Firstly, it tends to improve simply from going out a lot and talking to girls a lot.
Secondly, through building state by approaching all night long.
Thirdly, by having fun wings to shit-talk with between sets.
Fourthly, by soaking in the club music and atmosphere. Dancing, etc.
Fifthly, by brainstorming funny and emotional things to talk about when you're at home.
Sixthly, by listening to in-field of night game where the guy is being self-amusing. Analyze how he is being emotional rather than logic. This is key.

Then don't expect results with girls. Expect random adventures and nothing concrete.
Of course it's forced. You're training and learning.
That's like saying going to school to learn math is forced. YES! Do you want to learn math or not? If not, then go to the park and have fun.
You have to be ready to drop your friends and go with the girl when she hooks.
The best way to develop your game and get results with girls is: 1) go solo and be focused on girls like a sniper, or 2) go with 1 solid wingman and focus on 2-sets which you two are aiming to pull. Keep the fun to a minimum so you can keep your focus on the girls.
Just going out and having fun with friends will not get you good results with girls nor will it develop your game much. If you want to learn game you gotta be methodical and surgical about it. You're out to learn game. That is your goal, if that's your goal.
If your goal is to have fun then just do that and forget about results.
Just get clear with yourself what you want. There is no right or wrong per se.
You can also have one night per week where you go out purely to have fun. And the rest of the nights you focus 100% on building your game.
In the end you'll find that you don't need to have fun more than once a week. Maybe even once a month of pure fun and partying is enough. It will get old quickly. How many nights can you party with friends before it gets old?

Managing logistics is the most important thing for getting laid.
You need to figure out a logistics solution before you try to pull her.
If she is with her gf going home, you go with them. She's not gonna sleep in the same bed as her gf.
Also, before you invest you entire night into one girl, you need to make sure there is a reasonable logistics solution. If she lives hella far away, then you need to find this out within the first 10 mins of meeting her and then quickly move on to other girls who are more realistic to pull. There is no point in partying all night with a girl who is impossible to pull. She will not remember you the next day.

Realistically most new girls you number-close will flake you. Because dating someone from cold approach is a bit unusual. Girls mostly date from social circle.
If you're pulling a girl from the club, you should almost certainly expect her to flake on you the next day. Which is why you gotta close the same night. Don't settle for phone numbers from the club. They are nearly worthless. Because the girl is in the club to party. She is not going to date your after the party, so close her that night or lose her forever.
This is not because you aren't attractive. This will happen no matter how attractive you are. The girl's mood completely changes the next day.
It also has nothing to do with the fact that you are aboard or visit home regularly.
If you are going for phone numbers, grab many numbers per night and don't party too much with the girls. Make your interactions rather short (15-30 mins).
If you're going to stick to one girl the whole night and party with her, you must pull her for sex, not ask for a number.
Decide which kind of game you wanna do.
If you danced together for so long, why didn't you go back to her place to close???
Don't just split up at the end of the night, you need to seed an after-party at your place or just ask her, "Can I come with you?" if she is going home. That one simple line will get you laid many a time. Do not leave the girl unless she tells you, Go away! Stick with her to the bitter end.
Also, don't party with her too late. You need to pull relatively early so she's not burned out from partying. The goal is not to party or dance. The goal is to end up alone with her. Keep your goal clearly in mind and don't get misled by mindless partying late into the night.

Being fun and chill is simple, but it is not easy. And at the same time you have to be able to pull that off in a highly social environments. And you have to approach.
Can you approach a hot girl and be fun and chill? That takes YEARS of work for most guys. Which is why she isn't sleeping with you.

You could sum up all of game as learning how to be non-creepy and non-awkward about sex.

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I underestimated the price of freedom.
 I just came back home after being on a bar/pub having a drink with a couple of puas/wingmans. Honestly i Dont know if they were going to approach later on the night But i was already emotionally fatigued just being with them, so I left "soon". But dude was this a night to remember.
They were clearly stage green. I was not expecting this. In a Matter of a few minutes they fastily read me into how constricted, introverted-into my head i am and told me something along the lines of "you have to start valuing yourself" etc. 
After about 1 hour into What It felt an "intervention" in how i am blockaged inside my head, my ego etc at one point i do felt "free" for some seconds and i tasted What It feels to socialize/Talk totally free and with no internal monologue of fear. This was after they talking to me for at least half an hour straight about how i can get rid myself of this (my social anxiety/blockage/ego.etc) . I got a free therapy session basically Lol
Overall i am "Happy" because i had a dose of truth But i am kinda shocked because It seems this is going to take a LOT of fucking work.
I am not going to achieve the "freedom" just going out from time to time. I probably Will have to spend hours and hours st least each weekend, for maybe 2-3 years. My ego has to totally break down and i need to stop "controlling" and being constricted in social situations. 
This is a change in personality. Or better, a Matter of being able to let go in social situations which honestly It feels like lifting a 300Kg. And It seems you have to do It over and over and over. Over expose yourself, desensitize yourself, let go, flow, express, over and over. Until the ego cant anymore control. (Or better said the ego learns that is SAFE to let go and express itself).
This is going to take a tremendous amount of work, right? Fuck. 
 

