NoSelfSelf

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  1. If you had a beautiful mind then you wouldnt take an offense that's the point. And the mind will never be beautiful if you worship someone else. Simple as that. You identified yourself as average and Leo as your Father figure. At some point you should hear someone say most disturbing things to you, but because you know yourself so much you will just look at it like huh? interesting, and go about your day.That's when you know you really on some self development progress...prior to that its just navigating the woods stage(refrence to heros journey)..
  2. That's exactly why man dont fall in love because it clouds the judgment.
  3. Well i told you the name of the therapy game:its you talking about the problem and they look to give some queastions, so you can see your own problem to infinity not actully giving solid advice or opening your eyes.Only greater therapist have better game than that,which is same as in dating/business etc. Only small %, everyone is a copy of another.
  4. Yes,99% dont even know what mental illness is no refrence to it whatsoever,its like speaking to yourself and at the wall.Whole game is to speak until you realize something went wrong which can take one month or 15 years.Other thing to not just attack them, the nature of human psyche is so complex that only insanely great therapist can help the hard cases.But at the end of the day its on you to help yourself,which can be really hard to grasp since when somebody is mentally ill is automatically a victim of their own psyche. I fixed myself since therapist was laughably less concious than i was at the time, which is not a brag but their lack of competency.
  5. You are all over the place,like mish mash of all the sources you watched heared just spilled at the same time. One to be able to do the actions needs to hold its own position and opinion above the other sources. So if i hold the position that ill eat healthy every day ,believe in it and do it then it will be done.But if i say ill eat healthy but those juicy burgers,omg you only live once,whats the point of life to suffer? Then that mish mash disproves and disbeliefs the action. If we gonna inject masculine its picking a decision and run with it not thinking philosophyse it to death.
  6. Its total valid you actually cant do any action if you dont believe in it.But if you lying to yourself that you cant you wont.Its all mind games the life that is...
  7. True,but before that one must believe in his actions to make them and if one has low self worth/self love wont do the action so its catch 22.But okay your point is valid.
  8. If i had billions of dollars i would also say there is nothing to get anymore.
  9. Then whats the solution?
  10. You have low self worth and dont love yourself that's why you feel bad. Nobody who loves himself wants to impress women. Daydreaming is a must but needs to be executed.
  11. This is what momentum in game is.(different from pick up momentum).
  12. No its not its multitude of things brought together.Momentum is just covering over who you truly are.
  13. I remember in one of the video its mentioned "study yourself like you are a hamster in a labaratory" all your tendencies from 3rd Pov.
  14. My advice is that you look to connect with people instead with yourself,then the way you connected to yourself it will be easy to connect with others. People who make easy connection are those who are already good with themselves. When you connect with yourself then you wont be looking to connect based on same likes/dislikes you will respect that they have their own ways just like you have. Same way if you dont know math you wont be able to teach it to others. Same way you dont know yourself you cant express yourself(so you not giving nothing for others to connect to because there is no connection to self)/but ofcourse you should talk about things that excites you that's authenticity not you forcing yourself.But when you connected to other more via being liked/approved based on not knowing yourself you will always seek connection to others first and then they wont be able to see the connection.Connection is seen when you can display it for them to see it the way you are with yourself.
  15. I never claimed that im manly im giving you advace based on common sense, not manipulation like its for you and not to appear more manly for someone else.Style is not just clothes imo. Because to me it looks like you are afraid that wind will blow up your skirt dont take it personal tho 😅.
  16. Wider stance not that complicated
  17. Then dont ask us for opinion im not fashion guru. You stand like a girl take some space..
  18. Yes that's the point.
  19. Choice of colors and the way you stand makes it terrible for me.
  20. In all this years on a forum i probably got 3-4 good advice(that a dont even remember) mainly using the site to repeat my own insights and with repeating i get something new most of the time.
  21. This was better than pornhub
  22. Wow solid advice
  23. @Atb210201 @UnbornTao that's not his problem,problem is generating his own personalized views on every matter(through contemplation) which is crucial to make for his own individual journey.