NoSelfSelf

You cure it by having options with girls(which is not easy task) then you wont pick a girl because of sex(aka shes an easy fruit to pick), you pick her because you value her as a whole... Thats why guys with no game and pick up skills dont find someone they want, but someone they end up with,if there is love that would be the contribution to it...

How you communicate with yourself first, your communication with yourself then with others...

By bypassing ego with your own creation of how you gonna be, do and think...its you who's the boss not ego if that makes sense...

@Tyler Robinson All good

@Tyler Robinson doesnt matter if im a mosquito or mod i decided not to bother with that so dont reply to me with agressive tone you can say what you want but ill tell you what you can and cant do based on talking to me...

@Tyler Robinson dont tell me what to do take care...

@Tyler Robinson i dont wanna go into it touchy subject it seems..

If you have those thoughts and feelings often, you should seek professional help this forum is not for this kind of problems... Dont post stuff like this here pm some of the mods if you need to talk... Take care...

@StarStruck ?

@StarStruck True to that but you cant built things if you are not on yourself you gonna follow and repeat game of others or wanna be in others game to secretly get something... You still wrote that with others in mind(self help forum i know) it takes time until you dont make it about anyone and just you.. Thats why guy with no game doesnt trust himself and ask everyone for advice all the time and it never changes...

You are a woman congratulations!

@Byun Sean being selfish is necessity but someone whos really selfish goes too far,people here imo need to become more selfish so it evens out...

@StarStruck Thats the thing you cant have game and grow if you dont focus on yourself, thats why it can be seen if someone is not on themselves but on other people, they dont have strong game...mind is trying to do everything to focus on the "outside" but if you are a student of the game slowly you will focus only on your own game its a process....

Get what you saying, coming to realization that its all a dream is what is also part of the dream... Conciousness is scary it can dream whatever it wants and how it wants it...

@StarStruck But you are not no ordinary human right?

Why do you care about some other mans life wake up!

@Heart of Space Nah dude i wont do that

@Vrubel Good job! It doesnt matter she could be dating 5 different kind of guys she could be sleeping with some guy and coming on a date with you 20 min later you will never know whats going on, so only thing is doing you...

@something_else Alright there are levels to the game it all depends what works for you..

@Vrubel Either shes busy or other guys fell off so she texted you they have alot of game...

@something_else she doesnt need to reply with voice messages but she will reply when she feels more comfortable and you are missing on big part of texting game if you just text her its boring.. Every time you voice message or video it gives you an advantage over guys that dont do it and she will reply those voice messages and videos if you made them good every time she comes back to them she will think about you... But you do what you want guy that hits her from all angles is better off than just texting..

Interesting you could sent voice message and video message as first messages to make her remember your presence, text doesnt make her hooked always... You always givem them your number and tell them to call and text you at specific time its better than asking for number..

@meta_male yeah giving women what they want is fail 90% of time, as a man you must know what she wants and when she wants it and if you give her to lead,meaning that you go along to where she wants it to go(what she wants) usually fails but not always its how it is...best thing imo is do what you want and what she wants comes after sometimes what she wants comes first because you see its best for situation its not simple as follow few steps...

God help us all ?

Only thing you fucking up imo is her getting in your head...