Dude, then your problem isn't lack of humor. You don't need to run a comedy routine for a girl for 4 hours to get her to sleep with you.
Humor is mostly necessary only in the beginning. Once she is attracted, you then need to shift in to building deep intimacy, connection, and comfort. This is what the majority of your date should be about. You do this not through humor but by sharing stories from your life, your values, your dreams, your passions, and asking about hers. Little humor is necessary here. And then while you're doing that you must also ramp up the physical escalation. Once you're 2hrs+ into a date most of the work should be done via just silence and physical escalation. Your hands should be all over her body by that point, you should be leading her around, kissing her, making out, heavy sexual eye contact, and getting her horny.
You don't need to be a dancing monkey. And you don't need a bunch of vapid small talk. Get to the business of turning her body on. You're here to fuck her, not to play talk show host.
You need to learn the power of silence and simply eye contact. Talk way slower.
It's not gonna be boring if your properly physically escalate and are making her horny.

Humorous, positive, deatched from outcome, confident in himself, assertive but very socially calibrated, non-controlling, self-amusing, not explicitly sexual in a vulgar way.
Creepy/scary guys fail on all those points.
Humor and playfulness makes her feel at easy. Creepy/scary guys are serious and lack humor.
Just being friendly and socially calibrated is huge. Creepy guys lack that calibration. They act like social retards.

I understand that the woman is at risk of carrying a baby or be shamed for sleeping with someone. There is the possibility of the being kicked out of tribe for sleeping with the wrong guy. Men are afraid to step outside of the box for fear of being killed by other guys in the tribe for going after the wrong woman, but I feel like that does not really explain it enough. Why is it the hardest thing I've ever done as well as for many other men from an evolutionary standpoint?
I remember in one of your videos Leo you said that business is just a modern civilized version of rape and pillage so what is the modern civilized version of pick up?

I know some of you guys here are struggling to learn game and struggling to find wingmen.
Here's a resource that lists Telegram groups for wingmen in every city in the world:
https://www.gameglobal.net/groups/
Scroll down the list to find your city.
Learning game solo as a newbie is nearly impossible, so make sure you make use of wings. Just be careful when selecting your wingman that you don't use him as a crutch to avoid approaching girls. Bad wings can be distractions more than help. Your wingman must be committed to going out consistently and approaching, not just standing around talking shit.
And once you get comfortable with wingmen, start going out solo a bit too, until eventually you can solo any venue.
This resource is to be used responsibly to help you learn game. Do not abuse your new-gained powers for unethical or devilish dating activity. Reduce harm and manipulation as much as possible. Be ware that most of your wings will be deeply stuck in stage Orange and that mindset will rub off on you. This isn't exactly high-consciousness stuff, but it's better than being an Incel.
If you are starved for sex and feeling depressed and lonely about it, start learning game and going out consistently. Do not be inactive as the problem will not magically solve itself.

Bro, that's how life is for most people on the planet.
Not only that but by the end of the week you'll be so exhausted you'll just want to spend the weekend crashing on the couch and watching some TV, not doing any kind of personal dev work.
The solution is to build a career with a job that you're really passionate about, so that those 8 hours working each day are actually something you want to be doing.
The hope lies in building a career aligned with your life purpose.
Or starting a business and earning so much money that you can afford to take a lot of time off to work on your own side projects. This is what I did. Today I could not work for 10 years and just travel the world or do side projects. But still I choose to work because I mostly love my work. But I had to work real hard and real smart to reach this point. This is not any easy point to reach. You'll have to be super committed to reach it.

Are these just staged pranks or could doing something this shocking actually work for men to get girls?

