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@puporing Yeah scariest thing is not knowing how much it will melt your reality,in that moment, its like it will erase your whole existence as a human ? body melting in conciousness...

I thought when you have money there is unlimited options, then cultivating creativity is what you looking for...

@LSD-Rumi Beserk is amazing they made 3 part movies worth watching! Its same as 1997(modernized)but it covera stuff after eclipse(week ago they made a mamorial version of those 3 movies they added some scenes) Thats why i have profile cover here of beserk ? Recently watched kaiji survivor anime its better than squid games imo

its all projection of inner weakness(this thread) that's why you get attracted to this type of theories and thinking... If you just saw that you are weak for some reason then all this wouldnt matter it would all be self accountability from that point on... Why would anyone determene your experience ,any book, any man any ideology. Basing your reality on what others are experiencing and doing ?. Imagine random guy who doesnt know anything about relationship tells you how it sucks and now you stand there oh yeah it sucks and you never been in one, so now you wont be in one because his experience wasnt good, because hes not skilled... Or you enter one and because you dont know nothing, you confirm it, yeah it sucks book told me so, you see that guys relationship sucked too i hate relationships and women from now on ?...

@xbcc ?‍♂️

@Kshantivadin direct vs inderect game to each their own there is no better

@vishnusavestheday Yes whole game is about you nothing about women

@vishnusavestheday No you are looking to be attractive to others, again you have to approach seeing yourself as attractive as f not her...yes approaching as seeing yourself attractive if you see her as attractive you are already losing...

Nah can you even fathom how attractive you are!? this up is losing mindset...

@Federico del pueblo i meant society/family looking you as failiure because you dont have a job is like you seeing them as failiure because they are not enlightened... Its something outside of you that determines your worth its really bad... Just an example

You basically came to a gym unprepared and now you wonder how all machines and exercise work not even having a program... you should have planned this beforehand now you are lost completely if you serious i would seek coaching from someone good, because you cant get few answers and roll with it thats my take to succed in this, its not childs play...

@ThePoint that's tough to answer here, its like you asked me how anatomy works(putting it in perspective) Having relationship with yourself is where every part works for you to move you where you should be moving according to a rules of your relationship...

@QQQ Nicely put you got it ?? its all on you (finally) !

@SQAAD Because you dont know yourself at your core...when you dont then your mind plugs into social matrix and gets defined by outside forces...its all inside you but where does the mind goes towards outside not inside where core is... But i dont know about the core deeper so cant talk about it but i can tell you your mind is either focused on you or on the outside... Real change is when you look outside through your lens not influenced by others...

First by creating meaningful relationship with yourself because you are reflection of how you see yourself and operate... Creating such a good relationship with yourself that others want to be with you.. Its backwards thinking if books and courses doesnt help you to find yourself its a cult that wants you to behave like them...

If you care about other men then you are not one basically...

Stop searching is bs advice if there is no profound change then there is no "finding"

All this post is based upon someone elses standards that you try to match to, like if im not this im basically useless, you have your reasons to be where you are at and they dont have to understand, if that really bothers you just say i dont wanna talk about it stay out of my business... Its a deeper issue i know but its like from your pov if those people are not enlightened or in process or getting enlightened they are the worst failiures ever...

These things are out of your hands. Focusing on what you can do and ignore what you can't is only thing i can suggest...

Thats basically self development but you need to reread it and make it part of who you are otherwise its wasted... Trap is to just write and not build it in yourself... If i got you right...

This might be a weird answer but what i found if you dont learn Game(which is tough to explain on here) you will work on outside of yourself and not inside for lasting resaluts all the books is just random thoughts that you mybe use sometimes but dont embody it into yourself because you dont know you so Game is a must. Thats why you could use theory for some brief resaults but it doesnt stick, it doesnt become who you are or its in conflict with who you are... Its like growing in thousands different directions and places not focused on your personal growth everything must be specificly your way otherwise you are pulled in thousand different directions going nowhere... Its really tough to fix health problems because they and you dont understand you so its a hit or miss process waiting for it to hit eventually...

I think you already friendzoned yourself ?

@Razard86 not really its the infinity of your uniqueness that cant be unraveled without self love but i get that it can be said self love

@StarStruck you are not coachable

@Asayake without knowing yourself(theory of yourself) by reading books you will get theories of other peoples lifes, so you will either become a copy of that person or you wouldnt be able to use that theory effectivly for yourself...you probably read so many books and got nothing from them, any growth because without theory of you,you cant know what information you gonna use or how you gonna apply that theory on yourself by just copying it you are not really growing...you have to specifically interpert information and change it so it can fit into a book of you!