NoSelfSelf

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  1. @StarStruck its all about positioning i love chess great anolgy ! Putting yourself in a position to show who you are Putting yourself in a position to show why she should sleep with you Putting yourself in a position to make her think about you...etc.
  2. @Tyler Robinson You cant never get tired of expanding who you are,but the catch is there is no help to expanding yourself,you are on your own.For example if we take imagination and creativity it takes your own uniqueness to start to work on this.Its like building your own world in your mind for yourself and nobody can tell you for what you will build this world etc. So its easy for the outside world to give you everything on a plate..enterteiment tv shows etc. (so you dont have to build it for yourself) Because its tough to build everything for yourself and expand it every day we are mostly codependent minded... I dont know if this makes any sense probably doesnt
  3. What i learned the other day is that self improvement has alot of assumptions in advice, expecially in dating they say be confident for example, but thats assumption you have the foundation to be confident which many dont,so you basically dont have foundation for growth you are building it on shaky ground... When you try to change something you change it like house changing its exterior thinking now its great house.. You have to change the construction and then other things otherwise it will always be broken... Challenge is to find the foundation for growth you looking to get because thats where it all starts from... Approach to growth is taken like learning college math and you dont know the basics of math just bypassing it thinking i dont need the basics... Or englightment work and you hate yourself its backwards...
  4. @Tyler Robinson Your own self! because its infinite in absolute and relative sense...
  5. @John Paul dude ?‍♂️
  6. Someone with game is upfront with everything hes doing with a woman, he always has a take it or leave it attitude....
  7. @Leo Gura That's my concerne learning is what we are doing and it's not really hitting on a level of who we are, its not changing us on a deeper level.Cant reach game with just doing stuff also. Its a great well developed looking scoffolding, over a rotten foundation of a house ,in the show i see shes operating from that deeper level but i dont know how to reach it yet fully. Mybe im self decieved in some way but im not convinced that doing is the answer(just a part of it) i have a hunch its something deeper...at the end of the day woman are attracted to the I am of me(who i am on deeper level,btw im not doing this for women to like me or something) reaching that place is my aim if this all make any sense...and you can say my personality that wants to know the exact truth on deeper level is on my way... Edit:thats why doing lets say changing looks that is everyone obssesed with doesnt change anything
  8. @Leo Gura Watched it backed in the day could give it a rewatch!...and what i noticed all advice is assuming that you already having foundation for game,so its always a process of faking it till you make it, not really geniunly growing but taking on concepts and techniques on top of bad foundation where you end up being good at manipulating who you are in context of women and its not coming from a core of who we are.Then you can aquire sex but you really havent changed into something from the inside that much.(just my observation)...
  9. You cant be serious i almost wanting to lock the thread...
  10. @Emotionalmosquitoexplain darkness Because masculine man influence women, while males are influenced by the woman...in the show shes self suffiecient she doesnt need anyone same here you dont need her but want her to be part of your path, that you made for yourself(you choose whats her role on your path)but here you want her to fullfill the psychological needs that she wants from a man its backwards...
  11. @Linda22 That's nice to hear...if you have any queastions regarding the path feel free to ask take care....
  12. @Ulax There must be coupled with real life action 100% Do 10 approches and then see if you are having attitudes and mindsets like that character then you are good to go.. If you care about so called rejection if she affects you by her "beauty" then you dont have foundation that is displayed...
  13. @aurum lets say they wont like it, then queastion comes is being liked more important than being the best you possible, is being the king of your mind better than being a slave of worlds ways,definitions and how things are...being self suffiecent or dependable of others? I dont think mind works to have it both...
  14. @aurum Social skill is a skill inside the game so im not here looking at that, im looking at her attitudes and mindsets that is foundation to learn game... Nobody will look like this girl shes 1of1 thats basically the point of this, there is nobody like her and shes misunderstood because nobody knows how she operates, shes unique now thats game and level of thought that is more impressive and admirable, than anyone with great social skills in my humble opinion...
  15. @Majed we are mismatching theories because what im talking about is centered around me what you talking about is centered around women... yeah there is alot of practice involved i dont see where im denying that Im not demonizing pleasure im saying that that would be a tragedy if thats the only focus of this thing...thats like saying material sucess is all there is to life there is bigger things to get out of life...
  16. @Majed so basically sucess with women is self validation and pleasure.. For me that is like a desert i wouldnt be able to do it just for that ,for me its more important to build character and to learn game because its beautiful and freeing im doing it for freedom im attracted to that ..
  17. @Majed what is sucess with women? I dont see that theory will ever grow me like this im presenting I dont keep track of that but i think its close to a 100...
  18. @Majed Im talking about foundation here of the game, which " i dont care attitude" is just one piece of the puzzle(crucial) and yeah it takes alot of skills too but you are jumping to things without grasping the basics because if you knew foundation then you will know that rejection doesnt exist...(and its not metaphisical like it sounds) trial and error is needed like for everything you judging my post is also sign of caring... Game has nothing to do with people or women...(but its practiced with them so its confusing ) im still trying to grasp the conceptual part tho
  19. @Something Funny that's definition of game i got it from few that teaches the real thing...
  20. @Something Funny Nice!,biggest thing about what you saying about not giving a f, is that shes not defined by the outside world aka not caring about it..so basically in game you dont really care or communicate with outside world you communicate with yourself ...see how she makes it all about her and her views etc. You basically is defined by outside world and care about it so you want to learn social skills to get something from them which is all bacķwards(same with me so you dont get offended ) Thats why it doesnt work because you need it so you cant express who you truly are because you have no game meaning your standards and way of being that doesnt care about the world(it can only come as foundation that you only care about you its not possible other way around because then you are faking it or manipulating) Being a constant in the world that is always changing One mind one way (game)
  21. @aurum Yeah IDGAF attitude is huge,why you think its not practical ?
  22. @Something Funny then you have to watch it treat it like a book club :D,because its not the same as me saying to you here without the context of scenes and your objections , because its a different perspective and way you will see when i point it out to you!
  23. @Something Funny its about the girl that cant fit into society so she is transfered to special school... Lets use your post ,she said "feelings makes you weak" so thats one characteristic shes not run by her feelings that much... If you dont wanna watch it then dont, i wont just handing to you information, helping you being lazy...