Really need your help guys. So this is something I've been debating with on and off for over a year now. Just a quick back story. A while ago I had a car accident and sustained a severe brain injury and ended up in coma for a few hours. Let's just say tough times pursued after that. I experienced neuro fatigue, severe anxiety, insomnia, personality changes, among other mood disturbances. My life had fallen apart. Broken relationships with all my friends and family, and not being able to hold a steady job. Thankfully I've within the last year actually started to do things to heal my brain (& emotional traumas
) that pharmacology couldn't do (for many years I was on an anti depressant, that all the doctors I saw prescribed me when I told them I had a TBI). I did an Ayahuasca retreat followed by a couple of San Pedro ceremonies, silent meditation retreat, became spiritual, hyperbaric oxygen therapy and I'm doing significantly better. I stopped taking the meds before doing the Aya and in the beginning it was so hard. But since coming off the meds I have become so conscious of life that I'm afraid if I get back on meds my consciousness will go back down while on them. HOWEVER, while I am more conscious off the meds it's hard for me to function in the material world without them. The anxiety is so bad it has made me a loner. When I do leave my place it's to go to the park by myself. I have trouble making eye contact with people, not really sure what that is about. I can't have conversations with people, nothing comes to mind to talk about. It's hard for me to concentrate on something because the anxiety has my mind racing and gives me scattered thoughts. On the meds, these things don't exist or are much more tolerable. I'm able to have a balanced life, something a spiritual teacher told me is necessary in the spiritual path.
 
Wanted to know what you guys think, especially Leo since he's commented on one of my posts about my TBI so I'm curious to see what he thinks. All the doctors and psychologists that see me tell me I need to get back on my meds. My family that sees that I've improved so much lately says I don't need to. It just really hurts to not have friends or a social life, or a good job (not doing so well financially and I'm over 30, times ticking). I feel if I take meds for a temporary time, say maybe a year, I can concentrate on trying to start a business, make it profitable and go back to living a balanced life. Then when I have more money I can afford to do more treatments for my brain injury and mental health which will make me feel even better, which in turn can make my spiritual practice even stronger. I'm from the US and currently living abroad in a 3rd world country (consciousness level is really low here). I can then move back to the states, somewhere out in nature feeling comfortable, I can come off my meds and take full advantage of living a conscious life. What do you guys think? I'm honestly torn between the two... Would be greatly appreciative for any of your feedback.

Dude, stop reading such negative shit.
If you actually start talking to girls you'll see that you mostly get positive reactions.
You need to bask only in positivity when you're doing this. You need to practice delusional levels of positivity here. Do not allow a single negative thought into your mind no matter what happens.
Clubbing solo is one of the hardest things a guy can do. But damn does it grow you if you can pull it off.
Get some wingmen to bolster you. Going out solo as a newbie is not usually sustainable. You need some emotional support structure from wings when starting off.

Highest quality wingmen are to be found in Hidden facebook groups of RSD related products. Julien has a free facebook mastermind group as well which is great for this purpose. The fearless man has a Hidden facebook group as well.
There's also WhatsApp groups in probably every country and major city with many active guys who game regularly.
Just gotta Explore the internet a bit and connect with People.
Facebook is great for this. Just search there and you'll find something which gets the ball rolling.
Best groups are paid though in the sense that they are a bonus value for when you buy one of the Company's products or attend their events.

When I got into new cafe full of youngster, I got a strong vibe of same thing. Doing same thing, thinking same think. I feels very different because I almost never go into that place. And when I got home my head become very confused, its like suddenly my value is swifting unconsciously. For example like look is very important, shallow thing like fancy iPhone is very important thoo... and weird thinking pattern is occured in me. Or this is normal? I feel this is conformity happening. Because if I dont have somekind of value that the circle have, I cant survive in it and be consider outsider. Isn't it? 

I've just graduated, moved out, got a solid job making good money, now I'm living on my own in a new town. I know I'm socially not as developed as I need to be and that's where most of my efforts are going just now, the new town thing makes that especially tough.
I've been socialising quite a bit, had some great experiences. Covid restrictions finally lifted enough for nightclubs to open. I still haven't made any solid friends here yet so I've been going alone so far and had an absolute blast the first time I went to this particular place.
However I went back again this Friday and had a really shitty experience. Initially I was denied entry because I was on my own, despite going there alone before. I then found a couple girls round the corner who said they'd pretend they knew me and got in, I never saw them again after that but it felt great at the time.
I was there for a couple hours, spoke to a bunch of people, danced etc. then I started talking to another pair of girls, it was loud and they couldn't hear me so I cupped my hand around one of their ears and spoke into that, just some some basic shit about if they were having a good night. No more than 30 seconds total. They clearly weren't interested so I just moved on. I didn't think anything of it, really, I'm pretty sure that's normalish club behaviour but it was the most forward thing I did. After that, I saw one of them talking to a bouncer and pointing directly at me while I was just having a good time dancing. Next thing I know he was telling me I had to leave.
I don't know why but this has actually made me feel like total shit. I know it's relatively inconsequential, but I feel unbelievably guilty and confused because I don't really know exactly what I did wrong, but clearly something.
The idea of being seen as creepy seems to hit something really deep inside me, I really hate being perceived that way. And being denied entry for being alone in retrospect reinforces this in my mind. It makes me feel like a creep somehow, or like I'm an outsider, like I'm doing something wrong.
I'm really just venting because this has been playing on my mind a whole lot over the weekend. I'm definitely overthinking it, but if anyone happens to have any insight on anything I've said then I'd appreciate it

5-30 minutes is about right. Any more than that and you're showing her that you're a loser.
If she doesn't get attracted to you within 30 minutes, you've failed and it's time to move on. Realistically attraction takes 5-10 minutes to happen when a guy knows what he's doing.

