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That bug started weeks ago i thought you and others caught up to that...i didnt have that problem yet..
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@Tahuti that's like saying big and strong=easy goal in football
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If you dont have meaning then your lifes meaning is to find meaning
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Sensitivity is one thing but the way you put the title "it makes you feel" thats feminine and you can change that...
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@Majed No,what im saying is havin woman in mind is why you cant have game because you are looking how to get them instead focusing on you.. When you talk to girl you are imagining what to say then you say it,when you plan where to move you are planing where to move based upon what you imagining it to be there is no women in game its you... If you have woman in mind you are pedestalizing her to see what she would like, approaching her based on what you think she would like to hear etc. In the process puting yourself second aka beneath her...
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@Majed Yes you are because you are looking at being good with women aka having sex with them,when you do that they are in your head all the time and thats pedestalization right there...there shouldnt even be women in your head but what do i know
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You are putting women above yourself, thats why they are natural they dont do that...
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NoSelfSelf replied to Razard86's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
@michaelcycle00 how can world posibally accept something they dont understand? They will start to judge you, give you names as weird etc to try to fit you in their box like they got put in the box in some day of their lifes when they acted like themselves... If you care about that then they will put you in a box as they did and now you suffer and cant accept yourself until they accept you.(they must challenge you until they see they cant change you) If you dont care then they will start to accept you and be forced to be in your box.... You surely have had an experience where you didnt like how somebody acts or looks, but more he expressed that unapologetic side of him you started to accept him and even like him! -
You must watch Wednesday very meta
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NoSelfSelf replied to Razard86's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
You cant accept who you are fully as long as you care about outside world more than yourself.Lets be honest you are slave of the outside world as much as the other guy...its just empty phrases i accept this and that... -
@StarStruck Great anolgy wrong thread..
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@StarStruck its all about positioning i love chess great anolgy ! Putting yourself in a position to show who you are Putting yourself in a position to show why she should sleep with you Putting yourself in a position to make her think about you...etc.
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@Tyler Robinson You cant never get tired of expanding who you are,but the catch is there is no help to expanding yourself,you are on your own.For example if we take imagination and creativity it takes your own uniqueness to start to work on this.Its like building your own world in your mind for yourself and nobody can tell you for what you will build this world etc. So its easy for the outside world to give you everything on a plate..enterteiment tv shows etc. (so you dont have to build it for yourself) Because its tough to build everything for yourself and expand it every day we are mostly codependent minded... I dont know if this makes any sense probably doesnt
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What i learned the other day is that self improvement has alot of assumptions in advice, expecially in dating they say be confident for example, but thats assumption you have the foundation to be confident which many dont,so you basically dont have foundation for growth you are building it on shaky ground... When you try to change something you change it like house changing its exterior thinking now its great house.. You have to change the construction and then other things otherwise it will always be broken... Challenge is to find the foundation for growth you looking to get because thats where it all starts from... Approach to growth is taken like learning college math and you dont know the basics of math just bypassing it thinking i dont need the basics... Or englightment work and you hate yourself its backwards...
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@Tyler Robinson Your own self! because its infinite in absolute and relative sense...
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@John Paul dude ?♂️
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Hahah
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Someone with game is upfront with everything hes doing with a woman, he always has a take it or leave it attitude....
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@Leo Gura That's my concerne learning is what we are doing and it's not really hitting on a level of who we are, its not changing us on a deeper level.Cant reach game with just doing stuff also. Its a great well developed looking scoffolding, over a rotten foundation of a house ,in the show i see shes operating from that deeper level but i dont know how to reach it yet fully. Mybe im self decieved in some way but im not convinced that doing is the answer(just a part of it) i have a hunch its something deeper...at the end of the day woman are attracted to the I am of me(who i am on deeper level,btw im not doing this for women to like me or something) reaching that place is my aim if this all make any sense...and you can say my personality that wants to know the exact truth on deeper level is on my way... Edit:thats why doing lets say changing looks that is everyone obssesed with doesnt change anything
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@Leo Gura Watched it backed in the day could give it a rewatch!...and what i noticed all advice is assuming that you already having foundation for game,so its always a process of faking it till you make it, not really geniunly growing but taking on concepts and techniques on top of bad foundation where you end up being good at manipulating who you are in context of women and its not coming from a core of who we are.Then you can aquire sex but you really havent changed into something from the inside that much.(just my observation)...
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You cant be serious i almost wanting to lock the thread...
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@Emotionalmosquitoexplain darkness Because masculine man influence women, while males are influenced by the woman...in the show shes self suffiecient she doesnt need anyone same here you dont need her but want her to be part of your path, that you made for yourself(you choose whats her role on your path)but here you want her to fullfill the psychological needs that she wants from a man its backwards...
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@Linda22 That's nice to hear...if you have any queastions regarding the path feel free to ask take care....
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@Ulax There must be coupled with real life action 100% Do 10 approches and then see if you are having attitudes and mindsets like that character then you are good to go.. If you care about so called rejection if she affects you by her "beauty" then you dont have foundation that is displayed...
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@aurum lets say they wont like it, then queastion comes is being liked more important than being the best you possible, is being the king of your mind better than being a slave of worlds ways,definitions and how things are...being self suffiecent or dependable of others? I dont think mind works to have it both...