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@KH2 then dont talk to me simple as that

@KH2 that's how your mind f## you over stay in loser mentality

@StarStruck guy with game doesnt see her as 10/10 hes 10/10 in his mind she doesnt matter because game is not about women its about him. You mentioned chess as analogy guy with game sees the whole board as him(his moves his everything) and pieces and opponent are second you see opponent and pieces first and board doesnt matter to you... What makes her 10/10 can she spawn money from thin air?

@StarStruck Who doesnt make mistakes ? Fearing making a mistake because you dont think you can have many women so that one woman is all be all for you as they call scarecity mindset...

@KH2 For you not because you have no trust in yourself and its not about being entertaining its about not talking at her but talking to her...

Again you typed something boring in text, expecting things from her and now you are hurt because how could she have an option to say no to you ? Its all because you dont have game...

This is very odd first you asking for a friend but actually is you and if you have social anxiety no night or day matters it sucks both even nightgame sucks more there is no shelter... And you putting day or night as the problem not you....

They all do this because they are insecure..

You cant have good relationship if you are not selfish for yourself, then you treat them how you treat yourself from your own selfishness for yourself... Not being selfish is being a nice guy that doesnt work,because you look to make someone happy first...

That bug started weeks ago i thought you and others caught up to that...i didnt have that problem yet..

@Tahuti that's like saying big and strong=easy goal in football

If you dont have meaning then your lifes meaning is to find meaning

Sensitivity is one thing but the way you put the title "it makes you feel" thats feminine and you can change that...

@Majed No,what im saying is havin woman in mind is why you cant have game because you are looking how to get them instead focusing on you.. When you talk to girl you are imagining what to say then you say it,when you plan where to move you are planing where to move based upon what you imagining it to be there is no women in game its you... If you have woman in mind you are pedestalizing her to see what she would like, approaching her based on what you think she would like to hear etc. In the process puting yourself second aka beneath her...

@Majed Yes you are because you are looking at being good with women aka having sex with them,when you do that they are in your head all the time and thats pedestalization right there...there shouldnt even be women in your head but what do i know

You are putting women above yourself, thats why they are natural they dont do that...

@michaelcycle00 how can world posibally accept something they dont understand? They will start to judge you, give you names as weird etc to try to fit you in their box like they got put in the box in some day of their lifes when they acted like themselves... If you care about that then they will put you in a box as they did and now you suffer and cant accept yourself until they accept you.(they must challenge you until they see they cant change you) If you dont care then they will start to accept you and be forced to be in your box.... You surely have had an experience where you didnt like how somebody acts or looks, but more he expressed that unapologetic side of him you started to accept him and even like him!

You must watch Wednesday very meta

You cant accept who you are fully as long as you care about outside world more than yourself.Lets be honest you are slave of the outside world as much as the other guy...its just empty phrases i accept this and that...

@StarStruck Great anolgy wrong thread..

@StarStruck its all about positioning i love chess great anolgy ! Putting yourself in a position to show who you are Putting yourself in a position to show why she should sleep with you Putting yourself in a position to make her think about you...etc.

@Tyler Robinson You cant never get tired of expanding who you are,but the catch is there is no help to expanding yourself,you are on your own.For example if we take imagination and creativity it takes your own uniqueness to start to work on this.Its like building your own world in your mind for yourself and nobody can tell you for what you will build this world etc. So its easy for the outside world to give you everything on a plate..enterteiment tv shows etc. (so you dont have to build it for yourself) Because its tough to build everything for yourself and expand it every day we are mostly codependent minded... I dont know if this makes any sense probably doesnt

What i learned the other day is that self improvement has alot of assumptions in advice, expecially in dating they say be confident for example, but thats assumption you have the foundation to be confident which many dont,so you basically dont have foundation for growth you are building it on shaky ground... When you try to change something you change it like house changing its exterior thinking now its great house.. You have to change the construction and then other things otherwise it will always be broken... Challenge is to find the foundation for growth you looking to get because thats where it all starts from... Approach to growth is taken like learning college math and you dont know the basics of math just bypassing it thinking i dont need the basics... Or englightment work and you hate yourself its backwards...

@Tyler Robinson Your own self! because its infinite in absolute and relative sense...

@John Paul dude ?‍♂️