How are you going to compete with companies who pay their workers a fraction of what you pay? Your products will all cost so much no one will buy them.
Cheap labor is used precisely to drive down product costs to what consumers are willing to pay.
Your idea is basically utopia on stilts. To win over employees with benefits you need to have such high profit margins and funding for your company that you can afford to give a large chunk of it away to your employees. Paying employees well is a luxury only the most successful businesses can afford. And even then, they rarely do it. Markets mostly drive labor costs. You are not going to single-handedly change that.
If you dream is to pay your employees well, first create a rock solid profitable business that generates hoards of cash. And once you do that, you could just donate that money to charity or homeless people. Makes little difference.

That is the problem. You're too attached and needy.
The real solution is to be so busy doing important work that you don't really care about who texts you or doesn't.
Notice how attached you're getting to such petty things as texts. You're allowing symbols on a screen to dictate your life! Contemplate the absurdity of it.

I was wondering on how to start a conversation with someone and how to sustain a conversation, as I often only talk about a few things but then just stop talking because I can't really think of anything meaningful to say. Right now I have really bad social skills, but I'm seeing slow improvements day by day.

Okay, so I am going to be vulnerable and open here.
My biggest recurring fear is being accused of sexual misconduct and it ruining my life and business. 
I am not the kind of guy who sends dick picks, speaks sexually or is aggressively sexual. I have never been in a position of power, or abused that power for sex. 
I actually think Sex is sacred and am building myself up to be the best partner, father and lover that I can be. I want healthy relationships with good boundaries etc. 
I do think that in relationships I at times didn't respect boundaries as well as I should have, but nothing extreme. I likely have failed to fully respect consent at times. But I think generally I am rather clean...  But I am not perfect.
Yet, My mind keeps playing this scenerio over and over again that I will be accused of sexual misconduct and my business will fail. It's a paralyzing fear that I have. That, maybe something I did in the past is going to come out of the past and fuck me. But, I can't think of anything that I did that was bad, but what if it happens? What would I do? Could I survive such an embarrassing attack, or revelation of my lower character?
This fear I think is the leading fear of my suicidal thoughts. I just don't think I could handle going through something like that. I want to heal and inspire people but I am just so scared of this. Again, I've never been in a position of power and I consider myself a lot more sexually mature and respectful than many guys I know. But, I still have this immense fear. It seems worse than death. 
This type of fear is massive, I've been carrying it around for years and I think it has slowed me down immensely in my personal development. I think it comes from in part of fear that I don't deserve the good things in life, or that I am undeserving of love.
I know I will need to just live my life, be respectful and act in accordance with my values as I do.
I think it's also a fear of jealousy of others, needing to destroy what I built as revenge or something. 
I know it's silly maybe, or maybe it's selfish or something but this is my biggest recurring fear and I bet I am not the only male who shares this fear. Even if I was innocent no one will believe me and I don't know if that would destory my whole career and then what? Do I just commit suicide? Or is there hope for me?
I don't know. I know deep down I will just need to be loving and live to my highest capablitiies and let the cards fall where they will.
It's just such a deep fear. It bothers me probably every day. That, whether is was misconduct or something else that my dreams will be made impossible and I will be left with nothing. So, I sometimes think I self sabatoge or slow myself down because it's better to have a dream of what might be one day than to know it's not possible at all. But, I will also die one day so I might as well try.
I want to live fearlessly and loving and be a good role model for others. I don't want to let people down, harm others or have people think ill of me. Is it all in my head? probably, but it feels like a very real danger. I don't trust others I think.

1) Many of those people are extroverts. If you are an introvert you will have a much harder time.
2) Many of those people have jobs that make it easy to meet girls. If you do not, you will be stuck.
3) Most guys have very low standards. If your standards for sex are high, you will have a much harder time.
4) Most people are desperately lonely or live in fear of losing their only sex partner. Many people will take years to find a replacement after a breakup.
5) Most people get laid thru social circle. If you have no social circle you are screwed (or rather, not-screwed).
So the situation is not good. Stop envying the lazy. Roll up your sleeves and get to work. A great sex life will not land on your lap by the grace of God. You must create it.