn't get the gist of your reply. Anyway I wish you the best too

... Bro, you don't know anything about them too. You can't assume that every successful person would tell stuff like that. Take it easy

Please. This behaviour is not useful for anybody, both for you and for other members.

Ok, then, why are you even watching this section of the forum?

Forget about that stuff. It definitely doesn't help you to move on.

@MM1988 What's the aim of that list? Is it to justify why you are not succeeding with girls? I hope not!

Since I have a girlfriend, the other girls approach me a lot. Many of them don't even know that I am engaged. Actually, she is my first girlfriend and I shared with her my first sexual intercourse. Probably girls find me more attractive because now I subconsciously show I can handle sex. I know I can make them squirt multiple time. I've applied all my studies to practice. What's the point? The point is that I really love my girlfriend but, at the same time, it's opened up a whole new world for me and I'm tempted to try new stuff with other women. How to deal with that?