NoSelfSelf

Its a peer pressure thing, virginity shaming was always a pointless game but it has some truth to how socially and life capable you are but it might be also pointless argument because to have sucess with business doesnt match with being sucessful with women or socially (if thats what someone messure sucess)so at this point i dont get it...

@Breakingthewall girlfriends are not therapist

@Someone here Because of your level of thinking that you have right now you can't be a man by you following be this be that,you will never do it because if its just that you would be it already... So you need a coach to show you what you are missing, you cant do it alone because you dont know whats stopping you....

By getting coached by a man...

Salute to the new mods!

@Leo Gura I dont get how is this not non duality one conciousness that has infinite possible dreams inside it i dont get how's different?

@lxlichael ?‍♂️

You are still playing games with what you are saying, real enlightement is not for everyone its complete seeing of a dream,you saying just stop playing game like its a piece of cake, we are talking about death here...

@Someone here By replacing it with trust in yourself which starts with valuing your own thinking for yourself... I mean its a whole process its alot to it but its basically why women seek men because they are beating at their own drum... There is a practice to set it all off but i dont think you ready for this ?

Perfect life is realizing that there is nobody who can tell you or there is nowhere the rule or guru who can tell you what perfect life is but you... Perfect life is designed to your own unique authenticity, everything is made for you from you...

He can see what others cant ?

There is lot to it but how i see it... guy will slut shame usually because he cant sleep with her and other people can ,basically if she would sleep with a guy it would be alright or because of low self esteem where that guy wants to be special to her but he cant...

Sorry to say its usually a waste of time to help, only if he really wants it ,not you wanting it for him and hes tagging along...

The more you see lies in yourself and how mind decieves you the more you can read subtle things that others are doing, where they lie, it becomes funny because they think they can lie but its seen from miles away... Women are good at this men need practice to feel and logically undrestand this subtle signs and ways..

@onacloudynight When you mention dating market immedietly i can read you as easily influenced guy with no sense of self,no original and critical thinking,gullible is the word, you believe in this nonsense like dating market and now that will affect your action and your direction of life in this case dating...hiding behind that so you avoid inner work to not see how weak you are.. You will also missjudge my message because your level of thinking is working againts you not for you...

You taking accountability and realizing how skewed your thinking is

Easy... push comfort zone towards something worth to you,almost every day and that's extremely hard to follow , thats probably single most important reason why there are few "extraordinary" people... Sacreficing feeling good to be extraoridinary on daily basis...

Someone who knows about kundalini help ?

@Razard86 Cmon man this is dating section...

@Razard86 That's a really broad queastion but i can give examples Weak is being in reaction,being overly emotional(affected easily),passive,not being able to assert yourself(no spine),giving excuses,victim mentality(others are the reason) etc. Strong is opposite not making excuses taking accountability,being driven by his own codes rules of sucess,going for what you want not being affected by outside because inside is created by you,strong sense of identity and direction...

For a guy offline hands down...

@Razard86 i had that experience i thought that is quality of a weak men being inspired by a woman to take action instead already taking action more than anyone can inspire to..

@Emrie You are giving me plottwist after plotwist ? What i meant is that if you dont offer value to someone or they like you to have sex with you, if there is apsence of either of those 2 things, people around you dont care about you, so you should not care about them because it stiffles your growth focusing on stuff that wastes time like that... But if you are feminine then first part applys there are mostly insecure,creepy,inexperienced guys around because its tough to be a man... So you have to deal with it and when you see weakness like that you move on...

You dont hate men you hate males big difference... You seek experienced guy with game that knows what hes doing and those are rare, so you have to deal with this.. To become a man it takes alot of effort,skill and knowledge where some are either in the process of becoming or forever stuck in male weak mindset and being... As a woman you dont grasp how much one has to work for to become calibrated man etc. But you dont need to know(but for your sanity is good :)) im just opening your eyes if you dont know already... EDIT: I thought you are a woman writing this Why do you care what they do i mean ignore them and get rid of loser friends, nobody cares about you like that if you dont do something for them, so its a waste of time to think about them and not focusing on yourself...

By realizing that you are defining yourself with past you! with past knowledge,level of thinking etc. Which is not you right now and now you learned what you should avoid those mistakes in the future...